# Need a Disinhibitor **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 12, 2008, 2:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-a-disinhibitor/11015 "2008-04-12T02:28:00Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 16\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![therapygirl](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/therapygirl/32/1880_2.png) [@therapygirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/therapygirl)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2008, 2:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-a-disinhibitor/11015/1 "2008-04-12T02:28:00Z")
Hello All! I need a bit of help. I am going through the divorce from hell, and I have a very high level of anxiety. My estranged-demon is constantly torturing me, and I need to stand up to him but I am afraid of him ☹. He has done some nutso stuff and is attempting to take my children in court 😠. My best friend keeps telling me to ask my doctor for something that will help me feel disinhibited (like Klonopin) so my anger will feel stronger than my fear and I can stand up to him. Is there a [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) that would have this for a self effect? I would certainly rather go this route! I just need to get past the fear and get some brass balls to not want to hide but want to come out swinging. Any ideas??😕 Thanks!!! Therapygirl ---
**Author:** ![ponderu](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ponderu/32/465_2.png) [@ponderu](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ponderu)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2008, 3:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-a-disinhibitor/11015/2 "2008-04-12T03:09:06Z")
My two cents would be get a really good lawyer and put him between you and your ex first off. Get a restraining order to prevent him from coming near you. Let your lawyer deal with him, that is what you pay them for. As far as [pheromones](https://a314.com/) to help I am sorry I do not know. I am sorry your having to go through this and I hope it gets better soon. Ponderu ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2008, 3:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-a-disinhibitor/11015/3 "2008-04-12T03:33:40Z")
Low dose a314 (1 drop) might help you out. People react differently so you would have to give it a try to see what it does on you. If you do try it, let us know how it works. ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2008, 4:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-a-disinhibitor/11015/4 "2008-04-12T04:52:02Z")
> [@therapygirl](#): > > Hello All! > > I need a bit of help. I am going through the divorce from hell, and I have a very high level of anxiety. My estranged-demon is constantly torturing me, and I need to stand up to him but I am afraid of him ☹. He has done some nutso stuff and is attempting to take my children in court 😠 > Thanks!!! > > Therapygirl I despise assholes like that!!! Keep a record of what he’s doing, as I have e feeling that doing so could help in court. MX134 or MX135 may be helpful, as I believe they are the womens equivalents to A314, and TAF can help to keep you focused, but I fear that it could have you focusing on the wrong things and worsen matters. TAC may also be somewhat comforting for you. However, I am thinking that drugs and pheros may not be the solution. If you are genuinely afraid of him and have reason to be, I don’t see anything removing that fear, and I see a potential of them making you less sharp and dulling your senses, just at the time when you need to be at your best. I don’t know how the legal system in Georgia works, but I can tell you here in Texas, without substantial proof that the children are in danger, it is almost unheard of that a father can wrestle custody of children away from the biological mother. I wish you the best, and hope you can find and tap into your inner strength, and end this assholes hold over you and the fear he’s instilling. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2008, 7:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-a-disinhibitor/11015/5 "2008-04-12T07:37:59Z")
Lord that is a problem, I would be tempted to put a binding spell on him but I need his hair and its against my creed. LOL Take the advice above about lawyers and restraining orders. There is no need for you to comfront him without those people between you and him. Pheromonally… I think either MX134 (this one is the womens A314) or get A314 itself. Its the trust respect pheromone. I cant say how well it will work on a women but it will give you a feeling of ease and some confidence. It should also up your status a bit and cause him to think twice before he acts like a bonehead. TAL will also give you a alpha boost of confidence. Defiantly get this one [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) may help as well with helping you feel more at ease and if you wear enough you could make him depressed LOL It has that effect on some guys. But get the mens not the womens. The womens has been tempered as to not cause that effect on our men. Keep in mind it will effect other men as well as him. I would not take any drugs. You dont want your senses dulled you want them enhanced so your ready for whatever crap he throws at you. Last thing you need is to look glassy eyed and drugged up while in court. The court wont take your kids away unless they have a damn good reason. Moms usually always win the custody. I know you are scared but hang in there. Its gonna be ok and ask anyone Tish is always right 😉 This to shall pass and when it does life will begin again and you will be all the stronger for it. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![goodtimecharlie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/aeb1de/32.png) [@goodtimecharlie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/goodtimecharlie)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2008, 10:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-a-disinhibitor/11015/6 "2008-04-12T10:15:48Z")
I second Mark’s emotion. Keep records of every way, shape and form that this loser is harming you. Even something as seemingly useless and mundane as a daily journal can go a long way when before a judge, particularly if he’s behaved this way with others in the past. Do you have any family nearby that you can trust in? If you’re able to, let them in on what’s happening. Pheros might be able to help you relax, focus, bring some joy, etc., but always remember that the power is yours, both as a lady and (seemingly) the sane half in your dispute. He likely can’t deal with what he sees as failing somehow. The only control he has over you is what you give him to work with. That’s what these types feed off of. Manipulating others who are willing to bend to meet halfway. Not worth breaking yourself mentally. I wish you happiness and the very best. ---
**Author:** ![therapygirl](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/therapygirl/32/1880_2.png) [@therapygirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/therapygirl)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2008, 12:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-a-disinhibitor/11015/7 "2008-04-12T12:22:52Z")
Wow, thanks everyone. This has been quite a long haul and it’s amazing to hear some words of support! I slept on a blow up mattress for almost a year in the bathroom and finally moved out when he sent me and the children to Disney world long enough to wire up my house with cameras and fake smoke detectors with cameras and voice recorders, hire a prvate detective and put a GPS in my car. That was the final straw. Fortunately my parents had bought a house that I was fixing up under his nose (he never did pay any attention to me), and I moved out. I was awarded the children in temporary hearing, and I started school to become a therapist after staying at home and homeschooling my children for 18 years. He is doing everything he can to sabotage my schooling, and to hurt the children by dragging this out, paying partial child support, deducting things from the support, and then paying up when I threaten contempt. He is costing me about a thousand dollars a month trying to collect the support! I was so traumatized by the surveillance that I am still scared to talk on the phone in my new home. Tish, I have actually bought Ashes to Dust from LP as a banishing potion, I don’t have any of his hair but I charge it daily with getting him out of my life. I still have to go through a custody trial with this man who never gave a shit to spend time with me and my babies before, now he’s all about stealing them from me, and a divorce trial by jury to divide the assets. I have no income as I am a full time graduate student and I homeschool my 8 year old. It is just too much change at this point to put him in school, he has suffered so much change. As soon as I get some money I;m gonna do the A314, unless someone can tell me the m134 doesn’t have the chocolatini scent. I would love to use mx135 but can’t bear the smell. I like to get my pheros unscented and cover them with love potion perfumes! I currently have IS, Instant sexiness, instant openness, instant honesty, TAA, TAF, Anol, Betalol, Instant shine (smell blech), meo-est, lust after me, EOW, [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/),cougar potion, pherogirl, allegro, and intellectual woman. In looking at these do you see anything if I upped the usual dose of two or three sprays would have the “brass balls” effect? As soon as I get the rest of the picking April child support I’m due I’ll try to pick up some mx134. I am actuallly working on a doctoral experiment with the social mones to see how effective they would be in a clinical setting as I am going to be a therapist. There would have to be informed consent and education of course, but the idea is fascinating to me. Thanks for all the feedback!! Therapygirl ---
**Author:** ![therapygirl](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/therapygirl/32/1880_2.png) [@therapygirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/therapygirl)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2008, 12:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-a-disinhibitor/11015/8 "2008-04-12T12:39:32Z")
Wow, thanks for all the feedback. This has been such a long haul and I haven’t gotten alot of support! I slept on a blow up mattress in a bathroom for almost a year after I asked for the divorce, and the final straw was when he sent me and the children to Disney World for my birthday so he could wire my house with cameras and fake smoke detectors with voice recorders and cameras. He hired a pi to follow me and put a gps in my car. I moved out int a house he didnt know my parents had bought and were fixing up for me and my 4 children. He is doing everything he can to destroy me including withholding child support every month costing e thousands of dollars to file contempt charges only to pay it at the last minute. I am still afraid to even talk on the phone in my new house even though I’ve lived there six months. He is intent on trying to take the children he never gave a shit about before. All he wanted to do ever was get away and indulge his porn addiction. He is a churc leader, and I made the mistake of protecting him. I begged him to go to counseling for years with me, and now he acts like this came out of nowhere, and he is the injured party! Tisha, I have bought Ashes of Dust from LP as a banishing potion. I dont have any of his hair, but I charge it day and night and use it faithfully. ANy other ideas would be appreciated!!! I have no income as I have been a stay at home mom and a homeschooler for 18.5 years, but I am in graduate school to become a therapist so hopefully soon I’ll be able to take care of myself and my babies if he doesn’t drown me in legal fees first. I am working on research for a doctoral project (eventually) on the use of social mones in a clinical environment to facilitate communication and enhance the therapeutic relationship (of course there wil be education and informed consent).I am excited at the prospect! I have in my arsenal : IS, [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/), instant openness, instant honesty, instant female magic, MX135 (cant do the chocolatini), TAA, TAF, Meo-est, Anol, Betanol, allegro, cougar girl, pherogirl, intellectal woman, lust after me, EOW. Any ideas of using these in combo for helping me develop courage and get rid of the fear would be great. I’m going to get the A134 as soon as I collect the rest of the child support for april. I like to buy my pheros unscented and cover them with Love Poton perfumes! Thanks for everything Therapygirl ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2008, 2:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-a-disinhibitor/11015/9 "2008-04-12T14:02:11Z")
Wow therapygirl that is just insane making, kudos to you for being as STRONG as you are. And you are, don’t doubt it! I agree with your friend, seek out a Dr. or therapist and get treatment in the long run it will be so much better for you and your children. Pheromones are great but in this situation it isn’t going to help as much as you would like. I know this post is requesting pheromone info but…discussing this with other people dealing with similar situations might help you. The forum at [stalkingvictims.com](http://stalkingvictims.com) is a great place with many a person who have been or are in the same place as you. [Welcome to the Stalking Victims Sanctuary](http://www.stalkingvictims.com/) ---
**Author:** ![nbully79](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c68b51/32.png) [@nbully79](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nbully79)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2008, 4:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-a-disinhibitor/11015/10 "2008-04-12T16:05:10Z")
> [@therapygirl](#): > > As soon as I get some money I;m gonna do the A314, unless someone can tell me the m134 doesn’t have the chocolatini scent. I would love to use mx135 but can’t bear the smell. I like to get my pheros unscented and cover them with love potion perfumes! > I currently have IS, Instant sexiness, instant openness, instant honesty, TAA, TAF, Alpha Androstenol, Betalol, Instant shine (smell blech), meo-est, lust after me, EOW, Instant Female Magic,cougar potion, pherogirl, allegro, and intellectual woman. In looking at these do you see anything if I upped the usual dose of two or three sprays would have the “brass balls” effect? As soon as I get the rest of the picking April child support I’m due I’ll try to pick up some mx134. I am actuallly working on a doctoral experiment with the social pheromones to see how effective they would be in a clinical setting as I am going to be a therapist. There would have to be informed consent and education of course, but the idea is fascinating to me. Thanks for all the feedback!! > Therapygirl I don’t think you need A314, sometimes with male pheros on women can turn invisible (source: Jasmin’s experience mentioned in her blog). MX134 is neroli based and should be perfect for you. Also Instant Sexiness A. [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) can make some women sleepy and too comfortable (if you need to be on your toes it’s NOT a good choice but maybe perfect to use right before going to bed after a hard day). Douse yourself in MX134 and ISexi A. Also TAL ,the primary pheromone in MX134 and ISexiA, is reported to be very effective mood-brightener for women. SO you will be happy and sexy while crushing your opponents! 🆒 Good luck!🙂 If you had P79 that would be great to add, it’s the single most effective pheromone in my experience which prompts you to speak your mind and gives you the added impulse and drive while keeping you focussed. ---
**Author:** ![sugarspice](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sugarspice/32/1772_2.png) [@sugarspice](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sugarspice)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2008, 5:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-a-disinhibitor/11015/11 "2008-04-12T17:05:55Z")
Hi Therapygirl, My favorite feel good is TAC and MEO-EST. I’m getting sued for over 25k and I’m not even flintching. You just need to be in a place of supreme calm and analyze the possibilities. Just understand that the cards are in you favor even if you have to suffer other people deceptive or maniacal tendencies. Plenty of people support you so this idiot will have his day. I have ashes to dust too, not as potent as TAC and MEO-EST. That may get rid of boogies around you, but not the boogies within. Really nothing pisses me off when I wear that phero combo. I do not recommend anything with -NONE, that will only exacerbate your emotional roller coaster. Sure you will think your standing up or yourself, but it will only come out as confrontation and anger. I will tell you this…no one listens to the rantings of an overly emotional person. If you want your way you have to always be calm and logical. I actually worked on a client who was getting sued by her ex husband and his wife. They just kept on picking on her and she just kept cry and crying it was non stop. She came to me telling me she didn’t want to use any drugs and she wanted to get rid of her emotional state. Well I performed hypnotherapy on her and in the following weeks she became stronger and calmer and found that light to stand up for herself, chemical free. Since then she’s been very empowered to not freak out over everything. She ended up getting her way eventually. ---
**Author:** ![jonno101](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jonno101/32/367_2.png) [@jonno101](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jonno101)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2008, 10:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-a-disinhibitor/11015/12 "2008-04-16T22:11:14Z")
I agree with much of the advice given so far. Priority #1 - get yourself a good lawyer real fast (this isn’t about whether you can afford one or not - if they’re good, they’ll be worth their weight in gold to you and your kids). 1. Don’t try to dull your senses too much as you need to be alert for when this jerk (can I call him that 😃) is around. At least until you can get your lawyer in between you both. If he can’t handle things like a mature adult then you’ll have to hand it over to the suits to resolve. 2. Phero-wise TAC and sometimes MEO-EST can help you feel better. IFM might help you, but I would suggest NOT when you think he might be around - we don’t wanna make him any more depressed. 3. If you want him to avoid him like the plague or keep his distance, a trick someone taught me a while ago is to write his name on a piece of paper and put it in the heel of your right shoe (you didn’t hear this from me 😃). Then stamp your heel 3 times and make sure you wear it when he is goign to be around. By all accounts he won’t be able to look you in the eye 😮 4. I am so sorry that you and your children have to put up with such nonsense in this day an age. It really pisses me off when I hear of fellow men acting like real jerks - I’m sure his momma didn’t bring him up this way. I see MX134 mentioned below - I’ve got a quarter of MX135 left that never really did anything for me. I’m happy to donate it to you as you’re a bit short. Let me know if you want me to pop in the post. Let us know if you need anymore help:o ---
**Author:** ![therapygirl](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/therapygirl/32/1880_2.png) [@therapygirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/therapygirl)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2008, 10:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-a-disinhibitor/11015/13 "2008-04-16T22:45:04Z")
THank you for the great advice. I have a very capable lawyer who does a great job protecting me and not letting him give me any flack. Unfortunately my pheromones don’t influence him to work for free!☹ Considering that I burned him in effigy last night after annointing him with “war” oil, I would say that it could NEVER offend me for you to call him a jerk!😃 I would adore it if you wouldn’t mind parting with the bottle! How could we go about contacting each other? That is such a generous offer! I assure you I will pass the goodness on when I get over the hump. 🙂 (BTW, his mama paid for the surveillance cameras and had them shipped to her house!😠). Therapygirl ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2008, 11:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-a-disinhibitor/11015/14 "2008-04-16T23:31:26Z")
> [@](#): > > [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) can make some women sleepy and too comfortable Not the one sold in the womens section that one is designed to effect us without the side effects the mens product produces. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![jonno101](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jonno101/32/367_2.png) [@jonno101](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jonno101)\ **Post date:** [April 18, 2008, 3:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-a-disinhibitor/11015/15 "2008-04-18T15:36:06Z")
Hi there - Therapygirl, PM me the address you want me to send the MX135 to and I’ll pop it in the post (wish I’d seen your post earlier as could have put it in the mail b4 the weekend). I’ll delete the address as soon as I’ve posted the MX135. Have fun - there’s still a reasonable amount left 😃. And look after yourself. ---
**Author:** ![jonno101](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jonno101/32/367_2.png) [@jonno101](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jonno101)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2008, 9:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-a-disinhibitor/11015/16 "2008-04-24T21:36:00Z")
therapygirl - I’ve PM’d you - it’s in the mail and should be with you next week! I look forward to your experimentation results 🆒