# New here, not sure what to expect **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 12, 2013, 6:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-not-sure-what-to-expect/60638 "2013-12-12T18:29:30Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Spiralout1988](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/65b543/32.png) [@Spiralout1988](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Spiralout1988)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2013, 6:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-not-sure-what-to-expect/60638/1 "2013-12-12T18:29:30Z")
Hey everyone! I’m new here and new to pheramones as well. I decided to finally post so I can get the gift card haha… and of course learn some new things along the way. I work at a production company filming and editing outdoor television shows. I have some instant honesty a friend of mine gave me awhile back but havn’t yet used it in a daily social setting. I almost forgot I had it until making this post. haha I wonder if y’all have a product that is focused on giving men the freedom to do as they choose within reason. I have been having trouble getting over what people think of me especially when I interact with women. Not much the women themselves I am involved with but the people that are not involved. I feel like they are watching me and judging me. I’m sure it happens all the time. I’m having trouble getting over this and it’s limiting my social vibe I honestly feel. Anyways, I’ll be lurking around… checking out some posts. Thanks for having me! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![ryanmercer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ryanmercer/32/1569_2.png) [@ryanmercer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ryanmercer)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2013, 6:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-not-sure-what-to-expect/60638/2 "2013-12-12T18:54:37Z")
Hello! I wonder if y’all have a product that is focused on giving men the freedom to do as they choose within reason. I have been having trouble getting over what people think of me especially when I interact with women. Well my friend… I think I’ve a suggestion. I use Instant Shine with [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) and get a James Bond type feeling. I get out of my shell with Instant Shine and find myself engaging strangers more and just generally being more pleasant (those around me too), I also find strangers somewhat more likely to initiate contact with me such as a smile/hi/nod in passing. With Instant Gentleman I find myself slipping into a different persona, if you’ve ever seen the TV series Chuck, I’m like Chuck but with Instant Gentleman I feel like I’ve ‘flashed’ and the intersect has me operating smoother and more confident. ---
**Author:** ![Himeros](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/himeros/32/2325_2.png) [@Himeros](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Himeros)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2013, 9:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-not-sure-what-to-expect/60638/3 "2013-12-12T21:26:38Z")
Hey spiral, welcome to the forum! If you’re having trouble with negative self-talk and always are worrying what people think about you, I would suggest Ammo Summer Edition. It’s the same sexy formula as the regular Ammo, but with TAA and P130 added. TAA is the main component of [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and P130 is know for it’s anxiety killing properties. SE always puts me in a very relaxed mood. Personally I’m too self-concious all the time too… While wearing mones I just feel more carefree 🙂 Androsterone based products like IG and A314 also give me a huge confidence boost, so you can also go with ryan’s suggestion. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2013, 11:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-not-sure-what-to-expect/60638/4 "2013-12-20T23:52:56Z")
Welcome spiralout, This is a super informal and not so tailored response if you will. I would luuuuuuuv to spend more time assisting you especially since you are a newbie. We are short staffed and these gift certificates are done manually. It takes a great deal and I am back logged. I am hoping that when I catch up on my work, I can start answering these intro threads the way I use to In fact, I am hoping that soon, someone more experienced than me can come in so I get to do what I am great at, customer service. Thank you for giving [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) a chance. Your gc was issued!