# never get flaked on again?

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**Category:** Lounge\
**Created:** [April 28, 2009, 10:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/never-get-flaked-on-again/28464 "2009-04-28T22:07:35Z")\
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**Author:** ![PheroQuirk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/9e8a1a/32.png) [@PheroQuirk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroQuirk)\
**Post date:** [April 28, 2009, 10:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/never-get-flaked-on-again/28464/1 "2009-04-28T22:07:35Z")

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[The Dating Chronicles of Tyler: Never get flaked on again…](http://thedatingcroniclesoftylerd.blogspot.com/2009/04/never-get-flaked-on-again.html?zx=9eafe219b15135b6)

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> Girls that flake. Everyone has probably had this happen to them. Anyone who approaches girls and gets phone numbers finds that some girls don’t answer their phone or are “too busy” to ever do anything. This happens because they are flat out not that interested. This isn’t because you are not interesting, you just didn’t do enough to make them want it bad enough. Girls will rearrange their schedules for you if they want to see you bad enough. Once you get better at approaching girls, your next step is to eliminate flakiness.
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> …I was noticing though that a lot of the girls I pursued were flaking on me. It happened over and over. It was frustrating. I tried to analyze why these girls weren’t anxious to make plans with me. Maybe I wasn’t spending enough time with each of them. Maybe I rushed the number. There has to be a reason.
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> I was putting too much emphasis on getting the phone number and not enough on the method. Numbers equal nothing if you can’t act on them. Maybe I had the idea that I could build a little more rapport when I called. Or maybe our first date we could get to know each other a little more. I was missing the point that a girl won’t go out with you if they don’t feel comfortable, if they think they can do better, if they think you are just some run of the mill bar guy…
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> I was at a bar in Boston. On the dance floor with a girl. We were making out, talking, nearly fucking. This girl didn’t return my call or text. This was the last draw. Something needs to be done…And that is when I came up with this new experiment.

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**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\
**Post date:** [April 29, 2009, 12:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/never-get-flaked-on-again/28464/2 "2009-04-29T00:16:38Z")

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Yeah totally true. My best numbers always come from being uninterested in getting the number.

My current GF is a product of this. OMG did I just say GF. DAMN