# my first test- Instant confusion **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 23, 2009, 5:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-test-instant-confusion/28315 "2009-04-23T17:51:16Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![red\_cat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/3be4f8/32.png) [@red\_cat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/red_cat)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2009, 5:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-test-instant-confusion/28315/1 "2009-04-23T17:51:16Z")
hi girls, I hope you don´t mind my mistakes. I´m not a native speaker. I want to report on my first experience a few weeks ago: my package arived so I was so exited to test my pheromones on my TG. the TG is an old good friend of mine. I´m in love with him all the time, bit he was in a relationship for many years so I held off because I didn´t wanted to disturb his relationship. now he is a single guy. I was hoping he is also interessted in me, but maybe he didn´t have the hurt to show it because he didn´t want to loose the friendship with me. I just wanted to push the situation on a swing. I hope you know what I mean: it´s hard to change the relationship whe you are old good buddies. I uesd: 2 spays of IS/b behind my ears, 1 spray of Instant Openness x2, inner elbow 1 spray of Instant Honesty x2, split between my wrists 1 spray of Instant Shine x2 to my chest we went out to an art gallery openning with some other friends. he gave me a hug and a kiss on my cheek, which is usual, but while doing so, he pushed me away and screemed : " you disgust me ". this is realy unusual for him, because he is a very decent person. so I followed him and asked him, what was wrong, because I couldn´t believe it. he told me I stink 😮. then we were standing in a circle of friends , he was avoiding eyecontact, which is also unusual. the whole evening he was staying away from me, not talking to me. usualy we were talking for hours beeing not able to stop. he didn’t even tell me good bye. a few days later I met him in a store coincidentally on the other side of the town which was a big surprise. but he seemed not to be verry happy about it. he just disappeared very fast without talking a lot, like he was a stranger not a very good old friend. this day I was only wearing a spay of [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). I was so down after that. I mean, I can accept it, if he´s not onto me that much or even not at all. I just wanted to find out. But he was not himself with my pheromones. ok, maybe I did to much of e goog for the first time. In the meantime I´m experimenting with IS/a, which is great and probably fits much better my personality. I thought, I can change my intimidating natural signature my using IS/b. Today I met him " nacked"- no pheromones. we were ourselfs again, very relaxed, very nice and funny.I asekd hi, what was wrong the other times. he told me, he had the feeling, i hit so much sexually on him, he felt like a victim. he could not explain why, because I didn´t behave unusualy and didn´t say much, but he felt a strong sexual vibe, he didn´t like. 😮 he told me, he wanted to talk to me about that anyway, because he is afraid I´m going to put our friedship in danger. Oh my god! what do you think about that?!! it´s a proof, the pheromones definitively worked. I was a giant hit!!! but a negative one. ok, I know, I have to go on testing. I want to hit him with IS/a the next time, and try different amount of sprays. but I´, afraid this guy doesn´t like the pheromones at all. I was in such a bad mood after the tests on him. it really changes relationships between people. i was even thinking, he doesn´t like me, he was just pretending the last years and he is an asshole and wanted to quit the friendship. by the way: I have great experiences with IS/a around other people. I will report the next time…🆒 ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2009, 6:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-test-instant-confusion/28315/2 "2009-04-23T18:36:23Z")
Have you tested each phero products by itself yet? Not mixed or combined with anything else? It is definitely a good idea to try the IS/a on your TG, but try each thing individually on him, so that you can isolate the phero that is turning him off. ---
**Author:** ![Tigerlilly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tigerlilly/32/2257_2.png) [@Tigerlilly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tigerlilly)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2009, 7:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-test-instant-confusion/28315/3 "2009-04-23T19:36:20Z")
> [@red\_cat](#): > > I uesd: 2 spays of IS/b behind my ears, > 1 spray of Instant Openness x2, inner elbow > 1 spray of Instant Honesty x2, split between my wrists > 1 spray of Instant Shine x2 to my chest > > I was so down after that. I mean, I can accept it, if he´s not onto me that much or even not at all. I just wanted to find out. But he was not himself with my pheromones. ok, maybe I did to much of e goog for the first time. > > Today I met him " nacked"- no pheromones. we were ourselfs again, very relaxed, very nice and funny.I asekd hi, what was wrong the other times. \*\*he told me, he had the feeling, i hit so much sexually on him, he felt like a victim. he could not explain why, because I didn´t behave unusualy and didn´t say much, \*\ ***but he felt a strong sexual vibe, he didn´t like. 😮 he told me, he wanted to talk to me about that anyway, because he is afraid I´m going to put our friedship in danger.** Hmmm… Yes, your pheros worked. Sounds like the IS/b and honesty worked, and worked very well. Sometimes we don’t like what we hear/experience. He told you his reaction to your pheros. He reacted to the IS/b, and probably to the vibes of the androstenols, and instead of opening up and enjoying it, he was repulsed. _ **I don’t think this is a phero problem.** _ Sounds like he _doesn’t want a relationship with you._ **I would not continue to wear IS a or b around this man**. Take him at his word. He wants to remain friends and _not go there_ with you. I know you say you love him. Love him and respect what your friendship means to him and let the dream of a sexual relationship go. Love the friendship. Love him being a part of your life, in a different way. it hurts, and it sucks, and its horrible. it takes time. But life goes on. I promise you. There is _always_ a tomorrow. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2009, 7:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-test-instant-confusion/28315/4 "2009-04-23T19:55:36Z")
> [@Tigerlilly](#): > > Hmmm… > > Yes, your pheros worked. Sounds like the IS/b and honesty worked, and worked very well. > > Sometimes we don’t like what we hear/experience. > > He told you his reaction to your pheros. He reacted to the IS/b, and probably to the vibes of the androstenols, and instead of opening up and enjoying it, he was repulsed. > > _ **I don’t think this is a phero problem.** _ > > Sounds like he _doesn’t want a relationship with you._ > > **I would not continue to wear IS a or b around this man**. Take him at his word. He wants to remain friends and _not go there_ with you. > > I know you say you love him. Love him and respect what your friendship means to him and let the dream of a sexual relationship go. Love the friendship. Love him being a part of your life, in a different way. > > it hurts, and it sucks, and its horrible. it takes time. > > But life goes on. I promise you. There is _always_ a tomorrow. I wasn’t looking at it from that angle, but more from just the pheros angle, but Tigerlilly is absolutely right.