# new and need a little advice **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 27, 2009, 3:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-need-a-little-advice/27465 "2009-03-27T15:52:42Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![christy271987](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/838e76/32.png) [@christy271987](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/christy271987)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2009, 3:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-need-a-little-advice/27465/1 "2009-03-27T15:52:42Z")
hi everyone, I’m going to make this as short as I can, my names christy, I’m 21 and my situations a little different than everyone elses here, I take classes from home every day and I work during the day part-time at pizza hut and I still live with my mom, who happens to be single, old-fashioned and very very over protective, so I have a hard time meeting guys, lol. but, the only way I meet new people is from work so I’m there half of the time until I can find a 2nd job so I can move out because me and her dont exactly get along that well. I’m at work even when I’m not supposed to be working 🙂. anyway, I’ve kind of got a little crush on our general manager at work, he’s just like me in a way, we both have the same attitude and everything and we flirt with each other like crazy when we see each other and he smiles at me all the time, we don’t talk to each other that much because of other big mouth employees, but PH doesn’t have a policy that say you can’t date your manager or other employees so I’m not worried about that, I’ve always been the type thats always attracted to older men because they’re more mature, so, this happens a lot to me. we’ve already broken the ice a little with our flirting, I just want to know what can I use to make it go a little further because he’s just as shy as I am, and I know what type I should use depends on my personality, and I’m not a people person usually, I’m very shy when it comes to meeting new people I don’t know and I get nervous around guys that I like, I won’t talk to them hardly that much, I would appreciate the advice/help, thanks ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2009, 4:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-need-a-little-advice/27465/2 "2009-03-27T16:29:40Z")
Hi Christy, Welcome. You will get much reply and recommendation if you post in the ‘Introduction - New User’ sectio. For your case, you can try Shine, IO, IH and [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/). SHe is to counter your shyness. It boost your confidence socially and uplift your mood too. IO will get him talking to you. He will like to talk to you. IH will make him closer to you. I can make him talk personal and deeper with you. Instant Sexiness will add the attraction. He will be attracted to you.There are 2 types of IS. IS A will make you sexy , attractive and more dominant. IS B will make you sexy, attractive and feminine. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 27, 2009, 4:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-need-a-little-advice/27465/3 "2009-03-27T16:35:38Z")
Hi Christy, If you would repost this as a new thread in the “Introduce yourself” section, you can qualify for a $25 gift certificate. Warm regards, Sillykitty ---
**Author:** ![christy271987](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/838e76/32.png) [@christy271987](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/christy271987)\ **Post date:** [March 28, 2009, 3:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-need-a-little-advice/27465/4 "2009-03-28T03:55:33Z")
thanks a lot Jamesbonded, can anyone else suggest anything else for attraction, what about for physical/sexual attraction? lol ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 28, 2009, 4:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-need-a-little-advice/27465/5 "2009-03-28T04:16:58Z")
Christy, For your personality I think that Instant Sexiness A would be helpful. It will give you more confidence, and more of a strong sexy aura. You said that you already have the “ice broken” with your Target Guy, but are having trouble getting the conversation to a deeper level. [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) will do exactly that - help bring the conversation to a more intimate level. Both of these products are great on their own (you should use them separately at first anyway, until you get a feel for how they work) or togther as a combo. Any other questions, please ask!! 🙂 Sillykitty ---
**Author:** ![Maromi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/maromi/32/809_2.png) [@Maromi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maromi)\ **Post date:** [March 28, 2009, 4:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-need-a-little-advice/27465/6 "2009-03-28T04:20:31Z")
Hey there! I would definitely go with IS/a or IS/b. Do you feel you could use more confidence? Are you considered more sexy or cute? Is the guy you like and alpha male? nice to meet you 🙂 ~Tiffany~ ---
**Author:** ![christy271987](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/838e76/32.png) [@christy271987](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/christy271987)\ **Post date:** [March 28, 2009, 3:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-need-a-little-advice/27465/7 "2009-03-28T15:10:33Z")
hi, well, it depends on the guy, the older men call me cute and the younger ones say I’m sexy, everyone has their own opinion but I get more sexy than cute somehow, lol, how would I be able to tell if he’s alpha for sure or not? ---
**Author:** ![Maromi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/maromi/32/809_2.png) [@Maromi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maromi)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2009, 2:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-need-a-little-advice/27465/8 "2009-03-29T02:00:22Z")
Guys who are alpha are very dominant. They are usually very opinionated and can be agressive in their way of doing things. I think thats probably the best way to describe one lol. ---
**Author:** ![christy271987](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/838e76/32.png) [@christy271987](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/christy271987)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2009, 6:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-need-a-little-advice/27465/9 "2009-03-29T06:11:07Z")
then this guy I like isn’t alpha at all, lol, he’s very sweet and funny when we do talk and mess with each other ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2009, 7:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-need-a-little-advice/27465/10 "2009-03-29T07:16:33Z")
Well, Christy, I would start with IS/a, but you could get both A and B (and IH), the To-Go bottles are pretty reasonable, and your GC would cover most of it. Plus you can always return them and get your money back if you don’t like one or the other. Though I suspect you might like them all, because different things are good for different situations 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![wwqwwq](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/ba8739/32.png) [@wwqwwq](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/wwqwwq)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2009, 3:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-need-a-little-advice/27465/11 "2009-03-30T03:35:35Z")
From a guy’s perspective, I know a lot of guys like cute bubbly girls, or nice and sweet girls. But then again, sometimes I can’t resist aggressive, sexy girls…haha. Good luck. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 31, 2009, 10:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-need-a-little-advice/27465/12 "2009-03-31T10:50:27Z")
Hello Christy, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 I see one of the admin moved this post up to the intro section so you could get a GC but neglected to tell me so you almost got missed. I found you though. I suggest you start with [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A for a strong confident sexy vibe. This will do a few things for you. For one make you mom see you as a grown up independent women more. Give you more confidence and attract attention from your target guy. Next I would use IH for a deeper connection and closeness with your target. You may want to get a small bottle of either IS/B or TAH as well to use in conjunction with IS/A after you leave the house and have given mom the ( but the cord) vibe. This will soften it up and make is a little more sultry. **Your GC is on its way** 😃 If you need help of have questions just let me know. Tisha Hostess/Guide ---
**Author:** ![christy271987](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/838e76/32.png) [@christy271987](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/christy271987)\ **Post date:** [March 31, 2009, 3:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-need-a-little-advice/27465/13 "2009-03-31T15:43:33Z")
this guy likes for me to be nice but he also wants me to stand up for myself when I’m having trouble with my co-workers at work, and what does TAH do? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 1, 2009, 1:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-and-need-a-little-advice/27465/14 "2009-04-01T01:26:39Z")
Tah is attractive but more soft and feminine then TAL Compare them this way TAH or IS/B is more a Marilyn Monroe persona TAL or IS/A is more a Angelina Jolie persona Both sexy just in different ways Tisha