# Need something for work.... **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [September 24, 2009, 9:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-something-for-work/32759 "2009-09-24T21:04:31Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Richm717](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c0e974/32.png) [@Richm717](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Richm717)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2009, 9:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-something-for-work/32759/1 "2009-09-24T21:04:31Z")
From what I’ve read, the only [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) really work appropriate would be A314? The past few weeks I’ve been getting disrespected quite a bit (in my mind anyways), ppl paying me no mind, not caring about my opinion, showing me a general lack of respect. This has never happened before. I’m not spineless, I’m always polite and courteous (to the point of redundancy) so I dont know the reasoning for the sudden change? Any phero suggestions? Rich ---
**Author:** ![Richm717](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c0e974/32.png) [@Richm717](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Richm717)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2009, 5:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-something-for-work/32759/2 "2009-09-25T17:06:28Z")
No respect at work or on the forums! 😉 Come on guys, a little help here ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2009, 6:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-something-for-work/32759/3 "2009-09-25T18:24:41Z")
What type of work do you do? I think the work environment & culture is really important aspect as in some work environments it would be totally ok to be “the nice guy” ie the one who’s always polite, not very vocal & possibly not very assertive…in other work environments that would be social suicide & you’d get walked all over. If you work in a very competitive & macho environment then I would think it was quite possible that your colleagues might think you a bit “too soft” if you are always polite rather than biting back if they are rude or crude, and that could lead to them respecting you less? ---
**Author:** ![Richm717](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c0e974/32.png) [@Richm717](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Richm717)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2009, 7:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-something-for-work/32759/4 "2009-09-25T19:49:43Z")
I work in IT inside sales