# My first test as a newbie... **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [November 16, 2008, 2:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-test-as-a-newbie/22931 "2008-11-16T02:13:20Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![unc4me](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/f19dbf/32.png) [@unc4me](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/unc4me)\ **Post date:** [November 16, 2008, 2:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-test-as-a-newbie/22931/1 "2008-11-16T02:13:20Z")
\*\*I received my first order and was so excited to get the chance to test all of my new products! After flirting and basically getting to know a guy at work for the past few months (I’ll call him “John”), we ended up going to a conference out of town together (with others as well). We had dinner together and I used 2 sprays each of [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Shine. It seemed to work as we talked most of the night and others kept coming over to join our table. The next night I used 2 sprays of Instant Sexiness in my hair with Instant Honesty and Shine on my neck and wrists. I got what I perceived as “hits” from just about every man in the place, but the one I wanted to notice. It was strange, but there were 2 men that seemed to react very strongly and kept coming around and being a little touchy, but polite. “John” didnt seem to react much at all, however there were a couple of times that he resurfaced after wandering off and we talked for awhile. It was not the reaction I was hoping for, so I tried again the next night when we all decided to go to a club. This time I put a drop of Primal Instinct (which I ordered a month or so ago with no real results) with 1 spray of the Instant Sexiness and 1 of the Instant Shine. Holy Smokes did I get some serious hits (even a rookie like me could have seen that working)! Only problem was that it mostly attracted older (40’s, white) guys that were fairly aggressive and one Jamaican gentleman about 40ish that was so touchy and blatantly sexual that it was completely inappropriate and a little unnerving. \*\* * * * **It all obviously worked, but I was hoping someone could shed some light on why it didnt seem to work very well on the one person I wanted it to work on. He was attentive, but not really touchy like the other men it attracted. We did sit up most of the night and talk, but there was more friendship/sibling type vibe than the attraction I was interested in. I even gave out a few subtle “hints/cues” to no avail. Did I not use the right combos or the right amounts? Did I use too much and it attracted only the aggressive men? Is there something else I can use in addition/instead?** * * * **SO sorry for the dissertation, but would love some advice/feedback/help from all of you pheromone gurus! 😃 I really love the products and could probably become a phero-junkie! What a great way to overcome my shyness and get back into the social arena after a long time!** ---
**Author:** ![madison](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/madison/32/546_2.png) [@madison](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/madison)\ **Post date:** [November 16, 2008, 2:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-test-as-a-newbie/22931/2 "2008-11-16T02:17:36Z")
Good deal : ) pheros have helped me so much too!! ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [November 16, 2008, 5:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-test-as-a-newbie/22931/3 "2008-11-16T05:18:45Z")
Hey sweetie! Glad to see that you were having fun with your pheros. You’ve got some nice hits there, you used only 2 sprays of is/a hmm? if you don’t mind can you tell us your age range? If you’re around your 20s then 2 sprays is probably enough (I usually have to use 2-4) but if you’re in your 30s-40s, you’d probably have to use more to see results 😉 Now for your questions 😃 > [@unc4me](#): > > \*\*It all obviously worked, but I was hoping someone could shed some light on why it didnt seem to work very well on the one person I wanted it to work on. He was attentive, but not really touchy like the other men it attracted. When you start wearing pheros, give it sometime. Your body needs time to adjust to your signature. Plus this guy “John” is probably thrown by your new signature, he’s probably thinking “Woah…is it just me? Or does she look like a hot mama today?! Damn!” lol, he’s probably trying to figure things out, poor boy. It’s also takes people (who know you) sometime to adjust to your new siggy. On the other hand, who knows, maybe he doesn’t like dominant girls, he might like tah girls better (tah = soft, kittenish girls) Don’t jump to conclusions too fast though, keep workin’ those pheros out, sometimes, it also takes some time to find the correct dosage/ in the right spot for you. It’s pretty much trial and error kinda fun 😃 It’s quite thrilling, when you find the perfect spot with the right dosage! > [@unc4me](#): > > We did sit up most of the night and talk, but there was more friendship/sibling type vibe than the attraction I was interested in. Do keep in mind that pheros wont make someone like you that way if they only like you as a friend from the beginning, they just work as enhancers, and the rest we’ve got to work for it lol Check this baby out [What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558) > [@unc4me](#): > > I even gave out a few subtle “hints/cues” to no avail. Did I not use the right combos or the right amounts? Did I use too much and it attracted only the aggressive men? Is there something else I can use in addition/instead? You seemed to have used nice pheros in difference combinations, and your dosage seems fine to me. But keep experimenting you’re still new and your body is trying to adapt to your new signature. I don’t think you OD’d it, and those aggressive men were probably aggressive by nature lol, I swear when I wore is/a most men were charming, and polite lol, got some stares too 😉 But then I guess it depends on situation, place…etc… Do read the link I included on the previous question. Sometimes, certain people wont be attracted to you no matter what. (I don’t mean this in a mean way my love! I’m sure you’re a real hot deal!) Pheros just enhance you, for example, if a 20 year old jock type of guy wore turn up the heat (which is a [pheromone](https://a314.com/) to arouse women), yes, I’d feel hot, yep I might find him smokin’. But if I’m not into “jock” looking guys, I will probably be like “woah, he’s hot…but I like nerds betters”, and I’d probably dismiss my thought about the jock, and go to the book club lol. So I think it’s a matter of sex in that part, it’s like I had a choice to flirt or get laid with the jock but I decided no- I personally like nerds better, but hey, I found a hot jock today. So it’s a matter of personal preference. Who knows, he might or might not be feeling the same way about you. If you’re only into seducing him, you could give LAM a try but from reports I’ve read, it’s more sexual and happy-go-lucky. I suggest you to give instant honesty a go though, it makes things more intimate. Do keep trying though, don’t give up yet! As time passes by you’ll be a pro 😉 Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![unc4me](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/f19dbf/32.png) [@unc4me](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/unc4me)\ **Post date:** [November 16, 2008, 2:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-test-as-a-newbie/22931/5 "2008-11-16T14:41:32Z")
Thanks so much for the response! I love playing with these and trying to figure out what the best combo is for certain situations! I just turned 40 so maybe I needed to use more than 2 sprays per your post. I’ll keep trying! As a prior skeptic (and a recently divorced female off the market for almost 14 years…ouch! 😮), I was amazed that I got any hits at all! What a confidence booster! I’m a true believer now… Thanks again and I’ll let everyone know how my next test goes. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [November 16, 2008, 11:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-test-as-a-newbie/22931/6 "2008-11-16T23:24:35Z")
Selva makes some great points: > [@msselva](#): > > When you start wearing pheros, give it sometime. Your body needs time to adjust to your signature. Plus this guy “John” is probably thrown by your new signature, he’s probably thinking “Woah…is it just me? Or does she look like a hot mama today?! Damn!” lol, he’s probably trying to figure things out, poor boy. It’s also takes people (who know you) sometime to adjust to your new siggy. > > On the other hand, who knows, maybe he doesn’t like dominant girls, he might like tah girls better (tah = soft, kittenish girls) > > Don’t jump to conclusions too fast though, keep workin’ those pheros out, sometimes, it also takes some time to find the correct dosage/ in the right spot for you. It’s pretty much trial and error I suggest you to give instant honesty a go though, it makes things more intimate. Do keep trying though, don’t give up yet! As time passes by you’ll be a pro > > Good luck! Like Selva sasy - he may be into you but the new phero-signature has his confused. Or he may respond better to TAH. It is a little trial and error at first as everyone is a little different and you have to find what works best for you. Unfortunately pheros are not magic and do not create what is not there … it could be that he only thinks of you as a friend … and I do not know if the pheros can ever change that. I know this is not what you are looking for … You have thrown out the hints but TBH quite often what a lot of women think of as hints fall into the the realm of way too subtle for most guys. You also saw the products working on the guys all around you. The IH may help open up some conversation so you can try to get an honest answer …