# My question is probably not typical... **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 25, 2009, 1:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-question-is-probably-not-typical/26447 "2009-02-25T01:00:01Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![machine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/eb9ed0/32.png) [@machine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/machine)\ **Post date:** [February 25, 2009, 1:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-question-is-probably-not-typical/26447/1 "2009-02-25T01:00:01Z")
First of all great site! Second, my wife is bisexual and we are both a little shy when it comes to meeting ladies. Is there anything both of us could use together or would that be sending mixed signals? Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [February 25, 2009, 1:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-question-is-probably-not-typical/26447/2 "2009-02-25T01:08:15Z")
Hi there, Welcome to the forum. Please let us know more about both of you. You said your wifeis shy. What about you? What are the purpose of using [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/)? Is it for relationship, respect, sexual or other purposes? How do you come to this forum? How old are both of you? Then we can recommend the right phero for you to try. Cheers ---
**Author:** ![MikeMan22](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikeman22/32/332_2.png) [@MikeMan22](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MikeMan22)\ **Post date:** [February 25, 2009, 1:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-question-is-probably-not-typical/26447/3 "2009-02-25T01:47:44Z")
Hello and welcome. As james said, answer some of those questions, and we will be able to make some better suggestions.. One thing to help out with shyness is instant shine, which gives a good boost in confidence Hope to hear back from you with a reply ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [February 25, 2009, 2:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-question-is-probably-not-typical/26447/4 "2009-02-25T02:05:00Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. The guys above gave you the info we need to be able to send you a gift certificate. so I would certainly do that and go from there. The second part of the question is the interesting part - and I guess the answer might depend on what kind of woman are you hoping to attract? Are you both hoping to attract the same woman - one who might be bi? If you could spell out the scenario for us it might help elicite some better responses. ---
**Author:** ![machine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/eb9ed0/32.png) [@machine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/machine)\ **Post date:** [February 25, 2009, 2:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-question-is-probably-not-typical/26447/5 "2009-02-25T02:23:36Z")
> [@jamesbonded](#): > > Hi there, > > Welcome to the forum. > > Please let us know more about both of you. You said your wifeis shy. What about you? > > What are the purpose of using pheromones? Is it for relationship, respect, sexual or other purposes? > > How do you come to this forum? > > How old are both of you? > > Then we can recommend the right phero for you to try. > > Cheers We are both sorta shy. We were just looking for a way to help meet new friends that maybe could lead to other things. I found this forum doing research on pheromones, a friend said they might help. We are both 40. Thanks ---
**Author:** ![machine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/eb9ed0/32.png) [@machine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/machine)\ **Post date:** [February 25, 2009, 3:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-question-is-probably-not-typical/26447/6 "2009-02-25T03:44:48Z")
> [@bosshank](#): > > Hello and welcome to the forum. > > The guys above gave you the info we need to be able to send you a gift certificate. so I would certainly do that and go from there. > > The second part of the question is the interesting part - and I guess the answer might depend on what kind of woman are you hoping to attract? Are you both hoping to attract the same woman - one who might be bi? If you could spell out the scenario for us it might help elicite some better responses. We are attracted to the same type of woman (preferably bi) but are looking for more than just a one time sexual experience, we are also looking for women we can relate to and be friends with. Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![MikeMan22](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikeman22/32/332_2.png) [@MikeMan22](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MikeMan22)\ **Post date:** [February 25, 2009, 3:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-question-is-probably-not-typical/26447/7 "2009-02-25T03:45:06Z")
If you are both shy, look into the [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/)(shine, openness, honesty), and then work your way into the sexual pheromones (ammo, tuth) ---
**Author:** ![machine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/eb9ed0/32.png) [@machine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/machine)\ **Post date:** [February 25, 2009, 6:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-question-is-probably-not-typical/26447/8 "2009-02-25T18:37:09Z")
Should we both use them at the same time? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2009, 10:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-question-is-probably-not-typical/26447/9 "2009-02-26T10:25:53Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 For your situation I would suggest you each wear your own genders products. For you I suggest AMMO and Ishine AMMO to increase interest attraction and mildly arousing. Ishine for a warm charismatic charm and comfort For your wife I suggest [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) and IH Instant sexiness comes in two kind A is the more dominant personality and B more soft and kittenish. Go with the one that matches closest to her own personality. IH for deeper connections and feelings of closeness. It also helps open people up more. IH and Ishine are unisex and you can both layer them with your Base mix as needed **Your GC is on its way** 😃 If you have questions just ask. Tisha