# Need assistance ASAP Today! **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [August 11, 2010, 6:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-assistance-asap-today/40733 "2010-08-11T18:50:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![shigiddy\_jr](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/shigiddy_jr/32/1454_2.png) [@shigiddy\_jr](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/shigiddy_jr)\ **Post date:** [August 11, 2010, 6:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-assistance-asap-today/40733/1 "2010-08-11T18:50:58Z")
I’m going to my girl’s house for the first time and meeting her parents. She has 4 siblings all younger than her in the 4-11 age range. How do I get kids to open up to me? What should I wear to “impress” her parents(they’re in their 30’s)? I have IShine, IG, and TUTH. She is fairly young and Asian so I do not think I will wear TUTH…But do you recommend IG **and** Ishine? Get back to me as soon as you can and thanks, - Donnie ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [August 11, 2010, 6:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-assistance-asap-today/40733/2 "2010-08-11T18:58:51Z")
Yup I would say you are right: wear Ishine and IG. You’ll come across as a true gentleman that makes people smile. BUT, I’d also tone it down a bit with a shot of TUTH under the shirt. Why you ask? Because usually if you’re getting super approval from her parents she may lose interest. The kids will be OK with one spray as long as its paired with the IG and Ishine. It won’t be sexual, but more sexy. Even mothers and daughters talk about sex appeal. Just my opinion 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![thegentleman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thegentleman/32/1770_2.png) [@thegentleman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thegentleman)\ **Post date:** [August 11, 2010, 7:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-assistance-asap-today/40733/3 "2010-08-11T19:01:16Z")
Just my 2 cents and I’m really new here. IG gives you a subdued alpha-male vibe, people have described as like James Bond. I had an experience with IG where I don’t know if it was just my own alpha-maleness or that along with IG, but it seriously intimidated a couple of Asian guys, so maybe that is one you leave at home for now. Also IG giving you that James Bond vibe, might make you come across as too mature and sophisticated for their young daughter. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), I don’t think you can go wrong with. Maybe in the future you need to add a few more socials to your arsenal like IO and IH, that way you could create some communication with bonding among all the family members. Just a few thoughts, I’m sure others will come along and put theirs in as well. ---
**Author:** ![thegentleman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thegentleman/32/1770_2.png) [@thegentleman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thegentleman)\ **Post date:** [August 11, 2010, 7:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-assistance-asap-today/40733/4 "2010-08-11T19:24:06Z")
Steve brings up some very valid points, especially about becoming too safe for the parents. You do want to make sure the girl knows you are the bad boy that can take her on the adventure she needs. So, I would take his advice over mine…LOL Quick story: I’m 43, college coed 20 becomes extremely interested in me. Apparently I became the topic of discussion around her house so much, her dad came to have a talk with me. Well needless to say, daddy saying “stay away from my daughter,” only increased her attraction for me. When I saw her the next time and informed her of the conversation, I told her, “If you want me to go away I will.” Next thing I know is she’s running across the room and flying into my arms balling like a baby telling me she never wanted me to leave. She told me later, she didn’t know what came over her, and didn’t even realize she felt about me like that…LOL. I know she had feelings for me. But that outburst had more to do with me now being “the prize,” and becoming more and more unavailable due to her dad’s involvement, and my pulling away. ---
**Author:** ![RisenAlpha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/54ee81/32.png) [@RisenAlpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RisenAlpha)\ **Post date:** [August 11, 2010, 7:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-assistance-asap-today/40733/5 "2010-08-11T19:31:24Z")
I would do what Steve says. ---
**Author:** ![Scipio](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3ec8ea/32.png) [@Scipio](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Scipio)\ **Post date:** [August 11, 2010, 9:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-assistance-asap-today/40733/6 "2010-08-11T21:34:14Z")
Steve is the man, I’d do exactly as he says. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [August 11, 2010, 10:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-assistance-asap-today/40733/7 "2010-08-11T22:46:36Z")
A314 personifies the James Bond vibe actually. IG actually tones it down quite a bit, to more like someone aspiring to be Bond, but not quite there yet 🙂. Where as A314 is ALPHA dominance, IG is much more warmer and therefore charismatic. I appreciate all the praise guys, but feedback from others is important. I only got to the level I am with [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) from reading other users like catlord, PheroQuirk, tacitus and quite a few others. Varied opinions are good for everybody, because it helps us all see a side we might not have seen before. Thanks though all the same 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Scipio](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3ec8ea/32.png) [@Scipio](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Scipio)\ **Post date:** [August 11, 2010, 11:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-assistance-asap-today/40733/8 "2010-08-11T23:00:39Z")
in that case, I would go for 1 IG and 2 IS and if need be and you get alone time with her. I’d discreetly go to the bathroom, through TUTH onto your chest, then head back out. ---
**Author:** ![scotties123](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c37758/32.png) [@scotties123](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/scotties123)\ **Post date:** [August 12, 2010, 1:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-assistance-asap-today/40733/9 "2010-08-12T01:17:09Z")
I would recommend a drop of A314 and a few shots of IH, but because you don’t have that shoot for 2-3 IG and 4-6 IS. I like to think of A314 as Batman and IG as Robin. Robin can still kick butt, but it’s nothing like how Batman does it 😉. You are trying to impress her parents, not her (you’ve already done that haha) so I don’t think the TUTH is needed. If you plan on going out with her after meeting the parents, bring the TUTH and keep it in the car to use when you go out. ---
**Author:** ![shigiddy\_jr](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/shigiddy_jr/32/1454_2.png) [@shigiddy\_jr](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/shigiddy_jr)\ **Post date:** [August 12, 2010, 3:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-assistance-asap-today/40733/10 "2010-08-12T03:47:18Z")
thanks everybody, I just used shine and gentleman and it worked out great, i was mainly aiming for approval of the parents because in my culture that is the most important, but she was actually excited how her parents liked me, which was great, the kids loved me, but I’ve always been good with kids 😃…okay maybe the spray helped a “little” bit. 🙂 thanks everyone with your quick responses. ---
**Author:** ![shigiddy\_jr](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/shigiddy_jr/32/1454_2.png) [@shigiddy\_jr](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/shigiddy_jr)\ **Post date:** [August 12, 2010, 6:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-assistance-asap-today/40733/11 "2010-08-12T06:23:01Z")
She never mentioned it while I was at her house, but when I got home I IM’ed her and I asker her what she thought of it and this is what she said: i wanted to take it all in..lol..u smelled good..i like the way u smell ^^ **trying to remeber the smell** i need u by me to keep the smell..hehe. pretty intense, right? wtf. you have done it again, i need more tho im running out…☹ this was probably mostly the ishine with a bit of gentleman. ---
**Author:** ![shigiddy\_jr](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/shigiddy_jr/32/1454_2.png) [@shigiddy\_jr](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/shigiddy_jr)\ **Post date:** [August 12, 2010, 6:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-assistance-asap-today/40733/12 "2010-08-12T06:24:42Z")
I think maybe you should just sell it as a scent for cheaper 😉 cmon homies. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [August 12, 2010, 9:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-assistance-asap-today/40733/13 "2010-08-12T09:12:49Z")
I am glad things worked out well and you had a great time 😃 Your starting to see it and hits will increase and be more noticable as time go’s on. > [@shigiddy\_jr](#): > > I think maybe you should just sell it as a scent for cheaper 😉 cmon homies. Ok this is the part people confuse a little. Its not the scent of the neroli that impressed her. Even though she mentioned she loves the scent its the pheromones that are making her feel good that she is responding to. They work in the subconscious though so she doesn’t know that she just associates the smell with the feeling. You asked her so you made her conscious of the smell. If you were to wear neroli on its own with no pheromones she would probably be unimpressed by the scent because the feeling would not accompany it. Of course this dosent mean she would be unimpressed by you. Pheromones are just a small part of attraction. They open the door so to speak. Its like when you wear a great outfit that looks perfect on you and makes you look hot. She may love the way you look in it. It may increase her interest or turn her on but she wont stop loving you when you take it off. Pheromones just enhance what is already there. Tisha