# Need help, my husband has another woman!!!!!

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**Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [October 24, 2011, 12:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-my-husband-has-another-woman/52980 "2011-10-24T12:48:25Z")\
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**Post date:** [October 25, 2011, 10:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-my-husband-has-another-woman/52980/22 "2011-10-25T22:39:39Z")

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> [@tisha23](#):
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> Your only partly correct. Men instinctively have a need to procreate and women look for the strongest Alpha to procreate with and to provide and protect and raise those offspring to be alpha males. However women dont instinctively look for the beta to trick into providing for our offspring. That’s ridiculous and sounds like something a scorned male would make up.
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> Keep in mind we have control of our instincts and having them is not a excuse for every behavior. A conscious commitment was made and if either partner cant keep that commitment instinct has little to do with it. Are ability to think logically, control our instincts and make decisions based on values, emotions and needs is what separates us from other mammals. That’s why we are called humans and not animals.  
> Tisha

I don’t mean to claim that any women go out with the intent to cheat on their mate with an alpha- Rarely (impossibly, I think) does anyone make a decision about who to be attracted to, but the social stereotype is that women pick the ‘bad boy’ to cheat with.

It’s not an unpopular opinion, and some google searching can reveal more information:

[Half Sigma: Alpha, beta, and omega males](http://www.halfsigma.com/2007/01/alpha_beta_and_.html)

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> Beta males comprise approximately 70% of the population, and they are the average men who find wives, get married, and start families. If their wives cheat on them while they are married, it’s probably an alpha male whom they would be cheating with.

The article provides no sources, but a brief look at our social stereotypes can be interesting.

As for the distinction between humans an animals, I’d love to continue this topic in the lounge:

[Animals vs Humans, decision making, and cheating.](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/animals-vs-humans-decision-making-and-cheating/53005)

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