# My Partial Theory - Absense makes the heart grow fonder? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [September 16, 2007, 2:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-partial-theory-absense-makes-the-heart-grow-fonder/5561 "2007-09-16T14:55:09Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Homer\_Lanscritty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/c5a1d2/32.png) [@Homer\_Lanscritty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Homer_Lanscritty)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2007, 2:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-partial-theory-absense-makes-the-heart-grow-fonder/5561/1 "2007-09-16T14:55:09Z")
I’m pretty much a noob here and to using pheros… I’m 35 btw… So far I’ve been experimenting with pheros for the last month or so. Since I’ve started using pheros, I think I’ve gotten a few ‘hits’…but then again, I’m also looking for them, so it could be partially due to my heightened sense of awareness as to how people react. Being single and 35 is much different than being 18-21 and single… Women and people in general are much different as we age… I still think I’m 18 though…at least thats how I perceive myself. Anyway, on to my theory… I think that the ‘instant hit’ has happened a few times, not a lot but here and there… However, what I think is happening is that the women whom I see on a 1-2x weekly basis are starting to react. Almost something along the lines of ‘absence makes the heart grow fonder’. So my theory is that the repeated exposure to the pheros is making them think about me when I’m not around… I was even told from one of my best friends wife that she had a dream about me. It wasn’t a sexual dream, but still, I’ve reached her unconscious mind. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2007, 3:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-partial-theory-absense-makes-the-heart-grow-fonder/5561/2 "2007-09-16T15:48:32Z")
Hi Homer Your therory is true partly in my opinion. The word Instant implys that you just spray it on and Wala people flock toward you like bee’s to honey. Its not how [pheromones](https://a314.com/) work for humans. Sure some people will get DIHL, IOI and hits from people they dont know. The products will cause people to attract to you but its what you do once they attract that makes the difference. People you dont know can be effected and not show it as well. Its how we are conditioned to react in certain ways in certain enviroments. When around those you do know it takes a little more time. They have to get used to this new vibe your sending out and have to decide how they will deal with those feelings. Humans are able to control there response especially if in a place where that response is not appropriate. I have seen alot of reactions from people but I have been using the products for almost a year. I have however been around people who never react only to find out later from them that they are effected and not showing it. I look at these products as something that enhances who I already am. Just like makeup or my wonder bra LOL. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![snook\_assassin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/snook_assassin/32/1107_2.png) [@snook\_assassin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/snook_assassin)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2007, 7:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-partial-theory-absense-makes-the-heart-grow-fonder/5561/3 "2007-09-16T19:05:33Z")
I think you may have just solved a lil’ phero mystery for me, Tisha. I’ve been hanging out with my ex lately, and I was very hyped up when I got my first -mones in, so that I could see her reactions to them, but she hasn’t wavered even the slightest bit in any of her actions. I’ve tried different combos, and different doses. Once I even intentionally made myself OD on -none. (5 shots of 2x [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) to my chest, neck, and hair.) I did that just to try to “force” a reaction after nothing else worked. Nothing. Even if she got cranky, then I would have known that I could consider it as a hit. A bad hit, but a hit, nonetheless, ya know? I had pretty much come to the conclusion that she was one of the few people in the world that are impervious to -mones. She may be like that, but it may just be that she hasn’t adjusted to the new vibes yet. If I were to continue using my -mones around her, I think after reading this, that I should just pick one signature, and stick with it when we’re hanging out, so as not to confuse her senses, causing her to shut out my signature. ---
**Author:** ![snook\_assassin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/snook_assassin/32/1107_2.png) [@snook\_assassin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/snook_assassin)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2007, 7:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-partial-theory-absense-makes-the-heart-grow-fonder/5561/4 "2007-09-16T19:06:08Z")
P.S. You get rep points for this, Tisha… Thanks for helping me out! ---
**Author:** ![MadisonTate](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b9e5f3/32.png) [@MadisonTate](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MadisonTate)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2007, 9:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-partial-theory-absense-makes-the-heart-grow-fonder/5561/5 "2007-09-16T21:34:29Z")
Tater suggests you play with [MX203](https://a314.com/product/mx203/) if shes Caucasian and P83+P86 either way. These overcome inhibition but if shes your ex, there might be matters of will that keep her from saying too much. Maybe some IH would bring her out. ---
**Author:** ![Eslite119](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/eslite119/32/176_2.png) [@Eslite119](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Eslite119)\ **Post date:** [September 17, 2007, 12:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-partial-theory-absense-makes-the-heart-grow-fonder/5561/6 "2007-09-17T00:53:35Z")
‘absence makes the heart grow fonder’ I can agree to this. During the first three months of use, I intended to influence my target girl. Sadly, during the exposure she has shown little interest in me if any. After we parted and saw each other again three weeks later, her attitude towards me changed. Before that three week break we saw each other every single day at work for 2-3 month time period and she was exposed to my pheros, but she didn’t give me much attention. After 3 weeks of my absence and when we met again, she has shown much more interest in me and even openly expressed to be around me as much as possible. She even asked me to call her. I can think that during the 2-3 months of phero exposure, she wasn’t quite sure what it was but when I was gone, so did the phero scent. I guess this kinda effected her and actually made her miss me. ---
**Author:** ![MadisonTate](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b9e5f3/32.png) [@MadisonTate](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MadisonTate)\ **Post date:** [September 17, 2007, 1:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-partial-theory-absense-makes-the-heart-grow-fonder/5561/7 "2007-09-17T01:14:59Z")
Tater has found that Instant Shine, [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/), EST and MX102-MX105 (so most likely A314 too) make people miss you when youre gone. ---
**Author:** ![Eslite119](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/eslite119/32/176_2.png) [@Eslite119](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Eslite119)\ **Post date:** [September 17, 2007, 1:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-partial-theory-absense-makes-the-heart-grow-fonder/5561/8 "2007-09-17T01:21:56Z")
> [@MadisonTate](#): > > Tater has found that Instant Shine, Instant Female Magic, EST and MX102-MX105 (so most likely A314 too) make people miss you when youre gone. I would really love to try EST (and MEO-EST if it becomes available). But EST has some price tag (more expensive than most other products and mcg per spray option starts at 50mcg). Tater, you think its worth it? If my goal is to make my target become more physical with me, you think EST might be the answer? Thank you. ---
**Author:** ![MadisonTate](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b9e5f3/32.png) [@MadisonTate](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MadisonTate)\ **Post date:** [September 17, 2007, 1:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-partial-theory-absense-makes-the-heart-grow-fonder/5561/9 "2007-09-17T01:34:22Z")
Others seem to think it has no effect on women, but i tend to get some bonding and touching from both men and women with it. EST is expensive because Androtics doesnt sell it for with a dosage less than 50mcg. I think the pricing is the same actually. I dont think EST is the right choice for having her get more physical. Try MX103 or, if shes Caucasian, [MX203](https://a314.com/product/mx203/) plus a little P83 if you have it. IS+IFM also gets women touching, especially if you can work a little EST into it. Are you close enough to her to know her cycle? ---
**Author:** ![Kitten](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kitten/32/1051_2.png) [@Kitten](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kitten)\ **Post date:** [September 17, 2007, 2:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-partial-theory-absense-makes-the-heart-grow-fonder/5561/10 "2007-09-17T02:48:19Z")
Welcome Homer.🙂 If I might ask, which pheromones are you using?