# new, curious, and confidentless **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 29, 2010, 3:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-curious-and-confidentless/35799 "2010-01-29T03:25:59Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![rizzfizz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/cab0a1/32.png) [@rizzfizz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rizzfizz)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2010, 3:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-curious-and-confidentless/35799/1 "2010-01-29T03:25:59Z")
my name is riley and i’m eighteen. i come from tn. i’m a female. i’ve never really just taken the time to sit and google [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) before, but i’ve heard about them more and more. especially from friends. my friend actually told me about this place and i saw positive effects from the ones she sampled, so i thought i might check it out. i’m fairly shy, especially around new people. and i guess you could say i lack a little in the relationship department. i guess you could say i might need some confidence when it comes to that. i’m just not as open as i want to be really and truly. this really becomes a problem when i’m out looking for jobs. i go into a building and i get scared just to ask them for an application. i feel like i should be a bit more confident when it comes to the things i do. i’m just tired of being intimidated by people. i want to be the one who is demanding respect from others. not like a dominate presence, but like an equal, if that makes sense. i was looking at the products before i signed up and i really think they could help me be the person who i want to be in life. it’s like i’ll be sitting in class or talking to friends and i’ll see in my head how i want to be, but i just lack that extra little boost to get me there. and i guess the added bonus of feeling great about myself helps too lol. i really hope this doesn’t sound too… cheesy or whiny. my friend just told me to be myself when i wrote this so i’m just trying to give it my all. normally i don’t do these things on the internet, but the way my friend was today was just too tempting that i had to give this a shot. ok, you probably have tons of these things to read, so i’ll stop poring my heart out and let you get to work. ---
**Author:** ![conundrum12](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/46a35a/32.png) [@conundrum12](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/conundrum12)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2010, 3:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-curious-and-confidentless/35799/2 "2010-01-29T03:37:00Z")
That post sounds anything but cheesy, it sounds really genuine and like you have a great head on your shoulders. I don’t know much about female products so will save in depth answers for other users who know more than I do. I will say IO and IH for women should really help you get out of your shell. They will make people around you more chatty and more interested in deep conversations. It will also make you more interested in getting to know people. I’d get two to gos, one of IO and one of IH. I’d also get another to go, and that’s of [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). This should help you feel physically better, hold your head up higher, and make you smile more. Other people around you will smile more and be more approachable! It’s great that you are so aware of your challenges and so determined to get to where you want to be. Your intimidation sounds like it’s borderline anxiety but I’m no doctor. To help with my anxiety I wear some -none (ammo), but don’t think that’s necessarily effective for female use. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2010, 3:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-curious-and-confidentless/35799/3 "2010-01-29T03:40:46Z")
Hi Riley, welcome to the forum! I totally understand your dilemma, social anxiety and shyness is much more common than you might think. Many people here in this forum started using pheromones for exactly the same reason. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) is a great product to help you feel more approachable, and to help you seem more approachable to others. It facilitates conversation and makes people chattier. To add depth and intimacy to a conversation, and help others feel more comfortable opening up and talking about more personal things, Instant Honesty is great. Watch out though, you’ll find yourself opening up more too! Instant Sexiness/A will give you a sexy, strong yet feminine vibe, and will also give your confidence a boost. I don’t know if they have it in stock, though. MX300 is a “confidence and respect” work mix for women, and also works quite well. This one is a little advanced, but might be just what you need. I hope this helps, and let me know if you have any questions. ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2010, 4:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-curious-and-confidentless/35799/4 "2010-01-29T04:56:36Z")
Hi Rizzfizz, For starters I think Instant Shine and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) are wonderful products. For many Instant Shine provides an immediate happy feeling. I guess I would describe it as being in “ **the zone**.” It make me feel great; like scoring with one second on the clock to win STATE. I’m made some great first impressions using it; where as people react to me like I was a “movie star”…serious!!! I’m surprise myself sometimes, this stuff somehow enhances my total package. One occassion this young lady waves me like down like I’am a “star” and another occassion this fine lady starts talking and behaving as though she had to take the opportunity to pull-me… serious!!! I had meet her before, she was reserve at that time, but you should had seen the way she came out the second time I saw her. Instant Openness, I went to the Mall the last time I used it, I talked to not less than 14 ladies. I enjoyed it and had lots of fun. Rizzfizz, get this…I was relax and had conservation just for the sake of conservation. One of the ladies, she double back to where I was and just looked at me. When I get on a roll with it, I find all I have to do is step-out …and just do it! MVKBugatti ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2010, 6:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-curious-and-confidentless/35799/5 "2010-01-29T18:29:49Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any questions you might have regarding moons. Please call Steve personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![shyconspiracy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/shyconspiracy/32/250_2.png) [@shyconspiracy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/shyconspiracy)\ **Post date:** [January 30, 2010, 3:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-curious-and-confidentless/35799/6 "2010-01-30T03:21:32Z")
i would love to be able to write that i “used” to be the same way. but i can say that i ~am~ the same way. ima very shy person and have little to no confidence. but i can say that pheremones helped me along wit a few other tricks i learned. what works best for me is nlp. i dont wanna get all deep on u but it helped me and it helped me instantly. other than that i wanna say welcom to the forum. i would say try that io and ih. ishine is great but u gonna wanna get a full bottle of that. that stuff put me in a great mood and i used the whole togo bottle before i knew it. and if u ever get a chace to mix ishine with io your golden. with a little conscious effort and a few sprays you will see progress pretty quick. i went from zero confidence to meeting new people in less than a month. this is a great place for u to be. the people here are great and the products r the best. welcome and have fun