# Need help on what to use **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [March 4, 2009, 6:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-on-what-to-use/26736 "2009-03-04T18:04:49Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 2\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![mememphis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a9a28c/32.png) [@mememphis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mememphis)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2009, 6:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-on-what-to-use/26736/1 "2009-03-04T18:04:49Z")
I’m a african american male 25 in memphis tn. I just ordered instant openness, ammo, and instant shine. I plan to test it on my “baby momma” who is 25 and who is bi-racial (black/white). Want to get her to talk to me more when i go see my son, we NEVER talk when i go over there, also wouldn’t mind a little flirting, she is also a lesbian now (think she’s a little confused) any tips on what to use based on the fact she’s a lesbian, bi sexual and bi racial. How soon can i expect results thanks from the M-town ---
**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2009, 6:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-on-what-to-use/26736/2 "2009-03-04T18:29:30Z")
Well, it’s not a race and it’s not magic. Start by wearing one product at a time. You might start with IO since you are looking for communication. Wear 2 sprays the first time you visit with her, next time three, next time 4, then try without it, then start over. Do this until you start to understand the effects a little and then move on to the next product. Say a week with each product. then you’ll know how much works best on her with your chemistry, then you can start to combine products till you get the best effect. Have fun and look beyond the one target. [Pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) can bring a lot to your life, look for the bigger picture.