# Neediness: a phero or combo to help me chill and stop being clingy? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [September 1, 2009, 5:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/neediness-a-phero-or-combo-to-help-me-chill-and-stop-being-clingy/32086 "2009-09-01T17:44:46Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![mutley](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e79b87/32.png) [@mutley](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mutley)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2009, 5:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/neediness-a-phero-or-combo-to-help-me-chill-and-stop-being-clingy/32086/1 "2009-09-01T17:44:46Z")
Hi Guys This is probably a different direction to what is usually asked here but I gotta problem. I’ve been dating this girl for a couple of weeks who I have know for years, we have moved out of the friendzone no problem, don’t think I need to tell you how 🙂 The problem is I can’t get this girl out of my head, its like having a neediness to text her or see her all of the time, I’ve never had this problem before and assume my mind is already past the dating phase and into the relationship bit as I have known her for years. Anyone got suggestions on a phero or combo that might make me just chill and go with the flow as I don’t want to fuck this up by being clingy. I have read [Approach Anxiety](http://approachanxiety.com/) and some useful stuff on there, but need some additional help as I’ve gone lame.. Thanks ---
**Author:** ![djandarial](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djandarial/32/1667_2.png) [@djandarial](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djandarial)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2009, 5:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/neediness-a-phero-or-combo-to-help-me-chill-and-stop-being-clingy/32086/2 "2009-09-01T17:49:53Z")
A314 for the alpha vibe and to honestly care a little less and be content. MX138 gives a great content sense of self. That’s the best I can say without getting into the Advance phero user realm. ---
**Author:** ![M\_M](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@M\_M](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_M)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2009, 5:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/neediness-a-phero-or-combo-to-help-me-chill-and-stop-being-clingy/32086/3 "2009-09-01T17:54:24Z")
A314 could help enlarge your balls so to speak. 😉 Still … at LEAST YOU recognize the problem; and sometimes that’s not a bad thing … you just have to figure out what type of woman you have … CLINGY or NON CLINGY. There are actually some women out there that like/need clingy/needy men. A relationship is work … just pay attention, and you can improve the odds of a long-lasting one. I prefer someone that WANTS me around vice someone that WANTS/NEEDS space; but that always comes WHEN they’re getting tired of you … that’s when you know! 🆒 When you first start … they can’t go a second without you. When it starts getting old … they start requesting space, or need time alone. Tis t’wue … all men and women are not alike, BUT! When they get tired of your ass … the symptoms are **ALL** THE SAME! 😉 ---
**Author:** ![mutley](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e79b87/32.png) [@mutley](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mutley)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2009, 6:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/neediness-a-phero-or-combo-to-help-me-chill-and-stop-being-clingy/32086/4 "2009-09-01T18:13:17Z")
Thanks so far guys, will probably give A314 a go, haven’t been using recently as I’ve been experimenting. Come to think about it I’m still mucking around with [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) and stuff, maybes I should lay off the sexy pheros and go for the cool and sophisticated vibe. ---
**Author:** ![djandarial](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djandarial/32/1667_2.png) [@djandarial](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djandarial)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2009, 6:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/neediness-a-phero-or-combo-to-help-me-chill-and-stop-being-clingy/32086/5 "2009-09-01T18:21:26Z")
Yea dude, don;t worry about losing her… that may be what you are going off on… See yourself as a catch, but remind her that you are happy to be with her and enjoy your time, but don’t gravel…