# New and Looking for a Pheromone, Which One? **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 15, 2010, 1:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-looking-for-a-pheromone-which-one/43964 "2010-12-15T01:54:37Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![CJBRH](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f1d935/32.png) [@CJBRH](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CJBRH)\ **Post date:** [December 15, 2010, 1:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-looking-for-a-pheromone-which-one/43964/1 "2010-12-15T01:54:37Z")
Hi I’m a divorced 40 plus woman who’s just starting to date again. There’s a guy I’m interested in who has shown some interest in me. We’ve done work things together, and he’s on an extended business trip right now and when he gets back I’ll be doing Xmas with the family. He’s mentioned 3 times that we get together for dinner after the holidays, or maybe try to squeeze a drink or two in between his business trip and Xmas. I know [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) aren’t magic potions, but I was wondering if there was one someone could recommend that would make him relaxed, happy and heighten the attraction he already feels for me (and I him). ---
**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\ **Post date:** [December 15, 2010, 1:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-looking-for-a-pheromone-which-one/43964/2 "2010-12-15T01:58:42Z")
> [@CJBRH](#): > > Hi I’m a divorced 40 plus woman who’s just starting to date again. There’s a guy I’m interested in who has shown some interest in me. We’ve done work things together, and he’s on an extended business trip right now and when he gets back I’ll be doing Xmas with the family. He’s mentioned 3 times that we get together for dinner after the holidays, or maybe try to squeeze a drink or two in between his business trip and Xmas. > > I know pheromones aren’t magic potions, but I was wondering if there was one someone could recommend that would make him relaxed, happy and heighten the attraction he already feels for me (and I him). Hey CJ, Welcome to PT! I hope you are well. How is the winter season? How is the weather where you are at? Yea, I hope things work out with your target guy… I suggest [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A or B with Instant shine and ih… ISa would help you be a sexy alpha vixen; ISb would help you seem soft and feminine… You should pick based on the type of girl he likes 😉 Instant shine would give you a youthful glow, and ih would help you two connect and become intimate… Good luck and let us know about your experience! ---
**Author:** ![CJBRH](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f1d935/32.png) [@CJBRH](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CJBRH)\ **Post date:** [December 15, 2010, 2:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-looking-for-a-pheromone-which-one/43964/3 "2010-12-15T02:57:41Z")
I think soft and feminine and trustworthy is more what I really am. He’s sort of a guarded, cautious person–and very used to being around guys, in a very male dominated business. I wear Opium perfume. Would it clash with that? ---
**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\ **Post date:** [December 15, 2010, 3:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-looking-for-a-pheromone-which-one/43964/4 "2010-12-15T03:06:24Z")
> [@CJBRH](#): > > I think soft and feminine and trustworthy is more what I really am. He’s sort of a guarded person. > > I wear Opium perfume. Would it clash with that? I don’t think so, unless the perfume has much mones, which i doubt 😉 You should try ISb to enhance your soft femininity. Also, use ih and instant shine with it to give you a youthful glow and feel good vibe. Ih would help you to connect deeper. Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [December 15, 2010, 3:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-looking-for-a-pheromone-which-one/43964/5 "2010-12-15T03:51:53Z")
Hi and Welcome to the forum CJBRH!!! Quite an alphabet soup! You’ve been getting some straight talk from CK I see… IS/b is a great sexy, demure, vibe, think of a Natalie Portman… Now, the socials, though they say for men, are unisex, like IH, IO, and the great, happy in a bottle, IS! Many user’s use a cologne or perfume as a cover to the mones and really, just need to let your perfume dry off before applying the mones… better yet, try to use another spot for application… Thanks for joining and hope the best for you! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [December 16, 2010, 6:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-looking-for-a-pheromone-which-one/43964/6 "2010-12-16T18:51:49Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk CJ! I think you are a very brave woman. Before finding the guy am dating now I had given up and am not as experienced as you or never been married. You were married and now after all that willing to give love a second chance. I believe that is courage and I commend you for that. The pheromones default scent is neroli which is a light scent you can use with any of your perfumes. Just let the scent die down first after you spray it on. 🙂 Now, you guys are already talking so that he feels closer to you I suggest instant honesty. This promotes a deeper level of communication and in intimate moments creates a really warm atmosphere. Your personality is more [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/)/b. You are that soft, girly type that definitely attracts the alpha male. Instant sexiness/a makes you feel confident and is more for that dominant aggressive female and gives off that sexual vixen vibe. If he is reserved you might want to lean towards this products more. To tone it down to not to seem so intimidating although bcuz of your personality I doubt you would instant shine adds that polishing touch. You know him more than we do so think about it, do your research and tell us what you decided on and how it went. Your gc was issued!