# New From the Midwest

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-from-the-midwest/28927>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [May 13, 2009, 4:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-from-the-midwest/28927 "2009-05-13T16:03:13Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 19\
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**Author:** ![pyrostatic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e9a140/32.png) [@pyrostatic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pyrostatic)\
**Post date:** [May 13, 2009, 4:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-from-the-midwest/28927/1 "2009-05-13T16:03:13Z")

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**About Me:**  
I’m a recently graduated college student. I am in a LTR with my girlfriend of 2 years (that’s the reason I’m here and will explain more soon). I will be starting a new job the 29th of June. I am 21 years old and I have to let you know that I am willing to be strapped in a relationship this young.

**How Did I Get Here: \*\*  
I saw an Article on CNN for Pheramone Advantage by Dr. Almed. With skepticism I googled un-biased reviews of the stuff and most people show that they weren’t helped by it. My next search was for a Pheramone enthusiast club and low and behold PheroTalk was on the list.  
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What do I hope to get out of Pheramones, what do I know so far and a couple of questions:**  
I hope to enhance the relationship I currently have with my girlfriend/fiance’ to be. I hope to use Pheramones to help me progress up the corporate ladder (in a production setting). I know that Pheramones aren’t a cure all! I also know that you can’t be a stale person using pheramones and expect results. I know that you need to lend a helping hand to Pheramones. I do have a couple of questions and an explanation of an underlying reason I am here. My girlfriend and I have quit having sex all together… I’m not happy about it and niether is she. We don’t know why but she doesn’t have any ambition to engadge me. About her, She is a sales associate at a local electronics store, she is 20 years old, she is the love of my life. I think she may be insecure about herself (she shouldn’t be I love her no matter what). She is on birth control (the pill) and I think that this could be one reason about the no-sex problem. It’s really caused our relationship to be more of a “roomate” situation rather than a “relationship”.

**Questions** (in order of importance):  
\*\*1.\*(EMERGENCY!!)\*\*\*How can I re-instate sex into my relationship using pheramones and my ambition to restore a relationship?

**2.** (only after the first question is answered.) What pheramones being new to the workplace would enhance my attitude, and dominance in the workplace. _ **I want them to know that I am there for the company!** _

p.s. I am in dire need of help… I will put this gift certificate to great use and record and report my findings.

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**Author:** ![magnum](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magnum/32/1423_2.png) [@magnum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magnum)\
**Post date:** [May 13, 2009, 4:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-from-the-midwest/28927/2 "2009-05-13T16:08:36Z")

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Hi pyrostatic,

welcome to the forum!

1.) for your relationship you should try TUTH, which will arouse your girlfriend…arousal alone won’t do the job alone in your situation so i recommend you combine it with [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) which will increase the connection and feeling of closeness and Instant Shine which will make your girlfriend feel good…

2.) If you tell us a bit more about your workplace / your status there and what your goals are with pheromones we can recommend the right products for you… in general A314 is the most used product for work situations…

have fun here  
magnum

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**Author:** ![pyrostatic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e9a140/32.png) [@pyrostatic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pyrostatic)\
**Post date:** [May 13, 2009, 4:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-from-the-midwest/28927/3 "2009-05-13T16:13:48Z")

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I can’t tell you much about my workplace as it’s a government job. What I can tell you is that I will be working in a clean room environment at laboratory tables around other people. My status will be a technician (entry level position for my field.)

> [@magnum](#):
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> Hi pyrostatic,
> 
> welcome to the forum!
> 
> 1.) for your relationship you should try TUTH, which will arouse your girlfriend…arousal alone won’t do the job alone in your situation so i recommend you combine it with Instant Honesty which will increase the connection and feeling of closeness and Instant Shine which will make your girlfriend feel good…
> 
> 2.) If you tell us a bit more about your workplace / your status there and what your goals are with pheromones we can recommend the right products for you… in general A314 is the most used product for work situations…
> 
> have fun here  
> magnum

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**Author:** ![pyrostatic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e9a140/32.png) [@pyrostatic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pyrostatic)\
**Post date:** [May 13, 2009, 4:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-from-the-midwest/28927/4 "2009-05-13T16:19:38Z")

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I think overall I would like to work with a single [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/), call me skeptical, or call me a broke college student 🙂. Also how do you know how much to use?

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**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\
**Post date:** [May 13, 2009, 4:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-from-the-midwest/28927/5 "2009-05-13T16:24:43Z")

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Hi there,

Welcome to the forum.

For your case, I think you need 2 [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/).

TUTH is to sexually arouse her. This will spice up your sex life with your gf.

A314 is for you to climb the ladder of career. It can make people think you are capable, trusted and mature person.

Good luck

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**Author:** ![djandarial](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djandarial/32/1667_2.png) [@djandarial](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djandarial)\
**Post date:** [May 13, 2009, 4:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-from-the-midwest/28927/6 "2009-05-13T16:25:10Z")

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A314 would work well if you are allowed to wear cologne in a clean room.

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**Author:** ![magnum](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magnum/32/1423_2.png) [@magnum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magnum)\
**Post date:** [May 13, 2009, 4:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-from-the-midwest/28927/7 "2009-05-13T16:26:04Z")

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you can get all products (except A314) as a to-go bottle to try them before you decide to get a full sized bottle… you can pay 2-3 to-gos with your $25 gift certificate so you basically can try TUTH, Honesty and Shine nearly for free…

if you want to see if the pheros work first, then skip A314 until you are convinced or you could invest the money for a full sized A314 bottle because there is a money back guarantee if you decide its not for you…

so there is no risk financially no matter how you decide…

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**Author:** ![pyrostatic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e9a140/32.png) [@pyrostatic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pyrostatic)\
**Post date:** [May 13, 2009, 4:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-from-the-midwest/28927/8 "2009-05-13T16:27:09Z")

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It’s only a class 10,000 clean room, so we are aloud to wear deodorant and cologne.

> [@djandarial](#):
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> A314 would work well if you are allowed to wear cologne in a clean room.

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**Author:** ![pyrostatic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e9a140/32.png) [@pyrostatic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pyrostatic)\
**Post date:** [May 13, 2009, 4:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-from-the-midwest/28927/9 "2009-05-13T16:29:13Z")

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Will I be able to tell if pheromones are working for me by using those to-go bottles, also how much do you get out of them?

> [@magnum](#):
>
> you can get all products (except A314) as a to-go bottle to try them before you decide to get a full sized bottle… you can pay 2-3 to-gos with your $25 gift certificate so you basically can try TUTH, Honesty and Shine nearly for free…
> 
> if you want to see if the pheros work first, then skip A314 until you are convinced or you could invest the money for a full sized A314 bottle because there is a money back guarantee if you decide its not for you…
> 
> so there is no risk financially no matter how you decide…

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**Author:** ![magnum](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magnum/32/1423_2.png) [@magnum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magnum)\
**Post date:** [May 13, 2009, 4:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-from-the-midwest/28927/10 "2009-05-13T16:32:45Z")

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> [@pyrostatic](#):
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> Will I be able to tell if pheromones are working for me by using those to-go bottles, also how much do you get out of them?

you have to find out how many sprays you need for best effects, most people need between 1 and 3 sprays per product…

a to-go is good for about 40 sprays, a full size bottle for about 200 sprays…

so the to-gos will last for around 13-40 applications…

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**Author:** ![pyrostatic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e9a140/32.png) [@pyrostatic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pyrostatic)\
**Post date:** [May 13, 2009, 5:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-from-the-midwest/28927/11 "2009-05-13T17:18:53Z")

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I guess I should have mentioned our communication problem. When we are both home, she is usually watching TV and I’m usually working on something on the computer. I try and spend as much time with her as I can, but I’m usually at a loss of words… I am horrible at initiating conversation.

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [May 13, 2009, 6:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-from-the-midwest/28927/12 "2009-05-13T18:18:21Z")

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Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂

> [@](#):
>
> I think overall I would like to work with a single pheromone, call me skeptical, or call me a broke college student 🙂. Also how do you know how much to use?

First let me say that there is no **one** mone product that can achieve all your different objectives. I am not trying to get you to spend more and I will go over some ideals for a broke collage student to fund your mone habit later in my post.

Lets cover work first. I suggest IG for you. You have trouble initiating conversation so this would be better over A314. Its a mature respected masculine dependable alpha male aura. You need to be able to lead with A314 so its not ideal for you to start with.

Next for your situation with your GF. The pill is notorious for squashing a women’s libido. It puts you in a state of pregnancy. So basically you dont ovulate because the body thinks its already pregnant. Therefore no copulins are being produced. Copulins are the vaginal secretions of young fertile females. If your GF is concerned about this as well as you tell her to call her gyno. Some pills are less harsh then others in this area. Yasmin is said to be very good. I suggest you look into getting her something to use as well if she is aware of your mone use to replace the copulins. They arouse a male but they also make us feel sexy when we wear them. Currently they are formulating a new copulins formula here so I suggest you pop on over to Love [scent.com](http://scent.com) and get some PCC, Passion copulin concentrate or Scent of eros for women.

Now to help arouse I suggest TUTH used only around her because its inappropriate for use at work or school. It signals a desire to mate. You could also consider AMMO for daily use to sort of prime the fire for later. It may pull her away from the TV more.

> [@](#):
>
> Will I be able to tell if pheromones are working for me by using those to-go bottles, also how much do you get out of them?

Yes although you need to play with your dosage some. Don’t over do TUTH to much can make her cranky but you will know its working if that occurs LOL There are 40 sprays per to-go bottle.

> [@](#):
>
> I guess I should have mentioned our communication problem. When we are both home, she is usually watching TV and I’m usually working on something on the computer. I try and spend as much time with her as I can, but I’m usually at a loss of words… I am horrible at initiating conversation.

Two years and your at a loss for words. This is more serious then the lack of sex in a relationship. Get away from the computer and the TV and take her out. I know money is tight but there are things you can do that don’t cost anything. Go for walks, take up a hobby, visit friends, spend more time. Join netflix and watch a movie a week together. Get some romantic ones to get you in the mood. Get IH for deeper more meaningful conversation and a feeling of connection. This is good with the TUTH to.

Now onto the part about you being broke. I assume after June 29th that situation will improve. Congrats on your new job by the way,

Your about to get a $25 GC to get you started, Plus when you sign up for a account in the smartmones store you get 500 points which equals $5

This will get you two bottles free. Look at the "earn points link " in the store and it will show you some other ways to earn points. You get points for every dollar spent and referring friends by the email system in that section.

Next read this \>\>\>\>\>\> [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greeting-new-members-first-responder-bonus/913](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greeting-new-members-first-responder-bonus/913) Post 34 on page 4 of the thread because the offers has changed a bit from when Jassy first posted it. It can be competitive but you can earn some good points once your used to it. learn some about the products first because while this is a incentive we really do want all members to feel welcome and get the best advice when starting.

You also will in all likelihood get a free sample with your order. Most members do especially the new ones.

OK so I think I covered everything. If you need anything let me know and I hope to see you on the forum only after you have spent some time talking with your GF 😉

**Your GC is on its way**

Tisha  
Hostess/Guide

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**Author:** ![pyrostatic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e9a140/32.png) [@pyrostatic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pyrostatic)\
**Post date:** [May 13, 2009, 6:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-from-the-midwest/28927/13 "2009-05-13T18:25:52Z")

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In a work setting I don’t have problems starting a conversation in fact, I’m usually the leader of the groups. But with my girlfriend due to the loss of words/conversation I have trouble finding stuff to talk about…

> [@tisha23](#):
>
> Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂
> 
> First let me say that there is no **one** mone product that can achieve all your different objectives. I am not trying to get you to spend more and I will go over some ideals for a broke collage student to fund your mone habit later in my post.
> 
> Lets cover work first. I suggest IG for you. You have trouble initiating conversation so this would be better over A314. Its a mature respected masculine dependable alpha male aura. You need to be able to lead with A314 so its not ideal for you to start with.
> 
> Next for your situation with your GF. The pill is notorious for squashing a women’s libido. It puts you in a state of pregnancy. So basically you dont ovulate because the body thinks its already pregnant. Therefore no copulins are being produced. Copulins are the vaginal secretions of young fertile females. If your GF is concerned about this as well as you tell her to call her gyno. Some pills are less harsh then others in this area. Yasmin is said to be very good. I suggest you look into getting her something to use as well if she is aware of your mone use to replace the copulins. They arouse a male but they also make us feel sexy when we wear them. Currently they are formulating a new copulins formula here so I suggest you pop on over to Love [scent.com](http://scent.com) and get some PCC, Passion copulin concentrate or SOE Scent of eros for women.
> 
> Now to help arouse I suggest TUTH used only around her because its inappropriate for use at work or school. It signals a desire to mate. You could also consider AMMO for daily use to sort of prime the fire for later. It may pull her away from the TV more.
> 
> Yes although you need to play with your dosage some. Don’t over do TUTH to much can make her cranky but you will know its working if that occurs LOL There are 40 sprays per to-go bottle.
> 
> Two years and your at a loss for words. This is more serious then the lack of sex in a relationship. Get away from the computer and the TV and take her out. I know money is tight but there are things you can do that don’t cost anything. Go for walks, take up a hobby, visit friends, spend more time. Join netflix and watch a movie a week together. Get some romantic ones to get you in the mood. Get IH for deeper more meaningful conversation and a feeling of connection. This is good with the TUTH to.
> 
> Now onto the part about you being broke. I assume after June 29th that situation will improve. Congrats on your new job by the way,
> 
> Your about to get a $25 GC to get you started, Plus when you sign up for a account in the smartmones store you get 500 points which equals $5
> 
> This will get you two bottles free. Look at the "earn points link " in the store and it will show you some other ways to earn points. You get points for every dollar spent and referring friends by the email system in that section.
> 
> Next read this \>\>\>\>\>\> [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greeting-new-members-first-responder-bonus/913](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greeting-new-members-first-responder-bonus/913) Post 34 on page 4 of the thread because the offers has changed a bit from when Jassy first posted it. It can be competitive but you can earn some good points once your used to it. learn some about the products first because while this is a incentive we really do want all members to feel welcome and get the best advice when starting.
> 
> You also will in all likelihood get a free sample with your order. Most members do especially the new ones.
> 
> OK so I think I covered everything. If you need anything let me know and I hope to see you on the forum only after you have spent some time talking with your GF 😉
> 
> **Your GC is on its way**
> 
> Tisha  
> Hostess/Guide

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**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\
**Post date:** [May 13, 2009, 6:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-from-the-midwest/28927/14 "2009-05-13T18:33:40Z")

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> [@pyrostatic](#):
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> In a work setting I don’t have problems starting a conversation in fact, I’m usually the leader of the groups. But with my girlfriend due to the loss of words/conversation I have trouble finding stuff to talk about…

[Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) works really really well to get conversation going (sometimes too well). and Instant Honesty will steer your conversations into deeper water, and you and/or your target may find yourselves spilling your guts 😛

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [May 13, 2009, 6:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-from-the-midwest/28927/15 "2009-05-13T18:35:29Z")

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IG is a good alternative as its not aggressive or intimidating as A314. Plus you are short cash and A314 only comes in full size. If your more outgoing in a work situation then you should have no trouble with it.

Now you have till June 29th to work on those ideals I suggested so if your heart is set on A314 it is a good strong product,

Tisha

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**Author:** ![pyrostatic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e9a140/32.png) [@pyrostatic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pyrostatic)\
**Post date:** [May 13, 2009, 6:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-from-the-midwest/28927/16 "2009-05-13T18:35:43Z")

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Also you mentioned that PCC stuff, at [love-scent.com](http://love-scent.com), do they make an unscented version that I can wear to help her? (I guess I don’t understand) She would think I was weird for trying Pheramones so I’m going to keep it from her a little (or until she finds the bottles). I’m definentally going to try AMMO and Turn up the Heat. But over all I want to be able to talk with her and then fix the sex problem.

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [May 13, 2009, 6:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-from-the-midwest/28927/17 "2009-05-13T18:44:28Z")

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😮 NO you dont want to wear copulins. She will suspect your cheating. Remember they are vaginal secretions ( Synthetic of course) and she will know they are not hers. PCC has a soft melon scent and dosnt smell nasty at all like some of the other copulin products. SOW comes in gel pack for women to at a low cost. Its smells fresh.

Try the mens products I suggest here and save the other info for later in case you she finds out and wants to give it a try. You did mention she was not happy about the sex situation either so she may be open minded to it. Its not weird that you want to make your relationship great its actually very sweet. The IH will make it easier to talk about to

Tisha

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**Author:** ![pyrostatic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e9a140/32.png) [@pyrostatic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pyrostatic)\
**Post date:** [May 13, 2009, 7:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-from-the-midwest/28927/18 "2009-05-13T19:36:40Z")

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[Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), AMMO, and TUTH. Are now ordered. I can’t wait to try them out. Thank you for your help tish!

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [May 13, 2009, 8:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-from-the-midwest/28927/19 "2009-05-13T20:25:50Z")

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Your Quite Welcome 😉

Tisha
