# My first night with the Mones **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 26, 2009, 2:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-night-with-the-mones/34414 "2009-11-26T14:38:28Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Dretne](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/f4b2a3/32.png) [@Dretne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dretne)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2009, 2:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-night-with-the-mones/34414/1 "2009-11-26T14:38:28Z")
Hey all PheroTalkers, My name is ‘Dretne’ I’m a 25 year old guy and I live in Southern California. I’m a musician and a recording engineer - I like to play guitar, sing & write songs, and I love working in the studio. You would think with all those thing that chicks “love” going for me I wouldn’t need any extra help, but I’ve always had fear-based issues when it comes to meeting women and dating. I think it comes from mainly from not knowing how to handle situations. Recently I’ve been taking action in this area of my life, reading books by various PUA’s and I’ve noticed a real positive change lately. I’m inherently kind of a quiet, shy guy, I’ve also had the nice guy problem with women AKA the ‘disease to please.’ I’ve really come along way in overcoming this aspect of my personalty and coming out of my ‘shell,’ and most people I meet now wouldn’t believe I have any confidence issues, and would probably describe me as outgoing. But despite the progress I’ve made, it’s been relatively slow-going and the main issues I face when meeting women are inner-game issues, such as being nervous, concerned about whether I’m good-looking enough, generally a lack of superiority when it comes to interacting with women. My experience is that even if I **do** all the things a dominant man would do and **act** as if I am the shit, if I don’t truly believe it one the inside, then it doesn’t have the same effect. It’s as if women have this sixth sense, like the intuitive ability to read my emotional state. That’s where the Mones come in. I was always interested since the first time I heard about pheromones and I believed in the science. I read an online ad for Pherlure about 2 years ago and bought a bunch of the stuff, but I never noticed it do anything for me. Just now I did a little research and found out it’s a bunk product. So tonight for the first time I tried on some REAL pheromones which my friend just bought from Smartmones, we put on some Alpha A314 & [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), and another friend put on Turn Up The Heat. And now I know what the reaction is _supposed to be._ Women were definitely more receptive to me, looking my way a lot more and open to touching. Afterwards we had a long debate about whether it’s really the mones or not. One friend thought it could be a placebo effect - that because we _believed_ we were more attractive and that we would have better luck, that we in turn made our own luck. It’s a valid debate, there is no question I was more outgoing and fearless than usual. I definitely did feel different, and it’s hard to tell whether it’s a real phenomenon - or if my _belief_ that I was being perceived with more sexual attraction made me more confident. So we decided the only real way to find out for ourselves is to do a series of tests, where one night we put on the pheromones, and another night we put on a similar fragrance oil, and so on, without our friend knowing which one he has on. That will eliminate the “belief” factor and all he will have to go on is the actual experience. Then, say at the end of the week, after he writes down his experiences with meeting women each night of the week, we will tell him which nights he had on the pheromones and which nights he was wearing the placebo. I am interested to find out the results, and I can’t wait to post them on here for you all! Anyway, what I am hoping to get out of this experience is to increase my sexual attraction from the opposite sex, make me stand out, and help make women’s first impression of me be one of desire instead of nice guy or normal guy. Also I hope to increase my own feelings of sexual power and inner confidence, and ability to handle situations, learn how to escalate smoothly, and have many dates with hot women! I also want to find the right pheromone concoction that complements my personality just right to the point of uncontrollable attraction, simultaneously helping me learn more about myself and who I really am. I’m hoping this will be the advantage I have when I meet that next really awesome, sexy chick, that pushes me over the edge from being too ‘average’ to being the guy she wants. Thanks for reading my post! ~Dretne~ ---
**Author:** ![Snoopyace](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/snoopyace/32/1727_2.png) [@Snoopyace](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Snoopyace)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2009, 2:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-night-with-the-mones/34414/2 "2009-11-26T14:56:53Z")
very cool! It definitely sounds like you are on the right track! The only way to be sure the pheros are helping is to test them out. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2009, 3:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-night-with-the-mones/34414/3 "2009-11-26T15:22:46Z")
Welcome to the forum. We’ll be anticipating learning the results of your experiment. Think carefully about what you want. It could be that some aspects of your personality you consider weaknesses are actually your strengths. Deep inside you know the answers concerning the proper direction for yourself. When the outer part knows you will be in a good position to choose [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) tools to use. ---
**Author:** ![Snoopyace](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/snoopyace/32/1727_2.png) [@Snoopyace](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Snoopyace)\ **Post date:** [November 26, 2009, 4:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-night-with-the-mones/34414/4 "2009-11-26T16:32:31Z")
> [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](#): > > Welcome to the forum. > > We’ll be anticipating learning the results of your experiment. > > Think carefully about what you want. It could be that some aspects of your personality you consider weaknesses are actually your strengths. Deep inside you know the answers concerning the proper direction for yourself. When the outer part knows you will be in a good position to choose pheromone tools to use. This is fantastic advice! 🙂 This is something that I had to learn as well. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 27, 2009, 7:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-night-with-the-mones/34414/5 "2009-11-27T19:14:13Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones. Please call our hot-line and select extension one and Steve will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.