# My first "real" order- Help?? **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [March 28, 2011, 3:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-real-order-help/49568 "2011-03-28T03:44:05Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![cecelyn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e19b73/32.png) [@cecelyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cecelyn)\ **Post date:** [March 28, 2011, 3:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-real-order-help/49568/1 "2011-03-28T03:44:05Z")
Ok ya’ll, I did a small order of togo’s- IH IO and IS. I got a sample of MX342. IH- wonderful! Very honest discussions IO- random ppl talking to me in stores, A LOT 🆒 but nothing scary. IS- makes me feel happy and upbeat- I ran out of this one first. MX342- ??? A few experiences: I did OD one time. I was preparing to go to the club with some friends and applied then re-applied several times with all three. On the drive I was very agitated and my friend had not seen me like this before, I am usually fairly calm. She told me she hoped I would not be mean with her once I started drinking LOL. I ended up tired, bored, and rather disinterested. I didn’t feel like drinking either 😕. The new guy I am seeing poured out all types of stuff in our first meeting alone. He said he didn’t know why he was telling me all this stuff, he had never shared so much with anyone (he’s 36!), He got tongue-tied a few times and wouldn’t stop talking. I almost felt bad, like I overwhelmed him. I was wearing all three at this point- IH IO and IS. I recently went to his house wearing just IH and IO because I am out of the IS. He went to get something from his drawer and handed me his masturbatory device (a gel sleeve) and stated what it was, then went back to rifling through his drawer. Once he found what he was looking for he continued with the convo until I asked him what he wanted me to do with the gel sleeve, at this point he snatched it out of my hand, bewildered, and said he had no idea why he showed it to me LMAO. He is a very respectful man, and I’m sure he was not trying to be disgusting. I just found it hilarious. With MX342 I was holding my breath often and had a headache. I’m not sure if the headache was from holding my breath or just the mix itself. I tried it 2x’s and both times had the same results. Ideas? Ok, so I have read some posts and come up with great info, I just need help narrowing down the list. I don’t want to duplicate effects with mones that are very similar, and I also have a limited budget. Here is what I have so far in the running: IO IH IS IS/B MX135 MX138 TAA TAF Would love opinions. The guy I am seeing now is wonderful but has 3 jobs, 2-3 classes/wk, and works out 5 days/wk. SO… I don’t know that this will last since I hardly see him. I have goals- want to start college for the 1st time soon, building new relationships of all kinds, and I need more energy and decisiveness.😕 Also, I work from home and don’t have too much opportunity to experiment on others except on the weekends and at the club. I’ve gone about as far as I can go with my job and am mind-numbingly BORED, but don’t need a change if I’m going to start school. Ok, this is a book, thanks for reading if you made it this far LOL. I know mones are not a miracle but if I can enhance what is already there I would be very happy. ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [March 28, 2011, 8:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-real-order-help/49568/2 "2011-03-28T08:54:57Z")
Hi cecelyn! 🙂 Thanks for the report! So you did the phero baptism! I know it’s hard to resist. 😃 I’m curious to know how many sprays of each you used and where you applied them? You’re right pheromones aren’t a magical potion but they can seem like one if you take the time and have a little patience to learn to use them correctly. It’s worth it! Now that you’ve blessed yourself with all of them at once, try using them one at a time. You need to do that so you can figure out your “sweet spot”, that’s how many sprays of each product work for you. Believe it or not less is often more when it comes to pheromones. Why use more of the precious elixir than you need? After you test them individually, to see how each one effects you and those around you, then you can layer them to better achieve your desired effects. 🙂 [How to find your sweet spot...](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-your-sweet-spot/22146) Yeah, sounds like you socked it to him pretty good! Him presenting the gel sleeve to you is…oh my… lol! He’ll be scratching his head over that one for awhile. 😃 At least you know he must be rather comfortable with his sexuality. No wonder he needs it with all he has going on. Sounds like he really doesn’t have much time to date. You working from home means that, perhaps, you’re able to be a little more flexible/accommodating to his very busy schedule…if you can deal with being squeezed in. I know what you’re saying about it lasting under the circumstances he’s up against. I don’t mind and understand if a guy is busy with work/school/family obligations/other interests. I get it. Everyone has to work for what they want out of life. I’m busy too and I ain’t hangin’ around just waiting for him. It’s good to know that neither one of us expects to be… the be all and end all… for each other in a relationship. Although after awhile if I eventually discover that I’m down too far on his “to do” list, even if his intentions are good…well…adiós muchacho. I can be patient waiting for someone I want and don’t mind longing for him a bit but if he’s rarely available and it’s always a struggle getting together then it’s not gonna work out for the long haul. I’m just not the sit around and pine for you type. I don’t want him or me to feel guilty/stressed out about “having” to be together when he needs to apply himself elsewhere. Of course, that’s me. I’m not trying to discourage you at all, cecelyn. We are talkin’ turkey, or rather, beefcake 😃, just my two centavos. If you really like him, I’d hang in there for awhile and see where it goes and if he can really make time for a relationship that works for both of you. As for what to get next… IO, IH, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), IS/B and TAA are in stock. Unfortunately MX135 is history/gone/RIP, there’s no word on whether or not MX138 will be restocked or suffer the same fate, and TAF is out of stock as well. IO is 70% a-nol/30% b-nol. IH is 70% b-nol/30% a-nol. TAA is the main component in Instant Shine, which also contains other unknown molecules. IS/B is the \*new \*version and I haven’t tried it yet so, unfortunately, I can’t comment as to if the effects are similar to the previous versions of that product or not. I have no idea if it even compares. MX342 is part of the P78 Test Pack for Women - MX341, MX342, MX343, MX344, MX345, MX346. Lucky you that you get to try it without having to invest $173.95 for the entire test pack! 🆒 Headaches aren’t uncommon for new pheromone users. That should abate after you get used to wearing them. Hang in there. Also, you might try spraying away from your face/neck and spraying them to the back of your hair or on your wrists instead. In the summer, with more exposed skin, you can try spraying lower on your body. And don’t be inhaling/sniffin’ yourself when you spray. Hold your breath, spray, and walk outta the room. I know it sounds silly but you can also cover your nose with a tissue before you spray and keep it there until the mist settles down. I don’t know what the default scent of MX342 is but if what I suggested doesn’t work it could be the added scent that’s giving you the headache. Persevere a little more if you can and see if that’s what might be bothering you. Using IO and IH together is a bit overkill for me. In most instances I prefer IH over IO. I’m not fond of the motor mouth tendencies and run away, sometimes nonsensical, conversations that are inspired by IO. I prefer the effects of IH as it provokes a more intimate connected feeling of having known someone for a long time and is particularly good for “bonding”. Under most circumstances I’ve found it does more to further my objectives than IO. That said IO could be preferable to IH in some circumstances as it’s good for loosening tongues, in general, and therefore often makes approaching/conversation easier on a lighter scale for both you and your adoring subjects. Well, I rattled on pretty good myself, lol, hope it helps you a little. Good luck with your guy and with school. I hope it works out the way you’d like it to. It’s never easy is it, lol. Keep us posted! Bella ---
**Author:** ![cecelyn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e19b73/32.png) [@cecelyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cecelyn)\ **Post date:** [March 28, 2011, 6:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-real-order-help/49568/3 "2011-03-28T18:51:15Z")
Ok, thank you for all the info! It was very helpful. I decided to go with the consumer line for several reasons- ease of use, what’s in stock, your info, my desired outcomes. IH 2x IS 2x IO 2x IS/B I will do the sweet spot testing. I didn’t keep track of how many sprays or where I put each one. I usually put IH and IO on my wrists to help get it out, and IS I put in my hair/neck areas. ---
**Author:** ![cecelyn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e19b73/32.png) [@cecelyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cecelyn)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2011, 9:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-real-order-help/49568/4 "2011-03-29T21:55:29Z")
Wow, I already got my order! Thanks for the TUTH as a free gift!! ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2011, 11:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-real-order-help/49568/5 "2011-03-29T23:18:45Z")
You go girl! 😃 Just be careful with TUTH. It’s primarily Androstenone, a male molecule meant to be worn by men. Although it’s also successfully worn by some women in small quantities, especially when trying to stir things up sexually. As with all [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/), effects are subjective. Everyone is different as to their reactions depending on a number of things like age, where you are in your menstrual cycle, and how much Androstenone exposure you are accustomed to and are able to tolerate, what venue you’re wearing it in, and who you’re with. Take it slow and try just one spray or even a small drop first to see how you react to it. You could also spray it on a willing male guinea pig/boyfriend to see how you react. 🆒 Whatever, it’s your party, baby! Have a blast! Bella ---
**Author:** ![cecelyn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/e19b73/32.png) [@cecelyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cecelyn)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2011, 12:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-real-order-help/49568/6 "2011-03-30T00:23:31Z")
Thank you, I will def keep that in mind. I have been reading on it since I got it so see what I can do with it… I think I may go with the guinea pig thing LOL