# New at this... **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [October 5, 2009, 10:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-at-this/33026 "2009-10-05T22:56:34Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![WillowtheWhisp18](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/aeb1de/32.png) [@WillowtheWhisp18](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/WillowtheWhisp18)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2009, 10:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-at-this/33026/1 "2009-10-05T22:56:34Z")
But I’m eager to learn and very interested in the whole concept of pheromone use. I just ordered the to-go bottles of [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and Instant Sexiness (B). I started into this because A.) I could definitly use something to boost my confidence and help me be a bit more outgoing. and B.) I recently went through a really tough breakup with someone I had been with on and off for 3 years. I feel a little lost now in terms of ‘picking up’ guys and all of that. There’s a particular guy I’m attracted to…we’ve talked some…hung out a little bit with a friend of mine…flirted a little bit. But situation wise, we don’t get much time together, so I wanted something that would give me a little bit of an upper hand on advancing things a little faster, since the time we see eachother is few and kind of far between at the moment. A friend jokingly suggested something about overloading him with aphrodisiacs…and it got me thinking if maybe there was something I could do to entice him a bit more. So if anyone has some insight as to how well either works (especially instant sexiness b), I’d LOVE to know more. And if anyone has advice for how much to use and where to spray and how long before …that’d be a really great help. Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2009, 11:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-at-this/33026/2 "2009-10-05T23:40:18Z")
Hi, welcome. Start with the “stickies” in the Women’s Forum, lots of good information there. Then there are thousands of posts, I’m sure your answer is there. Then, if you have a specific question that hasn’t been answered, ask. There are lots of helpful people here.😃 ---
**Author:** ![WillowtheWhisp18](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/aeb1de/32.png) [@WillowtheWhisp18](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/WillowtheWhisp18)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2009, 12:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-at-this/33026/3 "2009-10-06T00:36:10Z")
Okay…well as a more specific question…I have Instant Sexiness B and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) in the mail. And just ordered Instant sexiness A because I’ve read up on the differences and feel like I fall right in the middle. So…based on everyone elses experiences…what’s the best amount/combination to use and in what spots on the body to get the most intense reaction for the given ‘target’? What should I put on, and where? ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2009, 12:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-at-this/33026/4 "2009-10-06T00:45:03Z")
I Sexiness and Shine would be a good combo. Apply to pulse points. Neck, wrists etc., you might want to keep the sexiness “low” on your body. Now as to amounts, we don’t know. I hate to appear evasive, but everything depends on your age, race, BC pills or not and your personal body chemistry, what works for one 20 year old might not work for you, but will come closer than what works for a 40 year old. That’s the “fun” part of this hobby, experimenting and finding your “sweet spot” for each of these wondrous chemicals. ---
**Author:** ![moonwhisper](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonwhisper/32/1735_2.png) [@moonwhisper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/moonwhisper)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2009, 7:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-at-this/33026/5 "2009-10-06T19:53:36Z")
Agreed. Start with one spray and see what happens. Then try two sprays. You’ll know you’ve hit the right spot when you start getting ‘hits’ or reactions from others. If you wear too much you can OD, and cause ‘ghosting’ or being ignored by others. There is no substitute for your own experimentation. No one else’s formulas and dosages will work for you the same as they work for others. If you’re concerned about how this guy is going to react, try your pheros out somewhre else first, just to give you the feel of how it works. And remember, this is about enhancing the whole package, making you a sexier, better you. THis is not about changing you so that you fit his pre-conceived idea of what sexy is. It is about making you the best you can be. ---
**Author:** ![WillowtheWhisp18](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/aeb1de/32.png) [@WillowtheWhisp18](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/WillowtheWhisp18)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2009, 8:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-at-this/33026/6 "2009-10-06T20:09:38Z")
That’s what I was planning to do. Go to school the day before with one spray on…see what happens. Than bring it in my purse and add a second spray before my next class. And I’m by no means trying to change who I am in the eyes of this guy. I just want to give myself that extra confidence boost…and make him more receptive. ---
**Author:** ![WillowtheWhisp18](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/aeb1de/32.png) [@WillowtheWhisp18](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/WillowtheWhisp18)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2009, 8:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-at-this/33026/7 "2009-10-06T20:13:00Z")
Oh. And can someone explain ODing a little bit more? The link that leads to wikipedia makes very little sense to me. And I haven’t been able to find much in the other threads about it yet. I get the basic concept…just like overdosing on medication, it can cause a backfire effect…but because we’re speaking in terms of [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/)…what exactly is ODing all about (How do you do it, what happens, how to reverse it, etc.) ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2009, 8:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-at-this/33026/8 "2009-10-06T20:38:04Z")
> [@WillowtheWhisp18](#): > > Oh. And can someone explain ODing a little bit more? … Pheromones cause neurotransmitters to fire. Think of it like music. You start at a low level of music, you can barely hear it. Then you start turning up the volume until it becomes a pleasant toe tapping tune (your “sweet spot”). Then you continue turning up the volume until it becomes a painful noise, that’s OD. At this point, your neurotransmitters become so over saturated that they just start ignoring the signals and you “ghost”. ---
**Author:** ![WillowtheWhisp18](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/aeb1de/32.png) [@WillowtheWhisp18](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/WillowtheWhisp18)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2009, 10:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-at-this/33026/9 "2009-10-06T22:31:28Z")
Thank you so much! Perfect answer for me considering I’m a music fanatic. 😛 Thanks for answering my question. Hopefully between tomorrow(when I’m supposed to get the [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) and Shine…then instant sexiness a on thursday) I find something closer to my ‘sweet spot’ and avoid OD. I’m excited to start experimenting. ---
**Author:** ![moonwhisper](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonwhisper/32/1735_2.png) [@moonwhisper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/moonwhisper)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2009, 2:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-at-this/33026/10 "2009-10-07T02:55:12Z")
The music analogy was a good one. OD’ing on pheros will not cause any physical or mental damage to you. Instead it will adversely interfere with how you interact with others. It can cause irritation, grouchiness and being ignored if your phero signature becomes too obnoxious.