# new, friendly & very curious! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 6, 2010, 11:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-friendly-very-curious/37566 "2010-04-06T23:37:46Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Gabbagee](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gabbagee/32/663_2.png) [@Gabbagee](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gabbagee)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2010, 11:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-friendly-very-curious/37566/1 "2010-04-06T23:37:46Z")
I really hope I’m doing this right. . . well here goes! 😛 Hi there. A little about me: I’m from NY. I’m a college student, which is good because there are a lot of opportunities to learn new and interesting things, meet new people and generally have a pleasant time, but it can also be difficult, since I’m perpetually broke, and I constantly have papers to write. I enjoy school, however, for the most part. I’m 22. I have a lot of friends and a bf I really love, and I’m a very outgoing person. I’m very confident- probably because I like myself quite a bit. I’m intelligent, fun, adventurous, friendly, insightful, curious- not to mention beautiful. Not to brag or sound cocky- I just consider myself one of my closest friends, in a self-actualized way, not in a crazy way. 😉 I’m pretty open-minded, and I’m curious as to ways of subtly influencing yourself and the people around you. I’m a huge believer in self-improvement through hypnosis and I’m curious about neuro-linguistic programming (NLP). My research into these avenues are what lead me to first read about phermones and their effects on individuals and social interactions and relationships. I am very excited to begin my own personal research with pheremones, and look forward to sharing experiences with others on this forum! Can’t wait to get started! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![jessejester](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jessejester/32/1683_2.png) [@jessejester](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jessejester)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2010, 11:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-friendly-very-curious/37566/2 "2010-04-06T23:49:51Z")
Hello Gabbagee, Welcome to the forum. Its good to see you have taken anterest in phero’s, and you have come to the riht place to start. There are some threads around the forum refering to NLP and phero use. If you use the search function i am sure you will find them. NLP is talked about frequently. The owner of this company has studied it for years. Her name is Jasmin. So, what are looking for from phero’s? I know you want to study their affects but what aspect of your life would like to improve as you test them? They really can inhance alot of different aspects of your life. I lookforward to hearing back from you, and good luck on your phero testing. ---
**Author:** ![Gabbagee](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gabbagee/32/663_2.png) [@Gabbagee](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gabbagee)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2010, 12:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-friendly-very-curious/37566/3 "2010-04-07T00:27:44Z")
Hey Jessejester- thanks for responding so quickly! I have two different areas of my life that I am looking to improve/influence with the use of [pheromones](https://a314.com/). The first is they way my classmates, coworkers and peers see me. I’m very petite (5’ 1" & 98 lbs) and I look younger than 22- I could easily pass for 18. None of this is bad, however, it can be difficult to be taken seriously in many situations. “How serious/ intelligent/ fierce can this cute little white girl be?” seems to be their attitude. I would very much like to be treated with more respect and to be taken more seriously. (I am very aware of my personal behavior and appearance in these situations. I’m still working on refining these things, and I’m not entirely sure phero’s can totally change my vibe if I don’t “talk the talk and walk the walk” so to speak.) The other aspect I would like to influence is, well. . . my love life. I have a bf that I love a lot and who loves me & treats me like gold. We’ve been together for over a year. The problem is that I just want more. . . ya’know. We have “date nights” and “watch movies” together at least once a week. I’ve talked to him about this, and he seems very satisfied. More than that, I exhaust him. (Also, we usually hangout after he works for ten hours and then goes band practice. He’s an excellent musician. So he’s usually exhausted by the end of the day. . . which probably has a lot to do with it. . .) He’s an excellent lover, so that’s not it at all. I’m very happy with him, and I am sure that he’s not cheating, there’s nothing fishy going on. I would just really love to be able to totally get him going without touching him, you know? I’m usually the once doing the pouncing, and I initiate it 3 out of 5 times. I know it sounds selfish, and immature, and weird. I know it’s usually guys that have this problem. I really do have quite a bit of compassion for 17 year old guys now. I would just like him to be as fired up as I am every time we’re alone together. And it’s not like I’m being totally selfish- he benefits too. :-p And please don’t think I’m some deformed, frumpy, weird-looking chick- I’m hot. I’m totally confident saying that. I guess I’m hoping that phero’s could help me “turn up the heat” in my own love life. ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2010, 12:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-friendly-very-curious/37566/4 "2010-04-07T00:52:59Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum, Gabbagee, As I suggested MX300 this product is the female version of A314. MX300 is your trust respect mix, and adds a feeling of confidence. Also this one is for the both of you, it called [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). IS creates a “appealing glow” for yourself, as you’ll feel more upbeat and energetic, as well as it influences those '_same good feeling’_ effects to others. To cover ‘love life’ I suggest your either purchased one of the Instant Sexiness. There’s two versions; **Instant Sexiness** A and B.🙂 regards, MVKBugatti ---
**Author:** ![Gabbagee](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gabbagee/32/663_2.png) [@Gabbagee](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gabbagee)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2010, 2:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-friendly-very-curious/37566/5 "2010-04-07T02:47:03Z")
Hi, Mvkbugatti, I actually got my To Go [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) in the mail this a.m. and tried it out. You described it perfectly! I was going to follow the suggested protocol to find my “sweet spot” but it smelled so good that I used two sprays- one on my neck (I dabbed my wrists there to spread it around, I talk with my hands a lot,) and one in my hair. I did end up seeing my sweetie, who was in a HORRID mood when I got to his house, but after just a few minutes of hanging out he seemed to relax and was smiling more than he usually does. And the effect it had on myself was very impressive, I felt (still do since I’m still wearing it! :-D) very relaxed, confident, almost playful. . . it’s a very friendly “Hell yes, I am AWESOME” kind of feeling. As for the Instant Sexiness- I have my eye on the To Go version (since I can’t really afford the full size:-( ) and I am deff making that purchase as soon as it becomes available! Imma be allll over that! 😉 And thank you so much for the suggestion of MX300. I am certainly looking into that- very possibly part of my next purchase. Thanks again for the guidance! 🙂 I really appriciate it. ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2010, 3:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-friendly-very-curious/37566/6 "2010-04-07T03:29:06Z")
> [@Gabbagee](#): > > Hi, Mvkbugatti, > > I actually got my To Go Instant Shine in the mail this a.m. and tried it out. You described it perfectly! I was going to follow the suggested protocol to find my “sweet spot” but it smelled so good that I used two sprays- one on my neck (I dabbed my wrists there to spread it around, I talk with my hands a lot,) and one in my hair. I did end up seeing my sweetie, who was in a HORRID mood when I got to his house, but after just a few minutes of hanging out he seemed to relax and was smiling more than he usually does. And the effect it had on myself was very impressive, I felt (still do since I’m still wearing it! :-D) very relaxed, confident, almost playful. . . it’s a very friendly “Hell yes, I am AWESOME” kind of feeling. > > As for the Instant Sexiness- I have my eye on the To Go version (since I can’t really afford the full size:-( ) and I am deff making that purchase as soon as it becomes available! Imma be allll over that! 😉 > > And thank you so much for the suggestion of MX300. I am certainly looking into that- very possibly part of my next purchase. > > Thanks again for the guidance! 🙂 I really appriciate it. Anytime 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2010, 7:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-friendly-very-curious/37566/7 "2010-04-07T19:16:22Z")
Hi Gabbagee. welcome! Mvkbugatti has given you some great suggestions. Definitely consider some MX300 to get more respect and be taken more seriously. There are two [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/)’s, A and B. The right one for you really depends on whether your persona is soft and feminine, or whether its more dominant. Use IS/b if you’re more feminine, and IS/a if you’re more of a dominant alpha girl. They will totally enhance and “sexify” your aura, whichever one you use. I do hope they get back in stock soon! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [April 8, 2010, 5:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-friendly-very-curious/37566/8 "2010-04-08T17:37:27Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.