# New and excited to be here! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 20, 2010, 2:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-excited-to-be-here/37879 "2010-04-20T02:09:05Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![darkxiao](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/darkxiao/32/1321_2.png) [@darkxiao](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/darkxiao)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2010, 2:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-excited-to-be-here/37879/1 "2010-04-20T02:09:05Z")
Hey there everyone. I’m a newcomer to the community and I am very excited to be here. My name is Ryan(darkxiao) and it’s really a pleasure meeting you all. I live in the West Hollywood here in California as I am a current student at UCLA. I’m 19 years old into my sophomore year as a Computer Science Major. I’m also on the Track team here and my experience so far has been great. As far as hobbies other than Track, i’m a guy who likes to just chill and converse with people. I get a lot of self joy when I can sit down and talk with a group of people and just be ourselves. I first heard about pheromones about 3 months ago. I forget exactly how I found out about them but I ended up doing a Google search and have been interested ever since. Strangely enough I just recently found about this community. I’ve been looking around a lot these past two weeks just reading people’s opinions and comments and just got a real good view at how nice, kind, and willingly helpful the group of people here are and I feel a special kind of warmth here because I am exactly the same way. This is why I want to get into pheromones. My problem is I kind of feel like me being this type of social person is a waste of time because a lot of people(mainly girls) misjudge me upon first glance due to my stereotypical athletic look I have. The sort of the jocky, “think i’m better than everyone else because i’m an athlete” look. And that’s not even close to how I really am. And that’s where I need the pheromones help. I’m looking for something that can just get people to get over that solid ice which is present in almost all social beginnings so to speak. You see it with intimate relationships, guys when they go up to a girl in bars and so forth. With that being said, I haven’t brought any products yet because i’m not too sure on which to buy or which would be perfect to use in my situation. My reason for being here is because i’m looking for something that can help girls view me in that “there’s something about him” way. The product that will be give me that “sexy, lust, and dang I can’t help but to notice him” kind of effect. Pretty much the [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) I think would be correct. I hope to learn a lot from everyone and take in as much knowledge as I can take and just use it to the best of my ability. Thanks everyone, Ryan. ---
**Author:** ![seekingadvice](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/58f4c7/32.png) [@seekingadvice](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/seekingadvice)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2010, 2:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-excited-to-be-here/37879/2 "2010-04-20T02:11:41Z")
Hey Ryan! Welcome to PheroTalk! So you want to get that outside of that “jock who thinks is better than everyone else” thing out of their head? In your case, I believe [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) will be key. But I would like to know, how do you approach girls? Are you confident? Shy? How do you interact with people and how is your personality? This will help you qualify for the gift certificate as well as me being able to give you a better recommendation on which product you may be looking for 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![darkxiao](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/darkxiao/32/1321_2.png) [@darkxiao](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/darkxiao)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2010, 2:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-excited-to-be-here/37879/3 "2010-04-20T02:42:41Z")
> [@seekingadvice](#): > > Hey Ryan! Welcome to PheroTalk! > > So you want to get that outside of that “jock who thinks is better than everyone else” thing out of their head? > > In your case, I believe Instant Gentleman will be key. > > But I would like to know, how do you approach girls? Are you confident? Shy? How do you interact with people and how is your personality? > > This will help you qualify for the gift certificate as well as me being able to give you a better recommendation on which product you may be looking for 🙂 Well I’m not shy to talk to girls when my intentions have nothing to do with flirtation or “hitting on them.” Even then i’m not too shy, but i’m shy enough to hinder what I want to say to them. The way I interact with people is a serious, but kind of laughable way. I’m always smiling and being silly. And even though I goof around and have people laugh all the time, the things I say i’m serious about lol. But anyway like i said before, when my intentions are everything but trying to hit on them, i’m fine. The way I talk and the demeanor I have. So all in all, No, i’m not shy and I am confident in myself. I just kind of loose stability when hitting on girls. Hopefully that answered your question =X! ---
**Author:** ![seekingadvice](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/58f4c7/32.png) [@seekingadvice](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/seekingadvice)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2010, 4:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-excited-to-be-here/37879/4 "2010-04-20T04:58:26Z")
Well Well! Hmm I must say, usually I don’t recommend this many products but here goes 😛 I feel you definitely should take advantage of Instant Shine. It will really enhance your vibe you are giving out. Instant Shine is meant to be the “awe” factor. It lifts up people’s mood around you and better yet it works wonders on yourself as well. It really is a treat for self-effects. Instant Shine will make everyone feel you are that fun to be with, relaxed guy. It’s great! I mentioned [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) earlier, because from what you provided earlier, it seemed as if it will really help take down that “jock who knows everything” demeanor off you and help putting on a “cool boyfriend material” type of vibe for you. You aren’t shy, but when you do have intentions for “flirting” or more than a friend, I believe these 2 products should help. Instant Openness (ice-breaker, it helps them open up easily once you initiate a conversation). OR Ammo ! Ammo, as it is, is a great stand-alone product. It is used for “sexual attraction”, confidence and respect. You can use it for all 3 (especially confidence when you have intentions such as flirting) as it usually provides all 3 of those vibes. It is many people’s favorite product. It works well when combined with Instant Shine as well 🙂 There’s a thread on it somewhere, you may find it. Okay, so I believe, you have a couple choices, (again from my opinion). 1. Go with Instant Shine, Ammo, and Instant Openness 2. Go with Instant Shine, Instant Gentleman, and Instant Openness 3. Go for it all lol! The reason why people recommend not to use Instant Gentleman and Ammo is because Instant Gentleman takes off that “sexual attraction” vibe given out from Ammo. That’s the only reason why in a combination of pheromones to spray, they don’t mix those 2. For your purpose when you purchase, you can purchase all 4 products and see which one works better for you. I feel both choice 1 and choice 2 will be great for you. If you can’t afford, try to-go bottles. I would recommend though, for the Instant Shine, get that as a double strength (2x) as it will last longer and save you money in the longer run. Instant Shine is a great great product Ryan! Conclusion: All 4 products will be great 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![darkxiao](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/darkxiao/32/1321_2.png) [@darkxiao](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/darkxiao)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2010, 5:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-excited-to-be-here/37879/5 "2010-04-20T05:15:56Z")
> [@seekingadvice](#): > > Well Well! Hmm I must say, usually I don’t recommend this many products but here goes 😛 > > I feel you definitely should take advantage of Instant Shine. It will really enhance your vibe you are giving out. Instant Shine is meant to be the “awe” factor. It lifts up people’s mood around you and better yet it works wonders on yourself as well. It really is a treat for self-effects. Instant Shine will make everyone feel you are that fun to be with, relaxed guy. It’s great! > > I mentioned Instant Gentleman earlier, because from what you provided earlier, it seemed as if it will really help take down that “jock who knows everything” demeanor off you and help putting on a “cool boyfriend material” type of vibe for you. > > You aren’t shy, but when you do have intentions for “flirting” or more than a friend, I believe these 2 products should help. Instant Openness (ice-breaker, it helps them open up easily once you initiate a conversation). OR Ammo ! Ammo, as it is, is a great stand-alone product. It is used for “sexual attraction”, confidence and respect. You can use it for all 3 (especially confidence when you have intentions such as flirting) as it usually provides all 3 of those vibes. It is many people’s favorite product. It works well when combined with Instant Shine as well 🙂 There’s a thread on it somewhere, you may find it. > > Okay, so I believe, you have a couple choices, (again from my opinion). > > 1. Go with Instant Shine, Ammo, and Instant Openness > 2. Go with Instant Shine, Instant Gentleman, and Instant Openness > 3. Go for it all lol! > > The reason why people recommend not to use Instant Gentleman and Ammo is because Instant Gentleman takes off that “sexual attraction” vibe given out from Ammo. That’s the only reason why in a combination of pheromones to spray, they don’t mix those 2. For your purpose when you purchase, you can purchase all 4 products and see which one works better for you. I feel both choice 1 and choice 2 will be great for you. If you can’t afford, try to-go bottles. I would recommend though, for the Instant Shine, get that as a double strength (2x) as it will last longer and save you money in the longer run. Instant Shine is a great great product Ryan! > > Conclusion: All 4 products will be great 🙂 Alright! This is great, you’ve help me out a lot and I really appreciate it. I’ve been reading people’s posts about where to apply the stuff. I know you can mix them to get a great combination. I also read that it’s best to apply where the body heats up. So if i sprayed [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) on my wrists, Ammo on my chest, and then IO on my neck or around that area…would I be fine? If i sprayed something over another product would that mess it up? ---
**Author:** ![seekingadvice](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/58f4c7/32.png) [@seekingadvice](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/seekingadvice)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2010, 5:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-excited-to-be-here/37879/6 "2010-04-20T05:46:14Z")
😉 Yep, it’s best where the warmth is because of diffusion. Best places are neck, wrists, and hair believe it or not. But the hair, sometimes it’s hard for pheros to come out lol even though it’s the best place to apply [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). You can apply products on top of each other ofcourse but it’s best if you wait a few minutes for the first product to dry down and then apply the next product. Yeah you should be fine but I recommend you put that shine near neck/chin area 😛 good self effects usually for most people. IO on your wrists, if you use hand motion when you talk, that way it spreads around in the air 😛 Ammo, you can use on chest, but people tend not to do it on chest because shirt covering it (it won’t effect too much but it may not come off as strong), so even on neck or behind the ears is fine. (Try neck in the center. The IS, try on side of neck, either side or both) ---
**Author:** ![darkxiao](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/darkxiao/32/1321_2.png) [@darkxiao](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/darkxiao)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2010, 4:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-excited-to-be-here/37879/7 "2010-04-21T04:43:28Z")
> [@seekingadvice](#): > > 😉 Yep, it’s best where the warmth is because of diffusion. Best places are neck, wrists, and hair believe it or not. But the hair, sometimes it’s hard for pheros to come out lol even though it’s the best place to apply pheromones. > > You can apply products on top of each other ofcourse but it’s best if you wait a few minutes for the first product to dry down and then apply the next product. > > Yeah you should be fine but I recommend you put that shine near neck/chin area 😛 good self effects usually for most people. > > IO on your wrists, if you use hand motion when you talk, that way it spreads around in the air 😛 > > Ammo, you can use on chest, but people tend not to do it on chest because shirt covering it (it won’t effect too much but it may not come off as strong), so even on neck or behind the ears is fine. (Try neck in the center. The IS, try on side of neck, either side or both) Alright! One again I really appreciate your help. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![seekingadvice](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/58f4c7/32.png) [@seekingadvice](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/seekingadvice)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2010, 4:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-excited-to-be-here/37879/8 "2010-04-21T04:56:21Z")
> [@darkxiao](#): > > Alright! One again I really appreciate your help. 🙂 Anytime Ryan 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![falcos](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/falcos/32/1189_2.png) [@falcos](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/falcos)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2010, 1:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-excited-to-be-here/37879/9 "2010-04-21T13:38:30Z")
Hi Ryan welcome to pherotalk. I see seekingadvice already provided you full of yousefull advice. So I just wanted to stop by and give you a warm welcome. If you need anything else just ask, I will provide an awnser to the best of my knowledge. Best regards falcos ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2010, 8:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-excited-to-be-here/37879/10 "2010-04-21T20:07:55Z")
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