# new guy from va **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 28, 2009, 8:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy-from-va/35125 "2009-12-28T20:49:39Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![mrguppy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c68b51/32.png) [@mrguppy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mrguppy)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 8:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy-from-va/35125/1 "2009-12-28T20:49:39Z")
hi my name is josh. i am 21 male working two jobs. my day job is in landscaping while my other job is in a bar and tavern. i feel that i am a friendly person that can be shy at times. my friends have discribed me as more mature and wiser then the average 21 year old. when carrying my self i try to stand tall and confident. when at the bar i am very outgoing, confident, open with our regulars. but, with the new comers i can be the same way sometimes. my basic knowledge on [pheromones](https://a314.com/) and usage is limited but i have used a couple of products( lure for him and pure instinct). i have noticed that when wearing the lure for him that there is not a whole lot of difference with people and the way they acted, subtle or not so subtle. when wearing the pure instinct i had a few looks come my way nothing over the top. had a couple of people that i knew get a little more touchy with hugs hand on the lower back for a second or two. i then tried out a combo of the two and noticed that i had side effects along with some hits. i noticed that i had a more up beat attitude and was feeling alot more confident then normal. the people around me seemed more open to me. not a whole lot but enough to notice. when working in the bar and tavern i would like to be seen with respect, open person. i would like to seem more approachable and come off as a great guy. i would like people to be a little more open around me. when off the clock i would like to see the same thing but have it where i can break the ice easier with people i dont know. btw i had a great time talking to steve over the phone and was able to really get a better understanding of what i was looking for. i plan to start with IH, IShine, TUTH, and IG working with each one by itself and then trying different combos out to find out which one best fits me. ---
**Author:** ![Cherub](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/cherub/32/1282_2.png) [@Cherub](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cherub)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 8:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy-from-va/35125/2 "2009-12-28T20:55:00Z")
Aloha mr guppy, and welcome to the boards! Dont forget to get A314 for the respect and GQ/ James Bond effect.It works wonders and I have personally tested it and it works great for that. I also suggest the IO and IShine for approachability and openess,along with the IH too these should all help! and yes try ea one individually and then combo later to see what works! IM glad you found your way here there are alot of amazing products and support! happy testing! and tell us how it goes! ---
**Author:** ![mrguppy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c68b51/32.png) [@mrguppy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mrguppy)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 10:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy-from-va/35125/3 "2009-12-28T22:02:40Z")
> [@Cherub](#): > > Aloha mr guppy, > and welcome to the boards! Dont forget to get A314 for the respect and GQ/ James Bond effect.It works wonders and I have personally tested it and it works great for that. > I also suggest the IO and IShine for approachability and openess,along with the IH too these should all help! and yes try ea one individually and then combo later to see what works! > IM glad you found your way here there are alot of amazing products and support! happy testing! and tell us how it goes! when i first read through the post i found that a lot of people use a314 and the IO, but when talking with steve on the phone about my body type and personality i found out that i already produce a decent bit of the main ingredient found in IO,(please correct me if i m wrong in what i heard steve) and should use IH over the IO. also with the A314, i want to try it out but when i can own the signal that i m sending. ---
**Author:** ![andrew88777](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f14d63/32.png) [@andrew88777](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/andrew88777)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 10:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy-from-va/35125/4 "2009-12-28T22:06:59Z")
Josh– Welcome to the forums! Nice to hear from you! Steve took the info right outta my mouth! I was thinking Instant gentleman and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). Instant Shine is always a good addition 🙂 Steve knows what he is talking about! If you have any other questions please do not hesitate! Andrew > [@mrguppy](#): > > hi my name is josh. i am 21 male working two jobs. my day job is in landscaping while my other job is in a bar and tavern. > > i feel that i am a friendly person that can be shy at times. my friends have discribed me as more mature and wiser then the average 21 year old. when carrying my self i try to stand tall and confident. when at the bar i am very outgoing, confident, open with our regulars. but, with the new comers i can be the same way sometimes. > > my basic knowledge on pheromones and usage is limited but i have used a couple of products( lure for him and pure instinct). i have noticed that when wearing the lure for him that there is not a whole lot of difference with people and the way they acted, subtle or not so subtle. when wearing the pure instinct i had a few looks come my way nothing over the top. had a couple of people that i knew get a little more touchy with hugs hand on the lower back for a second or two. i then tried out a combo of the two and noticed that i had side effects along with some hits. i noticed that i had a more up beat attitude and was feeling alot more confident then normal. the people around me seemed more open to me. not a whole lot but enough to notice. > > when working in the bar and tavern i would like to be seen with respect, open person. i would like to seem more approachable and come off as a great guy. i would like people to be a little more open around me. when off the clock i would like to see the same thing but have it where i can break the ice easier with people i dont know. > > btw i had a great time talking to steve over the phone and was able to really get a better understanding of what i was looking for. i plan to start with IH, IS, TUTH, and IG working with each one by itself and then trying different combos out to find out which one best fits me. ---
**Author:** ![andrew88777](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f14d63/32.png) [@andrew88777](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/andrew88777)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 10:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy-from-va/35125/5 "2009-12-28T22:12:05Z")
Sorry just seen this post after I saved my last one! Again Steve knows what he is talking about. IO can increase the quantity of talk, while IH would increase the quality. A314 is an awesome product. However in your situation and what you described, it could be detremental. It can cause people to stay away and not approach you. Not always a positive when trying to meet people or get tips. > [@mrguppy](#): > > when i first read through the post i found that a lot of people use a314 and the IO, but when talking with steve on the phone about my body type and personality i found out that i already produce a decent bit of the main ingredient found in IO,(please correct me if i m wrong in what i heard steve) and should use IH over the IO. also with the A314, i want to try it out but when i can own the signal that i m sending. ---
**Author:** ![mrguppy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c68b51/32.png) [@mrguppy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mrguppy)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 10:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy-from-va/35125/6 "2009-12-28T22:21:02Z")
first off thank you all for your replies. steve is a well of information that i wish i had more time to tap into. in just the little bit of time that i talked to him i learned a lot. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 11:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy-from-va/35125/7 "2009-12-28T23:17:50Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones. Please call our hot-line and select extension one and Steve will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.