# My night at the bar= Hottie bartender's # **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [January 22, 2009, 1:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-night-at-the-bar-hottie-bartenders/25206 "2009-01-22T13:31:38Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![jessejester](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jessejester/32/1683_2.png) [@jessejester](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jessejester)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2009, 1:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-night-at-the-bar-hottie-bartenders/25206/1 "2009-01-22T13:31:38Z")
Well, I went out to a small beer and wine bar/pub last night. Chill, have a beer after work type crowd. Patrons were from their late 20’s to early 50’s. It was a non-choking establishment. I am not a regular at this place. I arrived a 7:00. At 6:30 I applied what I call my Instant Confidence Mix.(mainly because I have don’t have any confidence without it) 2x AMMO (1 to each side neck, pulse point in nape) 4x Instant Shine (2 to face, 1 to back of neck, 1 to hair) 2x Instant Openness (both split btwn wrists) I walked in and OMG was the bartender HOT. A 9-9.5 imho. She looked alot like Aida Mollenkamp from Ask Aida on the food network. My first thought was this woman was way, way out of my league. I walked up and she asked me what I wanted. I told her, but she didn’t hear me. I told her again and I said that i must have left my big boy voice at home. She laughed. After pouring my fine Boston lager she delivered it and asked me if I wanted to see a menu, I said no but I’d like to reserve the right to call for one later. Again she laughed at my stupid joke. She went on working and immediately the people around me struck up a convo with me about random stuff.(Obama, football, real estate) Convo went on and on, almost annoying, nothing really deep though. Allot of Bull S\*\* stuff(maybe from the Alpha-nol in the IO) Every now and then I look up when the bartender is walking toward me to see if there was any eye contact. There was a little with a small smile, but by no means worthy of calling it a hit. Not to much later I notice she is playing with her hair a lot and adjusting her clothes. It wasn’t really in my direction but she was definitely doing it consistently. I had 1/4 of my beer left and she showed up with a new beer for me. I did not ask for another. I thought that was weird. The bar started filtering out, not that many people left. Again I had not finished my beer and she showed up with a new one without asking. Now, some 50 yr old dude sitting a few stools down says “hey man the bartender has been checking you out”. I said “what are you talking about”. He said “I noticed she has been looking at you and I was going to the bathroom and heard her tell the waitress that she thought you were cute”. Leave it to some one else to notice the hit. So, its getting later and 2 more times she has brought me a beer without asking me if I want one. We started talking on and off in between when she was waiting the few customers that were left and cleaning up. Convos were good; I was holding my own with some funny statements here and there. Confidence was high so, around 10:15 I sprayed 1x of Instant Honesty to-go split between my wrist hoping the beta-nol might open her up to some more personal stuff. (would have sprayed more but I didn’t want to smell like I just sprayed cologne on myself in the bathroom) It seemed to work. She talked about her family and wanting to buy a house and getting roommates but then said that would get in the way of her walking around the house naked. Ok, now I am the only person left in the bar. 11:15 or so. She is cleaning, waitress is cleaning and I’m thinking this was my cue leave. She comes up with a beer and says sit around and talk to us while we clean. She plays some Three Days Grace on the jukebox and we BS some more. I finished my beer and said “Well I guess I should get out of here.” I was about to ask her if I could call her sometime when she says “hey let me give you my # so we can hang out sometime.” Big smile, tugging on her hair. I said Sounds great I look forward to it. She did not charge me for any of my beers. (of course I left a huge tip) I should have stuck around to see what she was doing after work. I had a to-go of TUTH in my pocket, probably should have used it. This was a major hit. No way in hell I would have pulled this off without pheros. They obviously had effect on her, but more importantly, they had a huge effect on me. I think I need to get some [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) in my next order. One more thing, I have tested each of these products separately and have recorded the results in a word document. Should I post the results in the forum, or start a journal and put them there? I’m not sure. When will mx203 be available again? * * * I am 31 yrs old, 5’ 9", 150 lbs., Caucasian, Blood type: O+ “If the doors of perception were cleansed every thing would appear to man as it is, infinite. For man has closed himself up, till he sees all things through narrow chinks of his cavern.” William Blake ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2009, 1:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-night-at-the-bar-hottie-bartenders/25206/2 "2009-01-22T13:52:13Z")
Very nice report. Good job. Now do something with the phone number and the walking around naked thing … “yeah, I guess I can come over and hang out but you will have to prove to me you really do walk around the house naked, I think you were just making that part up to get my attention …” ---
**Author:** ![Rovot](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rovot/32/5179_2.png) [@Rovot](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rovot)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2009, 6:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-night-at-the-bar-hottie-bartenders/25206/3 "2009-01-22T18:20:43Z")
Great work;great report. ---
**Author:** ![tfrankz](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tfrankz/32/468_2.png) [@tfrankz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tfrankz)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2009, 6:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-night-at-the-bar-hottie-bartenders/25206/4 "2009-01-22T18:37:53Z")
Nice one. Now hit a homerun with that one. ---
**Author:** ![smn1234](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/smn1234/32/2430_2.png) [@smn1234](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smn1234)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2009, 7:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-night-at-the-bar-hottie-bartenders/25206/5 "2009-01-26T19:34:32Z")
good report ---
**Author:** ![data4](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/data4/32/272_2.png) [@data4](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/data4)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2009, 11:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-night-at-the-bar-hottie-bartenders/25206/6 "2009-01-26T23:42:11Z")
Great report! I couldn’t help but have this playing in my head as I read it. 😉 https://www.youtube.com/embed/4ogBol9KfW8?feature=oembed&wmode=opaque Oh, and 3 Days Grace ROCKS! A stripper friend turned me on to them. Well, okay, she danced to Pain and turned me on, but… yeah, okay. 😃