# My old gf **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [September 4, 2008, 2:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-old-gf/18799 "2008-09-04T02:45:54Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![dojibenny](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7993a0/32.png) [@dojibenny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dojibenny)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2008, 2:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-old-gf/18799/1 "2008-09-04T02:45:54Z")
I am a 28 years old asian guy and my exgf is also asian. I will get the products tomorrow and might ask her out on this weekend to do the test. She said got no feeling on me anymore and that’s why we broke up. But we are still very close friends. I wanna use these products to get her feeling back, at least get to her to talk to me more. I am so afraid if I use these, might get negative results. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2008, 2:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-old-gf/18799/2 "2008-09-04T02:50:24Z")
You might get negative results but what do you have to lose? She has already broken up with you and says she has no feelings for you and that is why she left. The fact that you are still friends is a good sign - maybe the A314, Instant shine, IFM mix will help her reconsider. If you go with the TUTH straight up she may think you are just looking for sex which will probably not go over well. ---
**Author:** ![ntk23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/65b543/32.png) [@ntk23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ntk23)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2008, 3:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-old-gf/18799/3 "2008-09-04T03:13:23Z")
> [@dojibenny](#): > > I am so afraid if I use these, might get negative results. Dojibenny, it seems to me that this is the crux of the problem here dude, you are acting from a place of fear which will come across as neediness to your ex. The [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) should be viewed as part of a whole package which include things like feeling good about yourself and being able to come from a position of confidence and strength. Are you familiar with the PUA literature? Well, there is simply tons of it around, of variable quality. But a lot of it agrees that methods to “get your girl back” are of marginal effectiveness at best - it is really an uphill struggle with the cards stacked against you. Excuse the mixed metaphors! Anyway, what Bosshank says re: what to wear pheromonally is really great advice. I would concentrate on the “get her to talk to me more” bit really, and if you think that there are further developments afoot, then step it up a bit. Be a cool, alpha guy with the A314 and let’s hope the IFM works some sort of “catnip” effect. Leave a bit of mystery dangling in your conversational threads to give her something to think about, and all that stuff. Hope it works out for you. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2008, 3:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-old-gf/18799/4 "2008-09-04T03:18:39Z")
> [@ntk23](#): > > Dojibenny, it seems to me that this is the crux of the problem here dude, you are acting from a place of fear which will come across as neediness to your ex. The pheromones should be viewed as part of a whole package which include things like feeling good about yourself and being able to come from a position of confidence and strength. > > Are you familiar with the PUA literature? Well, there is simply tons of it around, of variable quality. But a lot of it agrees that methods to “get your girl back” are of marginal effectiveness at best - it is really an uphill struggle with the cards stacked against you. Excuse the mixed metaphors! Very good points here. Read through this again carefully to be sure you understand … If we can survive the new age text messaging spelling we will live through the mixed metaphors too .. lol. ---
**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2008, 5:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-old-gf/18799/5 "2008-09-04T05:13:48Z")
depending on what you purchased, they may work well on her. As I found taunting an old X, (I went straight up with TUTH and [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/), but then I knew she had mildly strong feelings for me, but she went in search of the bigger fish) Wearing IO to buffer the TUTH is a must. IO and Ammo is better, but then all I really wanted was to tease her with what I was not going to let her have again. I went in to her work (a store at the mall) and flirted with her coworker/friend/roomate. Do not Taunt Ex’s unless you are really sure you want them back! I repeat: **Do not Taunt Ex’s unless you are really sure you want them back!** she called, emailed, texted, and hounded me; until I agreed to talk with her over dinner. I work some IH and A314 and sat and talked with her for almost 2 hours. We aired the sheets, and cleaned the closets about our relationship, then decided to keep going our separate ways. (well I did, as she was just going to move on at the next chance she saw something better)