# Need the push over the cliff **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [May 25, 2007, 5:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-the-push-over-the-cliff/3843 "2007-05-25T05:19:38Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![safeasmilk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e68b1a/32.png) [@safeasmilk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/safeasmilk)\ **Post date:** [May 25, 2007, 5:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-the-push-over-the-cliff/3843/1 "2007-05-25T05:19:38Z")
At work, I have a female friend that I developed strong feelings for. I tried looking for signs that she likes me too, but they seem to be inconclusive. I noticed that she has smiled and winked at me on a few occasions when she’s talked to me which may be a sign of interest but maybe not. She also sometimes likes to play practical jokes on me to see how I react. I am a fairly good-looking man and have been told that I am handsome and cute. My female friend is more outgoing than I am. She is dating someone right now, but I the relationship doesn’t seem particularly serious. I wanted to tell her how I felt about her but have not yet done so out of fear that she would reject me and the feelings have persisted for months, and in the meantime, she started dating someone. I have really fallen for my friend and I want to be with her. Can [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) help in a case like this or does her other relationship preclude that? ---
**Author:** ![Smudge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/47e85d/32.png) [@Smudge](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Smudge)\ **Post date:** [May 25, 2007, 8:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-the-push-over-the-cliff/3843/2 "2007-05-25T08:07:34Z")
Glad you have not told her about your feelings. I think you need to play cool. Chill out and play the situation calmly and smartly. If you really want her, and it seems you do, the guy she is dating is of no concern to you. Since you are already friends, you can always find ways to get her to hang out with you. Word it carefully though. Asking her out directly is basically telling your intention. Ask her to ‘hang out’. When you two are together, hopefully alone, work on her. Tease her. Test her. Treat her like your sister. Take it lightly. Yet, every now and then, make very tiny gestures and get her to think you may be interested in her sexually. I am taking about saying something like, you look sexy tonight or touching waist line lightly when you two are walking and turning directions. I know it is much more difficult than it sounds, but I think taking her seriously (in front of her, at least) can make things more difficult for you. Also, do you have other female friends? Hang out with them. One day, casually and subtlety let her know that you have other company and options. I am not saying you should tell her “Hey, I am dating 6 other girls. How about that!” Say something like ‘Sorry, can’t hang out tonight. I’ve got company’ and ‘It’s no one important, just some girl I know’. You get the drift? Be cool, calm and collected. Then, if she really is interested, she will let you know very quickly. If not, you still have other girls to hang out with anyway. Things may develop with them, you never know. Be cool. Seriously! Stay calm. Good luck. ---
**Author:** ![Smudge](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/47e85d/32.png) [@Smudge](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Smudge)\ **Post date:** [May 25, 2007, 8:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-the-push-over-the-cliff/3843/3 "2007-05-25T08:12:32Z")
Forgot to say, go easy on a’none at the begining if you are not familiar with it. Increase the amount gradually over time. If she is hot for you, and you have been doing what I suggested above, mones should give her the push. A314 and nol should help also. ---
**Author:** ![Rbt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rbt/32/2066_2.png) [@Rbt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbt)\ **Post date:** [June 13, 2007, 12:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/need-the-push-over-the-cliff/3843/4 "2007-06-13T00:46:25Z")
I’ve been hearing that P74 is a “hang out” pheromone… described by some as “instant boyfriend.” It may help develop a connection between you. I just got a big bottle of P74(25) and plan to experiment with it along these lines. Will be using it probably in combination with other [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/) like Ammunition, Chikara, Shine, IFM, etc.