Interesting life story Joao! You don’t hear that everyday 
As for the mones, you could go several ways. Generally speaking there are social, sexual and status pheromones. Start reading some of the stickly threads on the forum, like this one. Should be good for getting familliar with the products.
Assuming you’re mainly interested in the smell, self-effects, and effects on your direct family, I would go for something social like Instant Shine or Instant Openness, Should make for nice bubbly and positve atmosphere around the house, with lots of conversation.
Now you just have to wait a bit for your GC to be issued.
PS: never heard about the phero products you mentioned