# Need some help **URL:** \ **Category:** A314 Insider's Club\ **Created:** [February 9, 2009, 4:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-some-help/25897 "2009-02-09T16:02:14Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 3\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![dpayne292](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/d2c977/32.png) [@dpayne292](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dpayne292)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2009, 4:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-some-help/25897/1 "2009-02-09T16:02:14Z")
OK, I’m in a small high school, were i’m having poblems with a student that i’m guarenteed to be with all day. It’s about something that happened to me. He’s calling me a bitch and all sorts of names and yada yada yada. Now what I wanna do about it is intimidate him, I wanna get in his face either while he’s sitting in his desk or just aproach him while he’s standing, with a couple threats of beating his ass, forcing him to back down. I don’t have any intent of getting physical, I just want him to know that I’m not a bitch and probably call him the bitch. I don’t really ever like to be mean or violent, I’m actually a really nice guy, it’s just that I’ve been putting up with this for almost a year, and I’m just gettin sick of it. He doesn’t see me as a physical threat at all. Now the main question is, how much and where should i apply my A314? I’m 17, I’m a big dude(fat) and about 6’1. Thank you. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2009, 4:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-some-help/25897/2 "2009-02-09T16:08:13Z")
A314 can be applied to the wrists. It will diffuse nearer to the target. I suggest you add TUTH to be dominant. ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2009, 9:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-some-help/25897/3 "2009-02-10T21:28:36Z")
I understand where you’re coming from about not being mean or violent. It doesn’t have to be mean or violent. You can just let him know that you’re not cool with anymore of his current behavior towards you. He’ll probably refuse and challenge you to swing. At that point, you have a choice. Swing or don’t swing. I don’t know if fighting is included in being violent for you, but I’ll assume it is. If you swing, you’re choosing to be violent, compromising your values. If you don’t, you don’t compromise your values, but you are seen as a bitch by some people. What’s worse for you? Being seen as a bitch or compromising yourself? But that might not get them to stop. So then what do you do? Ignore it and just handle your own. If you still can’t stand it, then you just have to do something about it, values be damned. Now best case scenario, let’s say you can get him to swing first. Then I say rock him. Rock the shit out of him. If he falls and stays down, you win, and he’s the bitch, not you. Take him down and you’re king. If not, then it’s him. If you want to try it another way, the next time he calls you out in public, respond back in a manner so that everyone’s attention is on you. Make sure you show that you’ve got backbone and you’re not backing down. Don’t fight him, especially if this is in a classroom, or on campus. But every single time, let the whole world know that you ain’t taking that shit. Eventually, he’ll just look like a jackass to everyone else. Uhm..last thing, if he’s calling you a bitch because you refused to fight, then there’s nothing that’s gonna change that other than you fighting him. If you continue to avoid the fighting, then you’ll only reinforce his reasons for calling you a bitch. I’d suggest 1 drop split between the wrists and one drop on your neck.