# Natural pheromones guy - why are women staring at me so much some days ? **URL:** \ **Category:** Pheromone Theory & Molecules\ **Created:** [February 20, 2009, 4:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/natural-pheromones-guy-why-are-women-staring-at-me-so-much-some-days/26311 "2009-02-20T16:27:00Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![mikeb4](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikeb4/32/1254_2.png) [@mikeb4](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikeb4)\ **Post date:** [February 25, 2009, 9:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/natural-pheromones-guy-why-are-women-staring-at-me-so-much-some-days/26311/21 "2009-02-25T21:15:54Z")
> [@mizpulyn](#): > > mikeb4 \> i think your case is NOT what i mean by “special days”… this specific girl from train is obviouslly attracted to you 🙂 and she might just be too shy or something but this is quite consistent attraction form 1 person… 1 person is a very thin sample to call it a “special day”, during my “special days” i get dosens of eye-contacts and many of them quite chilling… iam very sorry but your scenario doesnt quite fit the subject of this forum which is in a nutshell “why are few days of the month so much better than the most of the days”… but good luck with her 🙂 sorry for my misunderstanding.. yeah I don’t get “chilling” eye contracts from anyone else that I know of.. and that’s thinking very hard because I have to change trains twice. Still does not mean I can’t use some mones to help open her up.. too bad she is not riding as often as before so I pretty much have to spray everyday expecting her.. but in that case I have an extra ticket I’m ready to make some talk to for her to open up 🙂 I might have to order some IG since my first order was only IS, IH, IO and AMMO ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [February 25, 2009, 11:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/natural-pheromones-guy-why-are-women-staring-at-me-so-much-some-days/26311/22 "2009-02-25T23:01:56Z")
> [@mikeb4](#): > > Every single day she boarded the train she ALWAYS made sure she sat in the same spot and as soon as she sat down she would look directly at me, It was always to be expected…I know in the past I have not always been good reading the signals but this one seems very consistent.. > > Also just to show how consistent I mean…from her stop to mine it’s about 6-8 min she looked at least 6 times that I was counting and 4 of those was… > [@mizpulyn](#): > > mikeb4 \> i think your case is NOT what i mean by “special days”… this specific girl from train is obviouslly attracted to you 🙂 and she might just be too shy or something but this is quite consistent attraction form 1 person… 1 person is a very thin sample to call it a “special day”, during my “special days” i get dosens of eye-contacts and many of them quite chilling… iam very sorry but your scenario doesnt quite fit the subject of this forum which is in a nutshell “why are few days of the month so much better than the most of the days”… but good luck with her 🙂 Yeah, my thoughts exactly. Your situation, to me, seems very consistent and she’s probably just attracted to you. I agree that your case doesn’t really fit in with the theory we’re trying to put together here. In fact, it only confirmed my random thought from earlier. ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [February 25, 2009, 11:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/natural-pheromones-guy-why-are-women-staring-at-me-so-much-some-days/26311/23 "2009-02-25T23:08:50Z")
> [@mizpulyn](#): > > phya \> i call this phenomen “special days” because normally 90% of the days iam NOT attracting eye-contacts, NOWHERE near the frequency and intensity i get during “special days” so i would NOT call myself attractive “ **as I am** ”… iam 27 and i would definitelly know by know that iam a “confident and attractive guy” throughout my life and that i ussually get my daily portion of nice girl’s eye-contacts and its normal to me and quite consistent since my puberty… thats not the case with me 🙂 > > ON THE OTHER HAND its true that all the “special days” might be just a subjective observation (a mind’s construct), induced by my good mood, which second-hand boosts my confidence and through “positive feedback, I start to act in a more confident manner, inciting other girls to show signs of attraction as well” > > but i dont think so… remember i told you about my friend crying out “why the hack the girls keep gazing at me all the day”… he didnt seem to be much confident and tuned in… he was more perplexed as if the fact that girls eye-contact him was out of his control that day… > > i doubt i have such a strong imagination that i could MAKE myself more attractive just by possitive feedback… i have a feeling there has to be something MUCH stronger going on underneath the “special days” be it hormones, energy vibrations, balanced chi, alignment of the planets, you name it 😃 HAHA > [@Wrlprchnx](#): > > There are very few people who cannot make themselves more attractive through positive feedback. > > The way you carry yourself has a HUGE impact on how you are perceived… you might not even notice on a day to day basis how the way you are carrying yourself changes based on your mood, and I would venture your hormonal cycle. > > I don’t believe testosterone is the only factor that needs to be looked at in determining these “special” days… There is almost certainly other hormones involved like your cortisol levels (stress) Also, true confidence or any ‘true’ behavior for that matter, is going to be unconscious. Any signs of attempting to be confident only shows your lack of confidence. So your friend might not realize how differently he might be acting. The power of imagination can be pretty strong. I can’t cite my source right now, but I believe I read that there was a study where they took two groups of athletes and had one group practice for two hours, and the other group practice for one hour and visualize for the remaining hour. The two groups showed performance increases, though I can’t say whether one group was significantly improved over the other or not. Either way, it could be said that visualizing is at least as effective as actually practicing. Okay, so cortisol levels is also something we can look into. I mean, testosterone and cortisol are the two commonly examined hormones when it comes to the ‘science of attraction’, so I’m sure we’re not far off here. 😛 The question is, what new concepts/theories can we bring to the table? ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [March 7, 2009, 8:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/natural-pheromones-guy-why-are-women-staring-at-me-so-much-some-days/26311/24 "2009-03-07T20:29:14Z")
FWIW, I’ve been waking up early in the morning, rolling out of bed and right into my shoes, then straight out the door. I’ve been noticing increased interest, despite me not even trying to be presentable. Yesterday morning, a girl stuck her head out of a bus and yelled “My friend thinks you’re hot!” at me, while I was walking past. I don’t think that had too much to do with pheromones, natural or artificial. Maybe because of some positive feedback loop with natural pheromones? I didn’t wear any products. ---
**Author:** ![wizardrivebise](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/ccd318/32.png) [@wizardrivebise](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/wizardrivebise)\ **Post date:** [April 2, 2009, 5:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/natural-pheromones-guy-why-are-women-staring-at-me-so-much-some-days/26311/25 "2009-04-02T05:59:01Z")
hi, im just curious about a point: how can you be sexual abstinent and have a girlfriend? or are you using that “internal ejaculation” method that makes you ejaculate “inside your spine” and tries to prevent any external ejaculation? Or are you actually having a -platonic- relationship? ---
**Author:** ![dude](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dude/32/2011_2.png) [@dude](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dude)\ **Post date:** [April 2, 2009, 7:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/natural-pheromones-guy-why-are-women-staring-at-me-so-much-some-days/26311/26 "2009-04-02T07:21:22Z")
I’ve had those days where girls will just look at me. I believe it’s the confident or cool behaviour that is presented during those _good_ days. [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/natural-pheromones-guy-why-are-women-staring-at-me-so-much-some-days/26311.md?page=1)