# My journal: a Halloween bar night without pheromones first, for comparison **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Journals\ **Created:** [November 18, 2009, 7:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-journal-a-halloween-bar-night-without-pheromones-first-for-comparison/34192 "2009-11-18T19:36:30Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![MGuise](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/779978/32.png) [@MGuise](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MGuise)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2009, 7:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-journal-a-halloween-bar-night-without-pheromones-first-for-comparison/34192/1 "2009-11-18T19:36:30Z")
I thought I would start off my journal by writing about my experience **without any use of [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/)**. The avid reader may make comparisons. I am a young lady at the age of 23. Since I am not currently enrolled in college, I will be putting myself in club/bar situations to test my products. I will write down the last experience I had without the pheromones. * * * 10/31/09 (Saturday Night, Halloween Party at the local sports bar, 8:30pm - 2:00am) The bar was **packed** wall to wall with people. I was dressed in a modest costume with a red face mask on. I had arrived early and the first in costume, along with my male acquaintance. (Acquaintance will be used often as he is very good at reading body language and catching signals I may miss.) Within the first hour, my acquaintance noted that a guy in a black cap was staring me down from the bar. When I would look over, he would glance and then look away. When I would look away, he would stare over. He passed our table and glanced at me as he passed. He turned his head and glanced at me before going into another room. We spent the next hour eyeing each other back and forth. Come to find out, he was the lead singer of the band. After ‘lead singer’ began to set up with the band, a guy just walked right over to our table and sat down directly next to me, forcing me to scoot over. I looked at him oddly and he just kept staring at me directly in the eyes and smiling from beneath his mask. He introduced himself as Bobby and apparently he lives in the same town as myself, but we’ve never met. He laughed a lot and spoke plenty, giving my acquaintance a complete brush off. After talking for 15 minutes, he got up and went back to the bar. He returned two hours later to talk to me again and smiled at me repeatedly through the night. A guy in a vampire costume (with a blow up doll between his legs) walked by my table and I laughed at his costume. He smiled brightly at me. I got up to dance with my friend and vampire-guy danced nearby, smiling at me whenever I was facing his direction. At one point, I stumbled over my heels and bumped into vampire-guy, where he smiled at me again and asked if I was alright. I apologized and he said it was alright and gave me a gentle pat on the side. An elder man in a House costume approached my table while I was in the bathroom and began talking to my acquaintance. I sat back down and invited the man to sit and chat with us and he sat next to me. We talked for a half hour and we gave out our names. He offered to buy us a drink. _I honestly feel that I could have hit it off with any of these guys if I had pursued, however I made it known to each that I was not looking for a date._ * * * I did very well that night, receiving plenty of attention from all over. I smiled a lot to look ‘ **approachable** ’. I am not usually approached by people that I don’t know. Everyone that I spoke with was very kind to me and treated me with respect. When I would approach men (even those with girlfriends), I was received well and made sure that their girlfriends did not feel threatened or left out. If I can do this well on a night without pheromones, then I can’t wait to see how nights will be with pheromones on. ---
**Author:** ![MGuise](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/779978/32.png) [@MGuise](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MGuise)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2009, 1:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-journal-a-halloween-bar-night-without-pheromones-first-for-comparison/34192/2 "2009-11-20T01:00:00Z")
Yesterday I began testing out the first of my line of products. I will be keeping track of my experience with them and will post results. \*\* [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) How much: **One spray to the neck, one spray to the hair (2). \*\* Self Effects:** Within a few minutes, I began to feel more relaxed. I’ve been very stressed out for the past month, but with the Instant Shine I feel kind of like, “It is what it is.” I feel very optimistic. **Outcome:** My SO is very sensitive to spray/perfumes and he can pick up anything. When he came in, he smiled at me and kissed me and told me that I looked very beautiful. He seemed to be in a great mood the entire night and we sat and talked for over an hour about his job, Christmas, etc. We almost -never- talk. We may talk for 15 minutes a day and the rest of the time we go our separate ways. So fast forwarding to **8 hours later** and I put two more sprays on. (Once to neck, once to hair) and climbed into bed with him. I thought he was still asleep, but he rolled right over and put his arms around me. One thing lead to another and in the end, I was very satisfied. **Notes:** My SO is not usually very affectionate as he is stressed out from work/college, but he has been very attentive ever since I began wearing Instant Shine. I hope to always keep this in stock. ---
**Author:** ![MGuise](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/779978/32.png) [@MGuise](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MGuise)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2010, 5:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-journal-a-halloween-bar-night-without-pheromones-first-for-comparison/34192/3 "2010-08-10T05:04:41Z")
Well, it’s been a long time since I’ve been around. I have been using my pheromones religiously and wish I could have posted everything from November to now, but I’ve had a lot happen since then. While pheromones are wonderful for attracting people, they still won’t stop your spouse from straying… I learned the hard way when I discovered my beloved in bed with a woman twice my age and half my looks. I am just trying to take it one day at a time. I recently placed another order, I am hoping that this time I can jot down notes. I am more socially active with my new job, so I am sure I will have plenty to tell. Very sorry for not updating for so long. ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [August 11, 2010, 6:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-journal-a-halloween-bar-night-without-pheromones-first-for-comparison/34192/4 "2010-08-11T06:06:56Z")
> [@MGuise](#): > > Well, it’s been a long time since I’ve been around. I have been using my pheromones religiously and wish I could have posted everything from November to now, but I’ve had a lot happen since then. > > While pheromones are wonderful for attracting people, they still won’t stop your spouse from straying… I learned the hard way when I discovered my beloved in bed with a woman twice my age and half my looks. I am just trying to take it one day at a time. > > I recently placed another order, I am hoping that this time I can jot down notes. I am more socially active with my new job, so I am sure I will have plenty to tell. > > Very sorry for not updating for so long. No need to be sorry, you have many important things going on … take care. ---
**Author:** ![Sharpy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sharpy/32/347_2.png) [@Sharpy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sharpy)\ **Post date:** [August 11, 2010, 8:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-journal-a-halloween-bar-night-without-pheromones-first-for-comparison/34192/5 "2010-08-11T08:58:03Z")
> [@MGuise](#): > > Well, it’s been a long time since I’ve been around. I have been using my pheromones religiously and wish I could have posted everything from November to now, but I’ve had a lot happen since then. > > While pheromones are wonderful for attracting people, they still won’t stop your spouse from straying… I learned the hard way when I discovered my beloved in bed with a woman twice my age and half my looks. I am just trying to take it one day at a time. > > I recently placed another order, I am hoping that this time I can jot down notes. I am more socially active with my new job, so I am sure I will have plenty to tell. > > Very sorry for not updating for so long. Hey there, MGuise. Like [MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mvkbugatti/summary) said; no need for sorry. But from what you are telling us, you are familiar with this place and you know what it’s like here. So, I guess _‘welcome back’_ would be more appropriate. Also, good luck with the new job. It may, just be what you need right now. Warmest Regards Sharpus Au Raizer. (Sharpy…😃) (And fingers crossed, you get your personal stuff sorted, and, eventually, your desired outcome. Just know, that it does get easier with time…) ---
**Author:** ![MGuise](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/779978/32.png) [@MGuise](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MGuise)\ **Post date:** [August 12, 2010, 3:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-journal-a-halloween-bar-night-without-pheromones-first-for-comparison/34192/6 "2010-08-12T15:57:52Z")
So, last night I was able to test out my latest shipment (as well as a few from my old.) I deal with a lot of men of various ages at my job. It’s a gambling environment and I serve alcohol. * * * \*\*[Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) How much: **One spray to the neck, one spray to the hair, one split between the wrists (3). \*\* Self Effects:** Felt more upbeat, smiled a lot more during work, felt more talkative and sociable. **Outcome:** I sprayed this on before work because my parents were in a terrible mood and arguing with each other over money issues. After a little while, they began to settle down a bit, which is unusual. By the time I left for work, everyone was back in a good mood again. 45 minutes later, I arrive at work and pair up with another girl to hand out drinks to customers in a section. I was in a relatively good mood for the beginning of the night and felt more chatty with customers. Customers were also more talkative with me, usually they simply tip me and go back to their business without barely looking at me. I had an older guy (he’s a regular) that repeatedly tried to strike up conversation with me whenever I’d serve a new drink to him, and he was tipping a few dollars more than usual. By the end of my shift, I still felt like I was in a good mood, instead of dragging myself around. When it got down to counting tips, I noticed about a $25 raise in tips than my usual weekday nights, so I was happy about that. I work with a lot of cheap customers and the weekdays don’t get a lot of customers, so all in all, noticeable results. ---
**Author:** ![Cinammonkisses](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/cinammonkisses/32/1434_2.png) [@Cinammonkisses](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cinammonkisses)\ **Post date:** [August 12, 2010, 11:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-journal-a-halloween-bar-night-without-pheromones-first-for-comparison/34192/7 "2010-08-12T23:33:56Z")
> [@MGuise](#): > > So, last night I was able to test out my latest shipment (as well as a few from my old.) I deal with a lot of men of various ages at my job. It’s a gambling environment and I serve alcohol. > > * * * > > \*\*Instant Shine > > How much: **One spray to the neck, one spray to the hair, one split between the wrists (3). > \*\* > Self Effects:** Felt more upbeat, smiled a lot more during work, felt more talkative and sociable. > > **Outcome:** I sprayed this on before work because my parents were in a terrible mood and arguing with each other over money issues. After a little while, they began to settle down a bit, which is unusual. By the time I left for work, everyone was back in a good mood again. > > 45 minutes later, I arrive at work and pair up with another girl to hand out drinks to customers in a section. I was in a relatively good mood for the beginning of the night and felt more chatty with customers. > > Customers were also more talkative with me, usually they simply tip me and go back to their business without barely looking at me. I had an older guy (he’s a regular) that repeatedly tried to strike up conversation with me whenever I’d serve a new drink to him, and he was tipping a few dollars more than usual. > > By the end of my shift, I still felt like I was in a good mood, instead of dragging myself around. When it got down to counting tips, I noticed about a $25 raise in tips than my usual weekday nights, so I was happy about that. I work with a lot of cheap customers and the weekdays don’t get a lot of customers, so all in all, noticeable results. Great review. I’m in a tipping environment too. Tips help sooooooooo much don’t they 😃 I should look into [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) next. eta: Did you reapply at all during your shift? ---
**Author:** ![MGuise](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/779978/32.png) [@MGuise](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MGuise)\ **Post date:** [August 13, 2010, 6:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-journal-a-halloween-bar-night-without-pheromones-first-for-comparison/34192/8 "2010-08-13T06:17:22Z")
> [@Cinammonkisses](#): > > Great review. I’m in a tipping environment too. Tips help sooooooooo much don’t they 😃 I should look into Instant Shine next. > > eta: Did you reapply at all during your shift? Yes, 6 hours into my shift I freshened up with a spray split between my wrists and once on my neck. It was a nice perk up. =) And I have to agree, pheromones are sooo helpful in a tipping environment!