# "nesting" pheromones, or how to encourage intimacy and bonding **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 26, 2007, 1:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/nesting-pheromones-or-how-to-encourage-intimacy-and-bonding/3344 "2007-04-26T13:58:07Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 2
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2007, 8:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/nesting-pheromones-or-how-to-encourage-intimacy-and-bonding/3344/2 "2007-04-26T20:38:39Z")
i don’t know - i’m only speaking from my 2 latest experiences. The first guy, whilst mutal respect, and a certain attentiveness had already been inspired pre-phero use -a combo of nols and edge gel, and basically arousing the hell out of him, is what got him wanting to cuddle and always be around me, and act boyfriend-like. But the boyfriend like part was more like the folks you see draped all over each other at the park. With my more long-term guy it’s apparently the TAL. I wouldn’t say the TAL inspires arousal in him so much - well i guess it does, but not so much raw sexuality, as mind-blowing OMG you are my DREAMGIRL!!, arousal. In both my cases - obviously it’s arousal, combined with previous feelings (both these guys had crushes on me when they were young, like early 20s - but it was the untouchable, unattainable kind of crush), that turned things up a notch - so i can’t speak for more long-term truly committed situations. --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/nesting-pheromones-or-how-to-encourage-intimacy-and-bonding/3344)._