# Need help selecting

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-selecting/67673>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [April 1, 2018, 2:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-selecting/67673 "2018-04-01T14:57:53Z")\
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**Author:** ![johnfromky](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/a5b964/32.png) [@johnfromky](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/johnfromky)\
**Post date:** [April 1, 2018, 2:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-selecting/67673/1 "2018-04-01T14:57:53Z")

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I am hoping the community can help with a suggestion for a product. My wife and I recently had a baby in Feb. There are some days where she is extra irritable and I can’t do anything right. I’m sure the lack of sleep doesn’t help but I’m doing everything possible to help that.

Do you think instant openness or similar may help?

Thanks in advance

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**Author:** ![tonyman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/34f0e0/32.png) [@tonyman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tonyman)\
**Post date:** [April 2, 2018, 8:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-selecting/67673/2 "2018-04-02T08:35:26Z")

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Hi johnfromky

I’m not sure [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) is really appropriate for your situation.

Something like TAC (also called Molecule C) or the putatives p74 or p96 might be better. They are good at smoothing over ruffled female feathers.

However, the Androtics store is changing at the moment to a new version, so the availability of those pheromones may change. You might want to sign up for updates on when the new store will open at [androtics.com](http://androtics.com) (not [androticsdirect.com](http://androticsdirect.com), which is the current store).

They are going to have a new line of products - some of which may suit your purposes better.

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**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\
**Post date:** [April 10, 2018, 7:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-selecting/67673/3 "2018-04-10T07:10:02Z")

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I will add IShine to the recommendation. Good for putting the mood up and bring out the smiles.

But of course, asking for a professional opinion/help will be the wisest move you’ll have to take.

Happy Pheroing! 🙂