# new here from nj need help making my first order... **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 4, 2007, 7:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-from-nj-need-help-making-my-first-order/5398 "2007-09-04T07:08:57Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![j1mmy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/eb9ed0/32.png) [@j1mmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/j1mmy)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2007, 7:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-from-nj-need-help-making-my-first-order/5398/1 "2007-09-04T07:08:57Z")
hi im new on the forums. my name is jimmy i am from newjersey and 20 years old. i just started my soph year in college and i am looking for something to get my self out there. im not suree which pheromone would be best to try to help me overcome my shyness. i am thinking come talk to me unless there is a better one out there for what i need ? i am still very new to [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) and the forum itself so any help would be greatly appreciated. thanks in advance -jimmy ---
**Author:** ![Mohammad\_Shah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mohammad_shah/32/873_2.png) [@Mohammad\_Shah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohammad_Shah)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2007, 8:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-from-nj-need-help-making-my-first-order/5398/2 "2007-09-04T08:13:59Z")
Hi Jimmy! You can consider these products which might help you too: **Instant Openness, [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/), Spaceland & Instant** **Honesty**. Personally, I called these “communication pheromones”. The ability to communicate well is the key factor in every success! 🙂 Welcome to the forum and good luck!🙂 ---
**Author:** ![bubblebob](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bubblebob/32/2120_2.png) [@bubblebob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bubblebob)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2007, 9:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-from-nj-need-help-making-my-first-order/5398/3 "2007-09-04T09:09:11Z")
Hey j1mmy, Mohammad already suggested great products for communication. For something that can give you a little boost in confidence I’d look into IS - it makes you (and others around you) feel good, and therefore more confident. Have fun bb ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2007, 9:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-from-nj-need-help-making-my-first-order/5398/4 "2007-09-04T09:19:16Z")
Hello welcome to the forum 🙂 If your shy communication mones are great like Mohammad mentioned above IO IH CTTM I think would fit best. But Bob is right about [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) as well it really is one of my favorites. My suggestion would to be to also get a little ammo. Its a good well rounded mix with a sexy edge. Can be worn to work or school and smells really good. So I suggest for a first order you get IO Instant Shine and Ammo. Get them in the to-go bottles the first time around. This will help save you money and you can test and see what works best for you. Read the stickies in the mens section. They will help alot in deciding what you want. Jas will be around soon with the GC’s, she does them in groups. Good luck. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Fra\_Septimus](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fra_septimus/32/692_2.png) [@Fra\_Septimus](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fra_Septimus)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2007, 11:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-from-nj-need-help-making-my-first-order/5398/5 "2007-09-04T23:28:13Z")
Welcome, Jimmy. I was extremely shy myself, but when I was in college (“Dad, did they have rocks when you were a kid?”) I wasn’t aware of any “personality enhancers” like pheromones. Good luck and let us know what works for you! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2007, 11:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-from-nj-need-help-making-my-first-order/5398/6 "2007-09-04T23:58:53Z")
I recommend Ammo, Instant Shine, [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/), Instant Openness and maybe Instant Gentlemen.