# Need advice for an appropriate mix. **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [May 25, 2012, 5:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-advice-for-an-appropriate-mix/55692 "2012-05-25T17:45:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Aeloran](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a5b964/32.png) [@Aeloran](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aeloran)\ **Post date:** [May 25, 2012, 5:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-advice-for-an-appropriate-mix/55692/1 "2012-05-25T17:45:11Z")
So I’d mainly hoped to using the products for more social settings but with all i’ve been reading i’m pretty intrigued. I know this isn’t the “one spray cures all” sort of thing, but i’m wondering if you have some suggestions for the following: I had a past with a now “close friend” of mine and frankly i’m not over her. We are very good friends (as friendly as I can get, anyway) and we’re generally very comfortable around one another. She is aware that I still have some feelings for her, but probably not the caliber of those feelings. We have stopped talking in the past for silly reasons but i’m not for jeopardizing our relationship (however platonic) over something silly again. Talking deep with her usually is never an issue because of the length of time that we have known each other. I’m looking to rekindle some sort of attraction between us and hopefully take it past that if the universe would have it be so. Thoughts? ---
**Author:** ![SWE](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/96bed5/32.png) [@SWE](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SWE)\ **Post date:** [May 25, 2012, 8:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-advice-for-an-appropriate-mix/55692/2 "2012-05-25T20:51:29Z")
I’m in a similar situation with the only difference being that I haven’t known her as long as you’ve known your girl (about 6 months). Somebody suggested [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/), IH and P83 to me and I think it makes perfect sense. Ammo will create that spark to keep you out of the “friend zone”. IH will get her to open up and share her true feelings with you. P83 will amplify all of the above. > [@Aeloran](#): > > So I’d mainly hoped to using the products for more social settings but with all i’ve been reading i’m pretty intrigued. I know this isn’t the “one spray cures all” sort of thing, but i’m wondering if you have some suggestions for the following: > > I had a past with a now “close friend” of mine and frankly i’m not over her. We are very good friends (as friendly as I can get, anyway) and we’re generally very comfortable around one another. She is aware that I still have some feelings for her, but probably not the caliber of those feelings. We have stopped talking in the past for silly reasons but i’m not for jeopardizing our relationship (however platonic) over something silly again. > Talking deep with her usually is never an issue because of the length of time that we have known each other. > > I’m looking to rekindle some sort of attraction between us and hopefully take it past that if the universe would have it be so. Thoughts? ---
**Author:** ![Aeloran](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a5b964/32.png) [@Aeloran](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aeloran)\ **Post date:** [May 25, 2012, 9:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-advice-for-an-appropriate-mix/55692/3 "2012-05-25T21:00:43Z")
Thank you for your advice! I’ll get back to you with the results! ---
**Author:** ![SWE](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/96bed5/32.png) [@SWE](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SWE)\ **Post date:** [May 25, 2012, 9:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-advice-for-an-appropriate-mix/55692/4 "2012-05-25T21:18:45Z")
> [@Aeloran](#): > > Thank you for your advice! I’ll get back to you with the results! You’re welcome! This is non-[pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) related but one thing that works great for me is ending the communication on a high note. In other words, if you’re hanging out and having a really good time make it known you enjoy being with her but you have other things going on. End it on a high note, it puts you in total control and leaves her wanting more. I do this many times and in a lot of cases the girl will go out of her way to keep me from leaving 🙂