Hello and welcome to the forum.
No the Gilroy is not real. These products are not mind control and do not cause you to do anything. What they do is slightly enhance your presence. Those of us who have been around a while will tell you it is always 90% you and 10% pheromones. They may help you get noticed, but what happens after that is always up to you.
For a good read on what to really expect, go here:
This was written by the moderator who is probably one of the most knowledgeable and experienced users here.