# "nesting" pheromones, or how to encourage intimacy and bonding

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**Created:** [April 26, 2007, 1:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/nesting-pheromones-or-how-to-encourage-intimacy-and-bonding/3344 "2007-04-26T13:58:07Z")\
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**Post date:** [May 10, 2007, 10:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/nesting-pheromones-or-how-to-encourage-intimacy-and-bonding/3344/13 "2007-05-10T22:10:54Z")

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> [@chirimoya](#):
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> Inspired by [Nunya’s post,](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tal-i-wanna-have-your-babies/3330) what pheromones or pheromone combinations do you use to encourage “nesting” behavior with your mate? I know we’ve got the nols and Instant Honesty to support openness/sharing, but I would imagine that the desire to “nest,” to bond yourself to a certain individual and get to the business of building a life with them (even if it’s just for a weekend) is chemically inspired.I have noticed that cops makes men very deferntial to me. They are polite, courteous, gentlemanly. TAH makes my BF (and me) a little sleepy.
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> What do you use to encourage bonding, heart to heart connection, to open yourself and your beloved to a deeper, more connected way of relating to one another? This can be sexual or non-sexual; both are necessary to create a deep bond.

Great idea for a thread.

I enthusiastically second Rbt’s suggestion of [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/) and would also suggest EST. 74 goes with everything and seems to help reconcile components that would otherwise pull in different directions.

A smidge of TAK might prove helpful in dampening anxiety/making each of you feel utterly comfortable with each other.

P86 might help loosen up conversation if one or both of you is a bit reticent.

I don’t yet understand the nuances of the Chemical Romance series (from memory the mixes around the 150 mark), but they certainly seem to be creating some kind of a bonding effect for me - as well as smelling delicious.

Wrt nesting I guess there is the cuddly, staying at home swaddled in cotton wool pole and there is the go out and forage for food and nesting materials pole. I think everything I have mentioned is more of the former pole - perhaps MeoEST, TAF, Safari might help encourage the latter. I’m not sure.

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