# need a help with my first order... **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [October 27, 2008, 3:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-a-help-with-my-first-order/22058 "2008-10-27T15:36:22Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![myslep](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/myslep/32/2033_2.png) [@myslep](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/myslep)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2008, 3:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-a-help-with-my-first-order/22058/1 "2008-10-27T15:36:22Z")
Hello. I wanted to wait until Lust After Me will be in stock, but I decided to place my order now. I have learn a lot at this forum, but still I need some help with choosing what to buy. My problem is, that last few years I had some health problems and I had to undergo the chemotherapy etc.. Before, I had no problems with making new friends, with men and relationships… but now I feel like I am invisible for all the people around me. I have moved to the city where I don’t know anybody and I realized, that I am not able to get along with people as I used to. I lost my confidence and in 3 years I am like a new person, I feel old and tired (I am a student at the university… not old at all). Suddenly I am very shy, I am afraid to go out, to talk with people. I still don’t have a lot of hair and I feel exhausted all the time and even though I think physically I haven’t changed a lot, I feel very unattractive. I am trying to overcome these feelings and I think also [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) could be good to try. I am not from the USA, but all I have read here sounds really interesting, so I will order more things than I wanted, because I don’t want to pay for shipping more times. Could you help me? I have decided to buy these: Instant sexiness/A, Instant honesty, Instant shine, Instant openness, MX134, MX135 and I also want to find Essence of Woman somewhere. I was thinking about MX274 and Meo-est, but I am not sure, if I should buy them. What do you think? I have been thinking about this order for more than two weeks and still I am not absolutely sure. ---
**Author:** ![ntk23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/65b543/32.png) [@ntk23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ntk23)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2008, 5:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-a-help-with-my-first-order/22058/2 "2008-10-27T17:07:34Z")
Well, I can say that Honesty, Shine and Openness are great products. Can’t speak for the women’s products myself, but they are very highly spoken of on this women’s forum. What is the shipping cost to Austria anyway? It’s $30 to the UK, I know that much, which was about £16 some time ago… if you have a GC you can offset that cost. Please keep in touch with the forum, give us some reports and let us know how you are getting on. Everyone on the forum is really nice and helpful - you can ask anything you like, not just about pheros… many people here are into all sorts of aspects of self-improvement and can support you in your overcoming these feelings. Once you learn how to work the pheros, which shouldn’t take too long, you can get on a nice positive feedback loop that will build up your self-esteem. ---
**Author:** ![FantasyAngel](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fantasyangel/32/952_2.png) [@FantasyAngel](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/FantasyAngel)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2008, 8:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-a-help-with-my-first-order/22058/3 "2008-10-27T20:39:57Z")
Hello, myslep 🙂! Welcome to the forum! You have been through so much…I can only imagine how hard it must’ve been for you. The products you have chosen are great to start out with. The social products (Instant Openness, [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/), and Instant Shine) will help you make more friends. People are more prone to approach you when you wear these. Instant Shine should help to boost your energy. Instant Sexiness A will help to boost your confidence, so it is a great choice. However, remember that with any pheromones, _you_ have to work the pheromones while they work for you. You should try to appear approachable for people to approach you and talk to you. The pheromones will work, if you let them. I understand that you have been through a lot, but please try to keep a positive attitude. Think about how you survived that cancer and chemotherapy, how **STRONG** you are. If you have been through all that, you are one **STRONG** woman! Not just anyone can survive what you did, so appreciate that you’re given the chance to **LIVE**. And now you go do something wonderful with that life, girl! Do not feel so down, because you are one **AMAZING** woman! Now that you have discovered pheromones, life will only get better (but only if you can help it!)! I hope I have been of help! ---
**Author:** ![Elixxxer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/elixxxer/32/863_2.png) [@Elixxxer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Elixxxer)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2008, 11:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-a-help-with-my-first-order/22058/4 "2008-10-27T23:05:41Z")
Welcome myslep! That is quite a journey you’ve been through. You’ve overcame your battle with cancer and that is truly incredible! Never feel down on yourself, my dear, you have come a long way. I found that pheromones gave me that bit of extra confidence required to deal with certain situations, so I’m sure they will help you as well. I am new to this forum, so as far as helping you choose what to order I am only familiar with 2 products so far: Instant Sexiness A and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). Like you I felt invisible (many of us have) but you will attract attention once you have your scent down. There are a lot of friendly and very knowledgable people on this board. I spend a lot of time on here just reading and trying to learn more about these products. Good luck with your order and I hope to see you around! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![myslep](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/myslep/32/2033_2.png) [@myslep](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/myslep)\ **Post date:** [October 30, 2008, 5:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-a-help-with-my-first-order/22058/5 "2008-10-30T17:19:40Z")
Thank you so much! You are all very very nice to me, thanks. I’m looking forward to trying the pheromones, it sounds really interesting. I cannot find the meo-est, could you please somebody tell me, where on the Androtics it is? It’s strange, but I can’t see there anything of this name. > [@ntk23](#): > > What is the shipping cost to Austria anyway? It’s $30 to the UK It should be same to Austria. > [@FantasyAngel](#): > > I hope I have been of help! You have! Thank you for your nice words. I know it’s always more important how I behave, but I hope it can help a bit… at least as an expensive placebo. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![ntk23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/65b543/32.png) [@ntk23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ntk23)\ **Post date:** [October 30, 2008, 8:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-a-help-with-my-first-order/22058/6 "2008-10-30T20:22:32Z")
> [@myslep](#): > > I cannot find the meo-est, could you please somebody tell me, where on the Androtics it is? MEO-EST, or to give it its full, posh name: Methoxyestratetraenone [Methoxyestratetraenone :: Putative Pheromones :: Androtics Direct/SmartMones](https://phera.com/)