# need help handling the super ego girls? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [August 3, 2009, 9:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-handling-the-super-ego-girls/31248 "2009-08-03T09:08:42Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [August 4, 2009, 9:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-handling-the-super-ego-girls/31248/21 "2009-08-04T09:48:21Z")
Sometimes the appearance of uppity and egoistical behavior is a defense mechanism for those suffering from low self-esteem or major conflicts with their lifestyle: “yeah, I’m supposed to be a supermodel/actress but I’m a friggen server.” I’ve worked filler jobs and tried to play it ultra cool and detach myself from the crap pitched at me and ghetto shit I had to do. And, yeah, it can look like you’re full of yourself. Inside you’re screaming let me outta this frickin’ place! I spent years playing restaurant and bar music while a starving college student. Major lounge lizard. Most restaurant workers were trying to make through school or jump start a fledgling career and couldn’t wait to get out of there. Whatever defense mechanisms, dissatisfaction or stress they had seemed to lead to partying their asses off after work. ---
**Author:** ![peregrine](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/peregrine/32/499_2.png) [@peregrine](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/peregrine)\ **Post date:** [August 4, 2009, 5:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-handling-the-super-ego-girls/31248/22 "2009-08-04T17:24:39Z")
> [@Gegogi](#): > > Sometimes the appearance of uppity and egoistical behavior is a defense mechanism for those suffering from low self-esteem or major conflicts with their lifestyle: “yeah, I’m supposed to be a supermodel/actress but I’m a friggen server.” I’ve worked filler jobs and tried to play it ultra cool and detach myself from the crap pitched at me and ghetto shit I had to do. And, yeah, it can look like you’re full of yourself. Inside you’re screaming let me outta this frickin’ place! > > I spent years playing restaurant and bar music while a starving college student. Major lounge lizard. Most restaurant workers were trying to make through school or jump start a fledgling career and couldn’t wait to get out of there. Whatever defense mechanisms, dissatisfaction or stress they had seemed to lead to partying their asses off after work. Nice. I think most of us came up the hard way, but I wouldn’t change it for anything. What doesn’t kill you only makes you stronger. It sux to see an “affluent” person looking down upon or being rude to a restaurant worker. More than likely they were born w/ a silver spoon in their mouth and never knew what it was like to work in such an environment. Or forgot what it was like once they could afford the spoon. ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [August 4, 2009, 9:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-handling-the-super-ego-girls/31248/23 "2009-08-04T21:31:47Z")
> [@Jericho](#): > > Please tell me the “pee on’s” thing is a pun and not a tragic typo. I think he can’t spell Spanish. I think he meant “[peon](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peon)”, a peasant. 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![Jericho](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jericho/32/1658_2.png) [@Jericho](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jericho)\ **Post date:** [August 4, 2009, 9:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-handling-the-super-ego-girls/31248/24 "2009-08-04T21:35:07Z")
> [@Mtnjim](#): > > I think he can’t spell Spanish. I think he meant “[peon](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peon)”, a peasant. 🙄 Yeah, that’s what I thought he meant too. [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-handling-the-super-ego-girls/31248.md?page=1)