# Need help talking to girls! **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [October 8, 2012, 9:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-talking-to-girls/56968 "2012-10-08T21:00:52Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 2
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Greetings Ballzan, There is a great thread I’d like to point you to where you can get great information on this topic: [Kimba’s getting the women](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-the-woman/56612) This is page five of this thread where I share some of my texting techniques and Kimba shares his personal style of phone/text game. A quote from this thread by Kimba: “Run attraction. “Hey pumpkiin, we are over. I am sorry, but it safer for you, I am a bad man.” You stand out, she is intrigued and attracted. DO it a few times, she will reply. Banter. Schedule a meet up. Qualification is done all the time, and it is the single part of game you should not do via text. Why? It sounds like 21 questions no matter how you do it. Because you are either prying for information or asking the question game. If you are in comfort with you, you get to know her more. Plan future adventures and be fun so she wants to see you. Then schedule a meet up. The key to planning a meet-up is baiting her with a roleplay or tease in order to bait her to want to hang out.” I personally utilize a specific roleplay used by Tim at Real Social Dynamics called the 5 minute texting girlfriend. Here’s a quote from that same thread where I talk about it: "Been really focusing on texting game lately and constantly enjoy using Tim’s(RSD) 5 minute texting girlfriend, wife, lover, etc… Although I sometimes change the time limit anywhere from 10 to 30 minutes depending on the girl. If anyone has never heard of his 5 minute texting girlfriend it goes something like this: You: Your my new texting girlfriend for the next 5(or more) minutes. Her: Lol Ok 🙂 Great You: Where are you gonna take me for our first date? Her: (answer) You: (tease her on her answer and give a better suggestion) Back and forth until its been about 5 minutes(or more) After 5(or more) minutes: You: Awww, now were broken up. It’s not you, it’s me. Was fun though. I want my CDs back and my favorite T-Shirt back. Etc.. The great thing about this is you can occasionally bring her back to the reality you just created. Saying things such as, “Aww. Now I kinda miss you. We should hang out, but just as friends. Because now we’re broken up. Or because my new texting girlfriend wouldn’t like me hanging out with my ex, etc..” My favorite is: I just realized that we didn’t have any breakup sex. Such a shame. Etc…" The point of this is to create a roleplay with her while you get some teasing in. Ideally you should create your own roleplays and ways of teasing as you get more experience. Here are some of Tim’s responses when a girl doesn’t answer or gives him attitude: “Your shit.” “What are you wearing?” “I miss you.” Here’s an example of one of Tim’s texting conversations where he utilizes some of these responses: Tim: Ally let’s hang out soon Ally: (no reply) Tim: Your shit Ally: Who is this Tim: Aussie Tim. Damn never had to chase a girl this hard Ally: Your not Australian. I heard you lied to me. Tim: Your right I’m Bangladesh. Wanna come to my beach this week? Ally: Hahaha. No your a liar but thanks anyways. Tim: Your a SHITHEAD now Ally: Oh your really witty with that awesome comeback. Tim: Why do we fight so much dearest? Ally: Haha. Dearest? I think this is our first fight Tim: What are you wearing? Ends up getting a date with the girl. Like Kimba says the whole point of you texting her should be to arrange a meetup. Don’t try to get to know her or chit chat with her over texting. That should be saved till the date. Be fun, be different, create some attraction/interest, and arrange a meetup. Good Luck! --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-talking-to-girls/56968)._