# New and looking for facts. **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 6, 2009, 2:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-looking-for-facts/34655 "2009-12-06T02:25:49Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![frankgaia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/dec6dc/32.png) [@frankgaia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/frankgaia)\ **Post date:** [December 6, 2009, 2:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-looking-for-facts/34655/1 "2009-12-06T02:25:49Z")
Hello to all, I live in Northern California Bay Area, I have for many years questioned if [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) really worked, but shyness really takes over and prevents me from learning more. Can pheromones help me become more attractive to someone? or what can I expect from the use of pheromones? Also, are there pheromones that are for men to use and others for women to use, and how do I know? Can pheromones improve sexual encounter with a partner? I hope to get some answers to these simple questions? and maybe even some suggestions as to what to use or try? Thanks for all your help! FJ ---
**Author:** ![Aggie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f07891/32.png) [@Aggie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aggie)\ **Post date:** [December 6, 2009, 3:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-looking-for-facts/34655/2 "2009-12-06T03:31:56Z")
To someone, no, they can’t help you become more attractive to someone that already decided that you’re unattractive. But can they help you become more attractive to people in general? Yes, yes they absoletly can, and wearing them while making first impressions is a grand idea that WILL yield better results. Most pheromnes sites that sale pheromones, if not all of them, will tell you rather it’s for men or women. [Smartmones.com](http://Smartmones.com) (the offical store of this forum) has a mens section and a women’s section. Yes, pheromones improve sexual encounters A couple sites I recomend to you are: [Smartmones.com](http://Smartmones.com) and [Love-Scent.com](http://Love-Scent.com) I haven’t used love-scent’s products yet, but they are grand from what I hear. What kind of results do you seek from pheromones? Tell us that and we will tell you which products will help you yield those results. The very best of luck to you frankgaia. Sincerely, Michael ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [December 6, 2009, 3:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-looking-for-facts/34655/3 "2009-12-06T03:43:33Z")
Hey welcome, Michael pretty much said a good amount of info. And my answer to your questions is yes. Pheromones do give you an edge that makes you seem more attracted to people who may subconsciously feel attracted to you but not show it (pheromones will have this reveal itself to you with the pheromone exposure.) When you click on the [smartmones.com](http://smartmones.com) store right above this page on your left hand side it will tell you to click to browse products for men or women. Enjoy, and don’t forget to mention your goals for pheromone use so you can qualify for a $25 GC and recommendations! ---
**Author:** ![reddog](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/reddog/32/2091_2.png) [@reddog](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/reddog)\ **Post date:** [December 6, 2009, 3:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-looking-for-facts/34655/4 "2009-12-06T03:54:01Z")
The Instant line products, especially the [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) … Instant Shine, Instant Openness, and Instant Honesty are a great place to start and gain confidence in pheromones. Welcome to the forum… ---
**Author:** ![Warm\_It\_Up\_Chris](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/34f0e0/32.png) [@Warm\_It\_Up\_Chris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Warm_It_Up_Chris)\ **Post date:** [December 6, 2009, 4:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-looking-for-facts/34655/5 "2009-12-06T04:01:29Z")
> [@frankgaia](#): > > Hello to all, I live in Northern California Bay Area, I have for many years questioned if pheromones really worked, but shyness really takes over and prevents me from learning more. > > Can pheromones help me become more attractive to someone? or what can I expect from the use of pheromones? > > Also, are there pheromones that are for men to use and others for women to use, and how do I know? > > Can pheromones improve sexual encounter with a partner? > > I hope to get some answers to these simple questions? and maybe even some suggestions as to what to use or try? > > Thanks for all your help! > > FJ Heya Frankgaia! Youve come to the right place! Here is the friendliest, most informative forum on pheromones, you will find on the web! Were you aware of the $25 gift certificate offer? Basically you post some information about who you are, where you are, what you are looking for with the pheromones and not only will you likely qualify for the gc, but our resident pheromone experts can provide you with suggestions for pheros you can use to help you achieve your goals in terms of social interaction! You are well on your way as you have already told us where you are, told us a little about yourself and asked some questions about what your area of interest in pheromones would be, (attraction, correct?). Maybe you could tell us a little more about yourself? How old are you? How do your interactions generally go with women? Is your shyness kind of debilitating where even the act of approaching a woman is difficult, (if so, I am right there with you, man)? What type of interactions are you looking for, hooking up, or long term? Do you ever find yourself in the friend zone with a woman to whom you are attracted? In answer to your questions, pheromones have been reported on the forum to not only attract members of the opposite sex, but also, and maybe even more importantly in our cases, to give a confidence boost to help you overcome your shyness. To be clear, pheros aren’t like “Love Potion No 9” where she takes one whiff and starts to hump your leg. Now, I personally have on a couple (exactly 2) of occasions been approached by attractive young women while wearing pheros. In order to understand how amazing that is, you should know that I’m an oldish dude, pretty heavyset who does not have the money to buy the best clothes, shoes, nor the nicest watch. I can honestly say, I have been approached by more women since using pheros than when I was in my 20’s (about 40 lbs lighter as I was fit). Sometimes I am tempted to post a pic of myself to illustrate how bizzare it is for a young woman to approach me at all to illustrate how amazing the effect of pheros can be. Here’s the trick, the pheros will signal neurocenters in targets’ brain that the wearer is a sexy virile guy, or an alpha male, or a trustworthy dependable guy, or even a “jerk”. But the wearer must display congruency with that signal to maximize the effectiveness. So, the time that I was approached, and was so taken aback, I was unable to put together a sentence,that is an example of NOT being congruent with the pheros and as such, I failed. I cannot overemphasize the importance of congruency to your phero signature when talking about the effectiveness of pheros. But hey, I know I’m a work in progress and all things come to those whe strive for them. There are pheros for men, pheros for women and there is one product, “Mystery boy” made for the gay lifestyle as well, not sure, but I think MB contains a mix of both male and female mones. A product like Turn Up the Heat can definitely spice up sex with a partner and has been reported to do so. As far as suggestions, my 2 favorites for now are Instant Shine and [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). The reasons these products are good for new people are that as , their use has a much wider range of applications, you can use as much as you like while finding your sweet spot without worrying about Over dose like you do with the none products, and they are 2 of the products that I seem to have gotten the best reactions while wearing. Hope this helps and enjoy your phero adventure! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [December 6, 2009, 6:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-looking-for-facts/34655/6 "2009-12-06T18:12:00Z")
Thanks so much for joining PheroTalk, I’m super excited to have you here. It’s always great when a new member discovers a world so full of endless possibilities. The only limits to mones is our own imagination 🙂 While I would love to issue you the $25 Gift Certificate for saying hello I do kindly request you post some more about yourself here. If you are unsure about what qualifies as sufficient to obtain the gift certificate I am just itching to email you, please have a look at this thread: [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) I wrote it to help everyone in writing the perfect introduction. Of course the choice is yours and your privacy is very important. If you just don’t feel comfortable providing additional info we will all still do our best to assist you anyway. Welcome to PheroTalk ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [December 7, 2009, 11:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-looking-for-facts/34655/7 "2009-12-07T11:16:20Z")
> [@frankgaia](#): > > Hello to all, I live in Northern California Bay Area, I have for many years questioned if pheromones really worked, but shyness really takes over and prevents me from learning more. > > Can pheromones help me become more attractive to someone? or what can I expect from the use of pheromones? > > Also, are there pheromones that are for men to use and others for women to use, and how do I know? > > Can pheromones improve sexual encounter with a partner? > > I hope to get some answers to these simple questions? and maybe even some suggestions as to what to use or try? > > Thanks for all your help! > > FJ Hi there frankgaia. No need to be shy, we are a friendly bunch here and are happy to help with your questions. > [@](#): > > Can pheromones help me become more attractive to someone? or what can I expect from the use of pheromones? Yes they can as long as you realize what “attractive” means. They wont change the way you look to others. So you wont become more attractive in that sense. They do however attract people to you so you can get to know them and show them who you are which is all part of socialization and sexual attraction. > [@](#): > > Also, are there pheromones that are for men to use and others for women to use, and how do I know? Yes there are. We make hundreds of pheromones naturally in the body and some are just made by one gender. However most mones are present in both genders just at different ratios. For instance we all make anone in our bodies but because its derived from testosterone men make a whole lot more so its a predominantly male mone but this doesn’t mean women can not use it. It just means we use it differently then the men. The products in the store consumer section are separated in male and female categories though so you dont need to worry there. Anything you unsure of just ask. > [@](#): > > Can pheromones improve sexual encounter with a partner? Yes they can. They can increases bonding and intensify the experience. They can not make someone do something they are against doing though. As our lovely hostess Mickaelia suggested if you give more information on what effects your looking for and a little info on your personality traits you will get a $25 GC and the members can point you to products that best fit your needs. I know that if your shy and not used to forums it can be scary but we dont know you and you dont know us so this is the perfect place to begin working on that shyness. 😉 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![frankgaia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/dec6dc/32.png) [@frankgaia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/frankgaia)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2010, 2:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-looking-for-facts/34655/8 "2010-01-01T02:35:04Z")
WOW! I have received such great input from all of you, many have touched on the reasons why I am here other on questions I have had about these products. So let me tell you more about my goal: I am 47 and have been divorced for 4 years, I was a very successful executive, traveled all over the world, and so on, you get the picture. I have learned to adapt to my new life, since now I am a single dad, so of course, How do you develop new relationships, if you are now out of shape, out of style, and out of confidence? It is therefore of much interest to me to look for alternative that will allow me to set the foot in the door and attract with out a lot of effort women. I am very intelligent and savvy, so once I engage in a conversation things move forward, but then I fall into the dark are of the “friends zone” I am not saying it is bad, but there are women that I am attracted to, and quite frankly I would like to go further and beyond that zone. My shyness is a factor, but it is relevant to how I initially approach women I like, I have a taste for younger women, and in the past have been successful with them, but maybe I am getting beyond an age which changes the playing field. Nevertheless most of the friends I have range in the 25-34 age range, but I just cannot go beyond a certain point. I am located in the rural area of San Jose, CA. It is great here, and being in silicon valley women are professional, interesting, and challenging as well. I believed that pheromones could be the key ingredient to bring down the walls which prevent me from going further. I have received lots of helpful information bits. I guess I just need to take the next step and try something, the question now is, What? I am open to your suggestions. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [January 4, 2010, 10:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-looking-for-facts/34655/9 "2010-01-04T22:39:55Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones. Please call our hot-line and select extension one and Steve will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [January 4, 2010, 11:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-looking-for-facts/34655/10 "2010-01-04T23:16:16Z")
> [@frankgaia](#): > > WOW! > > I have received such great input from all of you, many have touched on the reasons why I am here other on questions I have had about these products. > > So let me tell you more about my goal: > > I am 47 and have been divorced for 4 years, I was a very successful executive, traveled all over the world, and so on, you get the picture. > > I have learned to adapt to my new life, since now I am a single dad, so of course, How do you develop new relationships, if you are now out of shape, out of style, and out of confidence? > > It is therefore of much interest to me to look for alternative that will allow me to set the foot in the door and attract with out a lot of effort women. I am very intelligent and savvy, so once I engage in a conversation things move forward, but then I fall into the dark are of the “friends zone” I am not saying it is bad, but there are women that I am attracted to, and quite frankly I would like to go further and beyond that zone. > > My shyness is a factor, but it is relevant to how I initially approach women I like, I have a taste for younger women, and in the past have been successful with them, but maybe I am getting beyond an age which changes the playing field. Nevertheless most of the friends I have range in the 25-34 age range, but I just cannot go beyond a certain point. > > I am located in the rural area of San Jose, CA. It is great here, and being in silicon valley women are professional, interesting, and challenging as well. I believed that pheromones could be the key ingredient to bring down the walls which prevent me from going further. I have received lots of helpful information bits. I guess I just need to take the next step and try something, the question now is, What? > > I am open to your suggestions. Hi there Thanks for providing more info. I suggest 3 products for you. First since your shy IO, This will help people open up and talk to you more which always helps for shy people because most the time its just getting started talking that trips them up. Ishine for a youthful warm magnetic vitality. This one is great for drawing people to you and making them comfortable. Now I would suggest [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) but its out of stock. So I am going to suggest TUTH. TUTH comes on strong sexually and normally its for clubbing parties dates sex. However you can buffer it for everyday use by using it with IO and Ishine. Plus since your 47 you make less Testosterone so TUTH will work well for you. It will bring you back up near the output you put off when you were in your 20’s. You will need to test each one separately first to find your dosage but I will give a example of how to wear TUTH in different situations. Suppose you going to a party, a club, on a date picnic anywhere that’s laid back and social. You could wear 2 to 3 sprays of TUTH with some 2 sprays of IO and 1 of Ishine. This will give a strong sexual vibe. In places that are not appropriate to be giving off a sexual vibe you want to go for sexy. Sexy and sexual are two different vibes. You could wear 1 to 2 sprays of Tuth and 3 IO 2 Ishine. See your lowering the sexual mone and upping the social comfort mones to buffer the vibe. Course as I said you will know your dosage range for each one you test them out. Have fun Tisha