Hi Granite and welcome.
Turn up the heat is a very popular product here, especially for attraction. Be sure to read past threads and learn not to overdose 
I suggest you have a good read of The Mens Guideand let us know if you have any additional questions.
Eventually you might want some ‘softer’ products like from the instant range to help with communication.
In order for you to qualify for the gift certificate that Tisha provides, can you tell us more about you and what you want from pheromone use?
Once you start using, be sure to return and let us know about your results