# New and excited to be hear **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 31, 2007, 10:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-excited-to-be-hear/1854 "2007-01-31T22:38:36Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![newplayer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/f04885/32.png) [@newplayer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/newplayer)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2007, 10:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-excited-to-be-hear/1854/1 "2007-01-31T22:38:36Z")
Hello everybody, To start it off, I’m a 23 year old asian male. I used to live in California, now I live in Louisiana. Been living in Louisiana for 9 years now. Let’s see I’m 5’7" 160lbs medium built. I’m fairly good looking, but I’m not very athletic. I’m somewhat a skeptic. When I see things like [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/), I would ask myself: “If it works so well, why don’t everybody use it?” Also are there any risks involved? Once you start using it, will you develop dependency? Are there any negative side effects to your health? Well after reading a few threads, I decided to give it a try. I have yet to buy a single bottle of pheromone, so let me have your expert opinions on what I should start out with. I graduated from college last year and since then my life has been somewhat dull. I currently don’t have a girlfriend. My main goal in joining this forum is to ask for your insights in using pheromone to gain unfair advantage in picking up girls, getting GOOD dates, and maybe more. Your opinions are greatly appreciated. ---
**Author:** ![nbully79](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c68b51/32.png) [@nbully79](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nbully79)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2007, 11:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-excited-to-be-hear/1854/2 "2007-01-31T23:09:05Z")
> [@newplayer](#): > > Hello everybody, > > To start it off, I’m a 23 year old asian male. I used to live in California, now I live in Louisiana. Been living in Louisiana for 9 years now. Let’s see I’m 5’7" 160lbs medium built. I’m fairly good looking, but I’m not very athletic. I’m somewhat a skeptic. When I see things like pheromone, I would ask myself: “If it works so well, why don’t everybody use it?” Also are there any risks involved? Once you start using it, will you develop dependency? Are there any negative side effects to your health? Well after reading a few threads, I decided to give it a try. I have yet to buy a single bottle of pheromone, so let me have your expert opinions on what I should start out with. I graduated from college last year and since then my life has been somewhat dull. I currently don’t have a girlfriend. My main goal in joining this forum is to ask for your insights in using pheromone to gain unfair advantage in picking up girls, getting GOOD dates, and maybe more. Your opinions are greatly appreciated. Hey newplayer, welcome man! Nothing like pheromones to sparkle a dull life 😃 . You ask, “If it works so well, why don’t everybody use it?”. The thing is pheromone use is highly dependent on the individual himself. There is some amount of work involved to find the right dosage and the right product for you. Also pheromones are no magic potion as most websites claim they are, rather they are subtle enhancers of social effects which naturally exist. In other words it only enhances what you have in yourself anyway. Most new users are sold by the extravagant claims of girls jumping on you when you spray some on and are disappointed when they don’t see such effects. Also most are not willing to put the extra effort required to find the right dosages etc and get easily discouraged by initial failures. My initial recommendation to you will be Ammunition and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and lots of reading in the forum. That should bring you upto speed. For getting dates and making women interested in you, pheromones can be a good boost (boost only, remember your own personality and charisma come first). If you just vow to be a little more observant from now until you get your pheromones and then see the changes once you start using them, I am sure you won’t be a disbeliever anymore. Also read up some on body language and try to understand the signals people unconciously give each other when they are attracted! Another Asian addition to the forum is great! I will be following your reports closely. Enjoy!🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2007, 12:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-excited-to-be-hear/1854/3 "2007-02-01T00:05:33Z")
> [@newplayer](#): > > I graduated from college last year and since then my life has been somewhat dull. I graduated 30+ years ago, and I have some bad news for you…it’s downhill from here!!😮 Not really, but, you won’t have the “built in sparkle” of college life any more (have you considered graduate school?). You’ll have to put yourself into situations that are interesting and fun. Take up hobbies and go places (not necessarily bars and clubs) that are fun. NASCAR races, Art museums, plays, concerts, wine tastings etc. Not only will these be fun (and you’ll learn something at some of these), they’ll put you out among people where you can meet women, and they will give you interesting experiences that provide conversational material for talking to women. As to [pheromones](https://a314.com/), see Nbully’s post above. ---
**Author:** ![newplayer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/f04885/32.png) [@newplayer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/newplayer)\ **Post date:** [February 2, 2007, 6:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-excited-to-be-hear/1854/4 "2007-02-02T06:29:49Z")
wait who do I contact for the $15 gift certificate? ---
**Author:** ![MarkL](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/markl/32/825_2.png) [@MarkL](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MarkL)\ **Post date:** [February 2, 2007, 8:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-excited-to-be-hear/1854/5 "2007-02-02T08:38:43Z")
You don’t have to do anything for … 72 hours after posting. Usually within that time, Jasmin sees your thread and emails you the gift certificate. When she emails you, she also posts here in your thread … so when you see her note to you here, you can check for the gc. If you don’t see a post here after a few days, then you can send her a PM or call the 1-800 number. Cheers ---
**Author:** ![Matthew1982ct](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/matthew1982ct/32/1157_2.png) [@Matthew1982ct](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Matthew1982ct)\ **Post date:** [February 2, 2007, 8:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-excited-to-be-hear/1854/6 "2007-02-02T08:59:42Z")
**“If it works so well, why don’t everybody use it?”** Just my opinion; but basically for the same reason that everybody doesn’t take mega-dose Vitamin C; or red wine pills or rice bran extract. Pheromones are natural substances and hence unpatentable (the actual molecules); and hence the multi-billion dollar companies that run the Western world don’t throw their weight into their marketing. But I like it that way - it’s our little secret 😉 Matt ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2007, 11:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-excited-to-be-hear/1854/7 "2007-02-03T23:20:57Z")
Hi there newplayer! You ask some GREAT questions. Keep up your curious nature! Seems like everyone swooped in and offered up their precious advice. You’ll really like the guys here. Welcome welcome welcome! Hmm.. Are you in Louisiana for school? Check your inbox for your gift certificate. 🙂