# New Guy **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 6, 2011, 2:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/49732 "2011-04-06T02:59:35Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![JeepinGoody](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/3ab097/32.png) [@JeepinGoody](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JeepinGoody)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2011, 2:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/49732/1 "2011-04-06T02:59:35Z")
Hi im matt 21y/o, just here to learn about [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/), i bought a couple already, instant openness, shine, and honesty. just trying to find the best ones for me, any suggestions? ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2011, 3:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/49732/2 "2011-04-06T03:33:06Z")
Hey there Matt and welcome to PheroTalk!!! You have the social line up already, nice! 🙂 When I first started using mones, I bought IS in a togo and started testing it out. Then, I started posting on the forum. Mones will provide a chemical signal to others around you, that signal will influence others feeling and by extension, their thoughts of you. Well, I say… the best ones for you…mmmm… that is a loaded question! 🙂 I appreciate that you stated your age, now, can you let us know a bit about your personality? What do you want to accomplish with these mones or any mones for that matter? Hey, there is sooo much to learn around here and the forum is built for the diffusion of experiences as well as the research of all things mones!!! You want to learn about mones… you are at the right place! Check ya later! ---
**Author:** ![JeepinGoody](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/3ab097/32.png) [@JeepinGoody](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JeepinGoody)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2011, 4:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/49732/3 "2011-04-06T04:29:41Z")
> [@1Alpha](#): > > What do you want to accomplish with these mones or any mones for that matter? I mainly would like to get passed the “just friends” stage ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2011, 1:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/49732/4 "2011-04-06T13:19:43Z")
Hi Matt. IS and IH would be my choice for getting beyond - You don’t tell us the age of the girl/s you are interested in tho. However, the socials are generally most applicable to to younger women. You may also want to consider [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) as it has a little, well moderated amount of none and you should also consider aspects of sexually attractive behaviour and changing your approach to them. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Johnny\_Gslinger](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/johnny_gslinger/32/748_2.png) [@Johnny\_Gslinger](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Johnny_Gslinger)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2011, 6:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/49732/5 "2011-04-06T18:44:45Z")
> [@JeepinGoody](#): > > I mainly would like to get passed the “just friends” stage Hi Jeepin, you might want to take a look at this first > [@How to find your sweet spot...](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-your-sweet-spot/22146): > > Lately I have been getting a lot of calls from guys and gals unsure what the forum members mean when we say “sweet spot.”:stuck\_out\_tongue: Here’s a very simple way to find your individual sweet spot for each consumer line product like: Ishine IH IO AMMO A314 TUTH and so on. It’s very easy to do and I hope this guide offers you the assistance you need. When applying the pheromones, please ensure that you are using only one (1) [pheromone product](https://a314.com/shop/) at a time. This step is extremely importan… For mones I’m just like you, hoping it’ll “help me get past the just friends stage”. So far the products that I’ve found easier to work with and helpful to me (also easier to recognise hits) are Ammo, TUTH, IS and IO. Thankfully I’ve met several other awesome forumners who’ve been helping me along in my journey It’s more than pheromones that’ll help you in your quest to go beyond “just friends” it involves a change in your mindset/mentality and an active effort on your part to progress beyond the “just friends” stage I think one question you have to ask yourself too is “How Bad Do You Want It” Pheramones can open that door for you, but you gotta learn how to step out. Sometimes the girls will step right in, but you ain’t gonna see that happen everytime I would recommend doing some reading up, go google various gurus such as David Deangelo, Nick Savoy and Carlos Xuma. Their material combined with pheramones make a pretty deadly combo. I’m no expert and my journey has only just begun, but I’ve already started to see the effects. ---
**Author:** ![JeepinGoody](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/3ab097/32.png) [@JeepinGoody](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JeepinGoody)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2011, 3:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/49732/6 "2011-04-07T03:39:52Z")
I have no problem meeting girls, just every time i want more even something as a simple date. i always get “just as friends right??” thats what i want to get passed ---
**Author:** ![Johnny\_Gslinger](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/johnny_gslinger/32/748_2.png) [@Johnny\_Gslinger](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Johnny_Gslinger)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2011, 4:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/49732/7 "2011-04-07T04:16:20Z")
Yup, its a combination of not only meeting them but attracting them and having staying power. Giving them the feel and going it right that you’re an attractive male/mate, and not just someone who’ll just “be a friend” > [@JeepinGoody](#): > > I have no problem meeting girls, just every time i want more even something as a simple date. i always get “just as friends right??” thats what i want to get passed ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2011, 6:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-guy/49732/8 "2011-04-07T18:40:11Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk JeepinGoody! You are already getting some great advice and recommendations so all you need to do now is get your products and start testing. The men will continue to guide you on your journey. **Your gc was issued! 🙂**