# need help to no what should i used **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 4, 2007, 12:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-to-no-what-should-i-used/1896 "2007-02-04T00:40:08Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 16\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![therogueheero](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/848f3c/32.png) [@therogueheero](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/therogueheero)\ **Post date:** [February 4, 2007, 12:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-to-no-what-should-i-used/1896/1 "2007-02-04T00:40:08Z")
i like my friend she 19 i ask her out a few times but she just say she does not she it. alot if people tredid her bad so she thinks i well i no i have to show her that i well not but a little help well not hurt. im 19 (20 in march) and im looking 4 long term if that helps im thinking of uesing instant female magic and instant shine ---
**Author:** ![toilofday](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/toilofday/32/371_2.png) [@toilofday](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/toilofday)\ **Post date:** [February 4, 2007, 12:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-to-no-what-should-i-used/1896/2 "2007-02-04T00:55:08Z")
Sounds like a good plan. Should make her more comforable and more and attracted towards you. Remember, [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) don’t have a super stong effect. It’s compared to a female putting on make up, and dressing to attract. (effective still) So there is work you will have to do to make her comfortable, trusting, and safe. ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [February 4, 2007, 1:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-to-no-what-should-i-used/1896/3 "2007-02-04T01:16:54Z")
Very true! You hit the nail on the head, there, toil! Using pheromones is like using makeup.. it enhances what you have, makes you way more attractive if used right, and says volumes about you without you saying anything. They don’t do ALL the work, but they push you in the right direction. Pheromones can make you look more composed. Pheromones can make you more confident. Pheromones can give an air of respect. With your girlie, you might want to ease up, offer her some space, and not be “one of those guys” who continually hounds her. If she’s had guys treat her bad in the past, you’ll want to establish yourself as the guy who wouldn’t do that. You do that by increasing comfort levels, listening to her, becoming someone who truly cares and knows how to show it! IFM and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) might be a slick choice, pheromone-wise, to help form a positive perception of you in her eyes. IFM will provide this element of comfort which will allow her to be more girly and excited and _herself_ around you. You might also want to work on other aspects of your WHOLE self, subtle things, like posture and voice tone. Stand straighter, and hum a lot. (Humming really helps honey up your voice tone! Guys with sexy voices just _emanate_ sexiness like that is their _being_.) Just show a genuine, loving interest in her. Establish yourself as the BOULDER in her life. That’s what she’s likely looking for, anyway. Feel her out, get to know her, and then a little down the ways, when you two have a good rapport going, you can kick it up a notch with a sexier phero blend, like TUTH. Anyway, keep us updated on the details, and we’ll do our best to steer you in the right direction! 🙂🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Pharcyde](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/b2d939/32.png) [@Pharcyde](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pharcyde)\ **Post date:** [February 4, 2007, 3:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-to-no-what-should-i-used/1896/4 "2007-02-04T03:28:04Z")
> [@Jasmin](#): > > … Feel her out… i dont think english is his first language. if he doesnt get our slang this could be an unfortunate choice of words ☹ ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [February 4, 2007, 3:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-to-no-what-should-i-used/1896/5 "2007-02-04T03:48:21Z")
hahahahaha… Thanks there, Pharcyde! Yes, OMG, \*\*don’t \*\*_feel_ her out, like, physically… haha, unless all the iois and body language is there. “Feel out” her emotions by what she says, what body language indicators she gives, etc. ---
**Author:** ![bronzie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e274bd/32.png) [@bronzie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bronzie)\ **Post date:** [February 4, 2007, 3:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-to-no-what-should-i-used/1896/6 "2007-02-04T03:54:56Z")
> [@Jasmin](#): > > hahahahaha… Thanks there, Pharcyde! > > Yes, OMG, \*\*don’t \*\*_feel_ her out, like, physically… haha, unless all the iois and body language is there. “Feel out” her emotions by what she says, what body language indicators she gives, etc. Jasmin, have you ever thought of going into the dating/PUA profession?, I wouldnt go as far as call it a profession ofcourse 😛 , however, I think you would make a good advice consultant for alot of needy males. ---
**Author:** ![toilofday](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/toilofday/32/371_2.png) [@toilofday](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/toilofday)\ **Post date:** [February 4, 2007, 3:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-to-no-what-should-i-used/1896/7 "2007-02-04T03:58:42Z")
> [@bronzie](#): > > Jasmin, have you ever thought of going into the dating/PUA profession?, I wouldnt go as far as call it a profession ofcourse 😛 , however, I think you would make a good advice consultant for alot of needy males. Great idea! Jasimin You’re HIRED! Look for consultant employment no longer. lol ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [February 4, 2007, 4:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-to-no-what-should-i-used/1896/8 "2007-02-04T04:43:25Z")
Just a friendly female perspective 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![therogueheero](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/848f3c/32.png) [@therogueheero](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/therogueheero)\ **Post date:** [February 5, 2007, 6:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-to-no-what-should-i-used/1896/9 "2007-02-05T06:18:48Z")
thanks everyone 4 the help.. yea my english is just bad well how i put things when im saying them is bad ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2007, 12:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-to-no-what-should-i-used/1896/10 "2007-02-06T00:36:43Z")
> [@bronzie](#): > > Jasmin, have you ever thought of going into the dating/PUA profession? That’s illegal here in the States (except in Nevada).😮 ---
**Author:** ![therogueheero](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/848f3c/32.png) [@therogueheero](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/therogueheero)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2007, 9:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-to-no-what-should-i-used/1896/11 "2007-02-06T21:55:50Z")
how long do it takes restock the pheromones when its sold out ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2007, 10:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-to-no-what-should-i-used/1896/12 "2007-02-06T22:11:58Z")
Everything is updated, back in stock, and ready to go! 🙂 Thanks for pointing that out, rogue hero! ---
**Author:** ![HeinzHummer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/heinzhummer/32/941_2.png) [@HeinzHummer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HeinzHummer)\ **Post date:** [February 7, 2007, 4:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-to-no-what-should-i-used/1896/13 "2007-02-07T04:53:06Z")
Okay so im a little bit confused. At the bottom of the Androtics website it says Boca Raton, Florida. But on my purchase order it says Beverly Hills, CA. So my question is, where does it ship from ? My initial instinct says CA because when i tracked it through FedEx all the points of update were from CA, however, the shipment took 6 days to be delivered, and the real kicker is that i could have driven to Beverly Hills in less than an hour to pick the order up, me being in Orange County. Edit: BTW i used 2 day FedEx verified which is 9.99 within the U.S. and free with orders over a certain amount. ---
**Author:** ![Mohammad\_Shah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mohammad_shah/32/873_2.png) [@Mohammad\_Shah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohammad_Shah)\ **Post date:** [February 7, 2007, 7:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-to-no-what-should-i-used/1896/14 "2007-02-07T07:06:45Z")
> [@Mtnjim](#): > > That’s illegal here in the States (except in Nevada).😮 Almost everything’s illegal in the States!!!😃 I wonder where the law makers came from!!😛 😃 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![toilofday](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/toilofday/32/371_2.png) [@toilofday](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/toilofday)\ **Post date:** [February 7, 2007, 9:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-to-no-what-should-i-used/1896/15 "2007-02-07T09:17:43Z")
> [@Mohammad\_Shah](#): > > Almost everything’s illegal in the States!!!😃 I wonder where the law makers came from!!😛 😃 🙄 Many of the trouble some original laws are the result of P.O.ed powder wig, slave owning, rich, plantation owning colonists. ARG! The made a lot of good laws though. I was told a story that I cannot confirm that one of the original attacts and legal bans on the plant known as Marijuana was due to a plantation owner who didn’t like people smoking it on his property. Now I don’t burn anymore, but I think it is great for migrains, cancer patients, and glaucoma (I have migrains and my uncle has glaucoma, and yes he burns one down from time to time to reduce symptoms) Back to pheromones…Woo things are back in stock…Any word on the Oil version of shine? ---
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [February 7, 2007, 2:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-help-to-no-what-should-i-used/1896/16 "2007-02-07T14:19:17Z")
> [@HeinzHummer](#): > > Okay so im a little bit confused. At the bottom of the Androtics website it says Boca Raton, Florida. But on my purchase order it says Beverly Hills, CA. So my question is, where does it ship from ? My initial instinct says CA because when i tracked it through FedEx all the points of update were from CA, however, the shipment took 6 days to be delivered, and the real kicker is that i could have driven to Beverly Hills in less than an hour to pick the order up, me being in Orange County. > > Edit: BTW i used 2 day FedEx verified which is 9.99 within the U.S. and free with orders over a certain amount. They ship out of Beverly Hills.