# New Flamebait **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 9, 2007, 4:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-flamebait/1954 "2007-02-09T04:37:43Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![MadStop](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a87d85/32.png) [@MadStop](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MadStop)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2007, 4:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-flamebait/1954/1 "2007-02-09T04:37:43Z")
Hey everyone, I’ve been lurking around here for a little while and I’m excited about what I hear, though still nervous. I’m 18, and in my last semester of high school in Massachusetts. I ordered an [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) To Go (double strength) last month and it arrived earlier this week; my plan was to use it just to see if it had any effect before I continued. So far, there haven’t been any obvious results. I think I’m noticing some subtle changes, but I’m not entirely sure. I’ve been using 1-3 sprays on my wrists and neck. Sometimes I’ll catch a whiff of it and feel like all my problems don’t matter quite as much as they seemed, but that could be my conscious self allying with the power of suggestion. Other times I’ll look back on an extended period of time and realize that I hadn’t felt bored or annoyed at anything; that’s what’s keeping me believing. So here’s what I’m wondering: are a few sprays of IS enough to produce a noticeable difference? Would a higher dosage increase the effect (doesn’t matter what kind of effect)? Also, is there anything wrong with intentionally inhaling some of it if you need a little pickup? Thanks in advance! ---
**Author:** ![MarkL](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/markl/32/825_2.png) [@MarkL](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MarkL)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2007, 5:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-flamebait/1954/2 "2007-02-09T05:18:34Z")
Heya MadStop, glad to see an end to your lurking days. Welcome. I’d be glad to outline a specific program for investigating [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), but first let’s get you comfortable here. (And no, there’s nothing wrong with inhaling some to get a pickup. A dab under your nose might be easier.) In any case, glad to have you here, glad you found us. Can you tell us some more about yourself and how you’d like to use pheros? Welcome again, and Cheers ---
**Author:** ![MadStop](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a87d85/32.png) [@MadStop](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MadStop)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2007, 12:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-flamebait/1954/3 "2007-02-09T12:23:13Z")
From what others have told me, I’m not physically attractive or unattractive. I can engage women with a degree of success, but I’ve never been able to get past flirting. My hope for [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) is to get more comfortable around women and have them get more comfortable around me. I don’t necessarily want to start a relationship or anything (though it’s not out of the question); the effects of Alpha A314 seem to be what I’m looking for: trust, respect, desirability, along with something else to make it less intimidating. I’ve got to get to class soon. I’m not sure if I’ve supplied the kind of information you want, but I’ll be happy to do so if I haven’t. ---
**Author:** ![MarkL](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/markl/32/825_2.png) [@MarkL](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MarkL)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2007, 1:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-flamebait/1954/4 "2007-02-09T13:16:59Z")
Senior year of high school: _shakes head slowly_ _“If only I’d known then what I know now!”_ Well, you can definitely make some use of A314 and Instant Shine; as a combination I find them excellent complements. You’ll have to experiment a little to find the right doses for you, however. Sigma has written a lot about using A314 in both work and social settings around younger women. Check his posts out. You might also want to try [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) or Come Talk To Me Mix 2 to create “comfort”. ---
**Author:** ![HeinzHummer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/heinzhummer/32/941_2.png) [@HeinzHummer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HeinzHummer)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2007, 1:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-flamebait/1954/5 "2007-02-10T01:02:15Z")
> [@MarkL](#): > > Senior year of high school: _shakes head slowly_ _“If only I’d known then what I know now!”_ > > Well, you can definitely make some use of A314 and Instant Shine; as a combination I find them excellent complements. You’ll have to experiment a little to find the right doses for you, however. Sigma has written a lot about using A314 in both work and social settings around younger women. Check his posts out. > > You might also want to try Instant Honesty or Come Talk To Me Mix 2 to create “comfort”. I totally agree with you MarkL when you say “if only I’d known then what I know now!” I don’t know about A314 around younger women. Some of the more experienced posters say to stay away from the A314 around younger women…It may give off too serious of a vibe for them to react positively to, however, i have not received my mutant A314 yet, so this is only speculation. Instant Shine and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) are a great starter combo. You really can’t go wrong with any of the Instant Series of Products. I hope this was helpful. HH 😃 ---
**Author:** ![MarkL](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/markl/32/825_2.png) [@MarkL](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MarkL)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2007, 4:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-flamebait/1954/6 "2007-02-10T04:30:50Z")
Yep, the A314 seems to be trickier to use effectively [a] the younger the guy wearing and \*\* the younger the target women. But Sigma uses A314 at work to good effect. I got the impression that he tempers the A314 with other pheros for social. I would think that a very, very light application (0.5 drop) of A314 and some alphanol and shine (a couple of sprays each) would be a very solid combination, even with late teens girls. The A314 is “class”, the shine is “fun” and the alphanol is “comfortable communication.” ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2007, 4:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-flamebait/1954/7 "2007-02-18T04:35:30Z")
Hey Madstop! Welcome to the forum! Your gift certificate has been sent. 🙂