# New guy

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24034>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [December 17, 2008, 6:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24034 "2008-12-17T06:31:56Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 15\
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**Author:** ![isavedlatin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/f05b48/32.png) [@isavedlatin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/isavedlatin)\
**Post date:** [December 17, 2008, 6:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24034/1 "2008-12-17T06:31:56Z")

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hello. my name is christopher i live in las vegas, and i found out about these pharamone things in school, and that animals have them. i didn’t even think about humans being mamals, thus making them animals. then i was just browsing the internet and found something that caught my eye and it took me to a page selling a pharamone spray that would make you more attractive instinctively towards the opposite sex. so i looked other places and found this forum. and i’m not going to lie, the 25$ attracted me to join.  
the reason that i want to try this stuff out is not because i want to get a whole bunch of girls. i just want one.my girlfriend of 3 years just left me for some sancho. but the worst part is, i did some things that made her take that action. i’ve been trying to make it up to her but she won’t even give me the time of day anymore, i know that if she did she’d come back. i just bought her a white and pink gold diamond ring for christmas. she’s coming over on christmas day to bring gifts to my family and that is when i want to give her the ring. i’ve written and rewritten over and over a poem that i am going to read to her as i give her the ring, aswell. and if for some reason the ring, nor the poem achieve their intended goal, i want to be wearing some pheramone product as back up.

that’s pretty much all my interest in it. i don’t really care about the science or how many girls i could get. i just want to be the most attractive person in her eyes.

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**Author:** ![Mr.Feel\_Good](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.feel_good/32/1148_2.png) [@Mr.Feel\_Good](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Feel_Good)\
**Post date:** [December 17, 2008, 6:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24034/2 "2008-12-17T06:41:12Z")

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Hey there Christopher and welcome to the forums! Wow, that’s a pretty fancy christmas gift! I think we can give a bit of help, but you have to understand that [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) dont work miracles. They just send out a subtle vibe, if you will, that you will have to act on. That being said, let’s get a bit more information about you.

First off, how old are you? What kind of personality do you have, shy or outgoing? What kind of personality does your ex-girlfriend have? Did you want a product for pretty much just this occasion, or something you could wear again afterwards? This information will let us give you the best product for your situation, as well as help qualify you for that gift certificate.

Oh, and if you wanted to let us know what caused the break-up in the first place, maybe we could give some advice on how to fix it. Many of us have been around the block once or twice and know what works after screwing up. 😉 Hope to hear from you soon! Cheers!

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**Author:** ![MikeMan22](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikeman22/32/332_2.png) [@MikeMan22](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MikeMan22)\
**Post date:** [December 17, 2008, 6:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24034/3 "2008-12-17T06:44:36Z")

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Hey, welcome to the forum.. Please tell us more about your age, and your personality.. You say your gf of 3 years that you just bought the ring for left you, how long ago, and what do you know about “sancho” Are you shy? There are different products that may assist you, but you need to make sure your in the right situation also for things to work.. Pheromones or not, some things wont change.. Let us know some more details and we can try to help from there

Best of luck,

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**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\
**Post date:** [December 17, 2008, 8:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24034/4 "2008-12-17T08:27:50Z")

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hi there,

Welcome.

Try some ammo. It will make her attracted to you. It has a mild sexual attraction too.

IFM is also good to make her closer to you. She will feel calm, comfortablae and relax beside you. She will want to stay longer by your side.

Good luck to you. Wish you win her back

CHeers

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**Author:** ![isavedlatin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/f05b48/32.png) [@isavedlatin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/isavedlatin)\
**Post date:** [December 17, 2008, 8:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24034/5 "2008-12-17T08:58:13Z")

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> [@Mr.Feel\_Good](#):
>
> Hey there Christopher and welcome to the forums! Wow, that’s a pretty fancy christmas gift! I think we can give a bit of help, but you have to understand that pheromones dont work miracles. They just send out a subtle vibe, if you will, that you will have to act on. That being said, let’s get a bit more information about you.
> 
> First off, how old are you? What kind of personality do you have, shy or outgoing? What kind of personality does your ex-girlfriend have? Did you want a product for pretty much just this occasion, or something you could wear again afterwards? This information will let us give you the best product for your situation, as well as help qualify you for that gift certificate.
> 
> Oh, and if you wanted to let us know what caused the break-up in the first place, maybe we could give some advice on how to fix it. Many of us have been around the block once or twice and know what works after screwing up. 😉 Hope to hear from you soon! Cheers!

i’m 21. i’m outgoing most of the time but can be shy when i first meet someone. as of recently i’m not that shy when i meet anyone. i’m a chivalrist, i’ve always open the doors for her everywhere we go, i would pay when i could, write her poems, all that jazz.  
she’s a very out going girl. she loves to dance. she’s got an amazing personality and everyone she meets enjoys her company. i’m just looking for that occasion, but i’ll use the rest of it after of course. i won’t let it go to waste.  
the reason for the break up is;  
on november 1 we went to a big concert called fabulous festival. it was an electronic/techno concert that she was really looking forward to and the mayor even declared it fabulous day on nov 1. we decided we didn’t want to pay for drinks at the show because they’d be too expensive so we (me, her, and one of her good friends) got 3 bottles of md 20 20 because they;re so cheap and get you nice and drunk. we drank the first before we left, the second in the parking lot. we started to share the third in the show, then i got separated from the people i came with and the people we met up with. so i took out my phone to call my girl and found it was dead. so i walked around trying to find them, drinking the third bottle of md 20 20. i was lost for around 2 hours, i finished the bottle and when i was looking for them i found xanex instead. so i took one and then i found them. when i saw her i started yelling at her for leaving me and not looking for me, for ditching me. and if there was anything that i should not have said i said it. i don’t really remember much of that. all i remember really was finding them and her punching me in the face.  
i woke up the next morning in her room on the floor, and after charging my phone i saw i had alot of text messages from her telling me she missed me, asking me where i was at, telling me where they were at, why i wasn’t answering my phone. after reading those i found out that while i was yelling at her, i also hit her. that is something that i promised her i’d never do and would never want to do. i told her if i ever did to leave me.  
the day after i hit her we went to another concert together, one we’d been waiting for for a while. i took her, and we met that same friend there as well as a few other people we didn’t know were going. so me, her, her friend, and her friends friend hung out the whole time. then his friend got a ride home with someone else, the three of us ate some mcdonalds then decided to go home. she lives on his side of town and we were on mine so i asked him if he could take her home to save me some gas money. what a big mistake, i trusted that guy. i had known him for almost as long as i’d known her, had always been around with his girlfriends and gone to alot of parties with us. but when i trusted him to take her home, he abused that trust and the situation that he saw happen the night before and decided to take her out instead of taking her home. and since that night everythings been all screwed up. no matter how much i appologize she won’t even listen to it. if only i had taken her home that night it wouldn’t have given him the opportunity to take advantage of a bad situation i created.  
so i’m hoping that maybe this stuff will make her instinctivly feel that i’m the alpha male and come back. she even knows that i’m better for her than me. but she just won’t forgive me, so she picked up a rebound.

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**Author:** ![isavedlatin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/f05b48/32.png) [@isavedlatin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/isavedlatin)\
**Post date:** [December 17, 2008, 9:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24034/6 "2008-12-17T09:33:03Z")

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> [@jamesbonded](#):
>
> hi there,
> 
> Welcome.
> 
> Try some ammo. It will make her attracted to you. It has a mild sexual attraction too.
> 
> IFM is also good to make her closer to you. She will feel calm, comfortablae and relax beside you. She will want to stay longer by your side.
> 
> Good luck to you. Wish you win her back
> 
> CHeers

thanks i hope i do too

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**Author:** ![Mr.Feel\_Good](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.feel_good/32/1148_2.png) [@Mr.Feel\_Good](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Feel_Good)\
**Post date:** [December 17, 2008, 9:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24034/7 "2008-12-17T09:37:12Z")

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Well ok then… let’s take this a bit at a time, hmm? First off, i HAVE to get on your case for the xanax… you should always check the food and drug interactions on any drug you take. Here’s what it says for xanax:

Alcohol is an important interaction. Alcohol and benzodiazepines such as alprazolam taken in combination have a synergistic effect on one another which can cause severe sedation, behavioral changes and intoxication. The more alcohol and alprazolam taken the worse the interaction.

Sound familiar? You said you dont remember any of what happened during the rest of the show and acted in ways you would normally never. Just thought i’d point that out to prevent any future occurences. Ok, moving on.

For pheromone suggestions, my first pick would be [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). I know you’ll want to steer towards A314 for that Alpha male vibe, but it would be a mistake. Alot of people find that it creates a more distant respect, whereas IG creates a mature, smooth man type of vibe… kind of a male provider, if you will. I believe that is more what you should be looking for right now. Remember, most of the time the Alpha male is more aggressive, which is not what you want her thinking about right now.

Instant Honesty would work well here, since it creates a feeling of connection and facilitates deeper conversations. Hopefully it would help her admit whats going on and what she hasn’t been forgiving you for. She did talk to you the next day, so something must have happened since, or else she changed her mind.

Instant Shine wouldn’t be a bad option either… it gives off a “healthy glow” to others around you and has been known to boost confidence. Pretty much a good option for any time.

I believe that should do it for now. But take it slow and see if you can get her to meet you over coffee, without her rebound man there. Establish a sense of intimacy and privacy, then see if she won’t open up. I won’t lie, hitting a loved one is going to be a tough thing to overcome, but there’s always hope. Oh, and i dont remember if i mentioned this or not, but just keep in mind pheromones dont work miracles. They give you an edge and help you out, but the saying around here goes “10% phero’s, 90% you.” So keep your eyes open and your wits sharp, sir. Good luck!

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**Author:** ![isavedlatin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/f05b48/32.png) [@isavedlatin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/isavedlatin)\
**Post date:** [December 17, 2008, 9:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24034/8 "2008-12-17T09:43:42Z")

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> [@Mr.Feel\_Good](#):
>
> Well ok then… let’s take this a bit at a time, hmm? First off, i HAVE to get on your case for the xanax… you should always check the food and drug interactions on any drug you take. Here’s what it says for xanax:
> 
> Alcohol is an important interaction. Alcohol and benzodiazepines such as alprazolam taken in combination have a synergistic effect on one another which can cause severe sedation, behavioral changes and intoxication. The more alcohol and alprazolam taken the worse the interaction.
> 
> Sound familiar? You said you dont remember any of what happened during the rest of the show and acted in ways you would normally never. Just thought i’d point that out to prevent any future occurences. Ok, moving on.
> 
> For pheromone suggestions, my first pick would be Instant Gentleman. I know you’ll want to steer towards A314 for that Alpha male vibe, but it would be a mistake. Alot of people find that it creates a more distant respect, whereas IG creates a mature, smooth man type of vibe… kind of a male provider, if you will. I believe that is more what you should be looking for right now. Remember, most of the time the Alpha male is more aggressive, which is not what you want her thinking about right now.
> 
> Instant Honesty would work well here, since it creates a feeling of connection and facilitates deeper conversations. Hopefully it would help her admit whats going on and what she hasn’t been forgiving you for. She did talk to you the next day, so something must have happened since, or else she changed her mind.
> 
> Instant Shine wouldn’t be a bad option either… it gives off a “healthy glow” to others around you and has been known to boost confidence. Pretty much a good option for any time.
> 
> I believe that should do it for now. But take it slow and see if you can get her to meet you over coffee, without her rebound man there. Establish a sense of intimacy and privacy, then see if she won’t open up. I won’t lie, hitting a loved one is going to be a tough thing to overcome, but there’s always hope. Oh, and i dont remember if i mentioned this or not, but just keep in mind pheromones dont work miracles. They give you an edge and help you out, but the saying around here goes “10% phero’s, 90% you.” So keep your eyes open and your wits sharp, sir. Good luck!

yes i’m well aware about xanax and alcohol. i’ve takent hem with alcohol many times, it’s just when something upsets me that…well i guess it kinda takes away my reasoning and i do whatever it is that my anger leads me too.

i thought we had a good time the night after i hit her, but she did seem distent, and she had broken up with me the night before. but i didn’t think anything like this would happen

and rebound man is too sure of himself. he sent me a message on myspace telling me to back off and asking me why i couldn’t see that she wants nothing to do with me. but she still calls me and texts me at least once a day. i’m starting to think it’s just her showing me that i hurt her really bad by hurting me really bad.

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**Author:** ![isavedlatin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/f05b48/32.png) [@isavedlatin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/isavedlatin)\
**Post date:** [December 18, 2008, 2:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24034/9 "2008-12-18T02:26:57Z")

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so do i get a gc? because i really need one to buy this stuff. i spent most of my money holiday shopping and on that ring. 25$ would help alot! please thank you

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [December 18, 2008, 10:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24034/10 "2008-12-18T10:42:51Z")

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Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂

Yes you get a GC, sorry for the lateness its a busy time of year here.

I would really like to tell you that mones will work for you in this situation but they wont. Once you hit her you sealed your fate whether it was brought on by the alcohol and xanex or not. There is no mone in the world that will make her forget that.

You can try though so I am sending out Your GC and I highly recommend that you stick to upbeat socials and calming mones like Ishine IO and IFM.

You will put off a aggressive vibe with the sexual mones and this will send her running form the hills because you have already displayed that side of you.

**Your GC is on its way** 🙂

Tisha

_PS… we are not doctors and any medical advice given is not endorsed by Androtics whether it is correct or not._

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**Author:** ![isavedlatin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/f05b48/32.png) [@isavedlatin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/isavedlatin)\
**Post date:** [December 26, 2008, 10:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24034/11 "2008-12-26T10:11:50Z")

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> [@tisha23](#):
>
> Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂
> 
> Yes you get a GC, sorry for the lateness its a busy time of year here.
> 
> I would really like to tell you that mones will work for you in this situation but they wont. Once you hit her you sealed your fate whether it was brought on by the alcohol and xanex or not. There is no mone in the world that will make her forget that.
> 
> You can try though so I am sending out Your GC and I highly recommend that you stick to upbeat socials and calming mones like Ishine IO and IFM.
> 
> You will put off a aggressive vibe with the sexual mones and this will send her running form the hills because you have already displayed that side of you.
> 
> **Your GC is on its way** 🙂
> 
> Tisha
> 
> _PS… we are not doctors and any medical advice given is not endorsed by Androtics whether it is correct or not._

ummmmm, i accidentally deleted the email with the code for the GC. i was just about to purchase some items and when i looked at my emails i couldn’t find it. would it be too much trouble to, maybe, resend one maybe? you can check, i never used the code i was sent before

and just to let anyone who cares know, i gave the ring to her on christmas, but she told me that she couldn’t accept it because she’s in a relationship and she’d feel as if she’d be using me. she wouldn’t feel right if she took it and couldn’t return the affection that i was showing her. so i’d like to buy some stuff for when i go out and maybe meet someone new just to take my mind off of her and help me get over her.

if you can resend; thanks  
if you can’t; thanks

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [December 27, 2008, 3:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24034/12 "2008-12-27T03:12:13Z")

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I sent a PM to you with your code. Have fun

Tisha

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**Author:** ![isavedlatin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/f05b48/32.png) [@isavedlatin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/isavedlatin)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2009, 1:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24034/13 "2009-01-06T01:56:38Z")

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ok, so i just received the products that i ordered. i bought ammo and instant shine, but was also given a trial spritzer of instant openness. i haven’t used it and will not have a chance to use it until february third. because that is my birthday. and i’m going to take that girl that i mentioned previously out to eat sushi, as it’s her favorite. so i’m going to use these that day, maybe before…if an opertunity arises i’ll try it sooner. if i happen to get a date with some other girl by the time my birthday rolls around then i could see how it makes girls react towards me.

and i work graveyard shifts, yesturday i worked from 7pm to 7 am. i just woke up and was in a really crappy mood- i always am..since she left. then i got the mail and my order was in it. i opened it, opened the bottles and smelled them. the ammo smells really nice, and the instant shine doesnt really have a scent that i can smell(it might, but i’m kinda sick, so my nose is stuffy), and honestly, for some reason i seem like i have more confidence. is that the pharamones? i didn’t even use it, i just smelled it.

also…should i use all three at once? or should i just use the ammo and instant shine, or the ammo and instant openness? with the three that i have, what is the best combination?

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2009, 1:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24034/14 "2009-01-06T13:27:14Z")

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Yes that is the mones that make you feel more confident. Plus its always exciting to get a package LOL

Start with one at a time so you can get a feel for what each one does then you can layer them in combos.

AMMO and Ishine is a favorite combo but AMMO and IO is to so its up to you and what effect your going for.

Tisha

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**Author:** ![xev](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xev/32/1993_2.png) [@xev](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/xev)\
**Post date:** [January 6, 2009, 2:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24034/15 "2009-01-06T14:40:42Z")

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> [@isavedlatin](#):
>
> so i’m hoping that maybe this stuff will make her instinctivly feel that i’m the alpha male and come back.

She won’t if she has any intelligence at all…I’m afraid in your case, adding the pheromones will be like putting a bow tie on a pile of shi\*t.
