# New guy!! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 1, 2009, 6:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24417 "2009-01-01T06:48:54Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![JUNIOR](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/junior/32/1483_2.png) [@JUNIOR](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JUNIOR)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2009, 6:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24417/1 "2009-01-01T06:48:54Z")
Hello everyone!! First off, i want to wish everyone a Happy New year!! I’m JUNIOR, I am a 27 year old blk/white (mixed) athletic built male from Houston, TX…I am new to this whole [pheromones](https://a314.com/) ordeal and want to get some good advice from you “Pheromone Veterans”. I am basically looking for something to get me to open up more and to become a more outgoing person…Lots of people tell me a have a “mysterious” type personality because i am a very reserved type of person that doesnt speak much unless i know you…Dont get me wrong, when i drink, i can become the life of the party lol! I dont have a lot of time to go out much because im constantly working 13 hour shifts…but when i do go out, i could use that extra boost of confidence (without having to drink of course)…any advice? I want something to kind of help “break the ice” if you will…Once i get the woman’s guard down, i can pretty much handle it from there…breaking the ice is the only problem unless im drinking in which i end up doing something silly that makes her laugh…Also, it wouldnt hurt to get her a little “aroused” while im at it…Any advice would be greatly appreciated…thanks guys… ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2009, 12:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24417/2 "2009-01-01T12:10:49Z")
Hi there, Welcome to the forum. Happy New Year to you too. To break the ice, use the ice breaker IO. IO can make people want to talk to you. It can make you more approachable. Shine will also help. It can lift your mood and can gives you the confidence to approach people. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) will add the attraction. Girls will be attracted to you. It can also sexually arouse the girls too. Have fun ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2009, 2:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24417/3 "2009-01-01T14:01:01Z")
Hello JUNIOR Good to have you here in Pherotalk so welcome 🙂 Happy New Year to you too 😃 It is great that you are keen on trying pheros here 🙂 Ok for your situation, i agreed with my buddy jamesbonded(Happy New Year buddy 😃) on his recommendations there 🙂 [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) will help you there in making conversations much more better, longer & smoother thus it is an icebreaker in conversations while Instant Shine will help boost your confidence up plus it make you & the people around you feel good/comfortable & AMMO will help you in sexual attraction plus it has a lot of good feedback here btw 🙂 Wish you all the best in trying the pheros there & see ya 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![chicagokid1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/53a042/32.png) [@chicagokid1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chicagokid1)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2009, 7:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24417/4 "2009-01-01T19:55:33Z")
Welcome to the board buddy, Your personality sounds just like mine. Let me tell you pheros def will help things out for you. Instant openess / instant honesty are both great at making conversations flow alot easier. For some reason i get more outgoing when i wear a314. I seem to take charge and people actually look to me to do so. Ammo is great for attraction. Give em a shot and report your results on the board. Dont forget now that your a registered user you have access to the search funtion its great for getting background info on some of the pheros. good luck 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![JUNIOR](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/junior/32/1483_2.png) [@JUNIOR](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JUNIOR)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2009, 9:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24417/5 "2009-01-01T21:27:34Z")
Thanks guys…i will look into the instant openess, shine and ammo…when wearing the pheromones, does the age of the women you are going after make a difference on how she will react to the pheromones?? I tend to go after older women (Cougars rock!!) so should i apply more or less compared to younger women? The type of places i ususally go to are bars, pool halls, lounges, ocassional house parties..you know, places that dont get too packed to where i have to yell in order for someone to hear me…I go to clubs every now and then but thats just not my cup of tea… ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2009, 1:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24417/6 "2009-01-02T01:27:00Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 IO Ishine and AMMO are perfect for your objective. IO is a ice breaker, Its fun comfortable and chatty, Can make approaching by you easier and others more receptive as well as increase approaches from others. Ishine for a Charismatic warm uplifting shine. It can really boost your confidence to. AMMO for a sexy mildly arousing attractive vibe. **Your GC is on its way.** If you have questions just ask. Happy New Year Tisha ---
**Author:** ![JUNIOR](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/junior/32/1483_2.png) [@JUNIOR](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JUNIOR)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2009, 1:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24417/7 "2009-01-02T01:43:56Z")
Thanks Tisha…once the GC arrives i will be ordering my first batch…i think the instant openness will help more with the younger women…the older women pretty much let you know what they want and dont play games so i really only need ammo for them, but ill mix it with instant shine to top it off…this endeavor should be quite interesting!! Glad i stumbled upon this site…great people!!! ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2009, 4:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/24417/8 "2009-01-02T04:10:52Z")
Your Welcome, I sent it out to your email already so be sure to look in your spam box as well as your regular email in case it went there. If you run into trouble finding it let me know. Tisha