# New Here! Pheromones for Confidence Boost after Getting out of 14yr Relationship F/49 **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 9, 2017, 5:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-pheromones-for-confidence-boost-after-getting-out-of-14yr-relationship-f-49/67161 "2017-05-09T17:32:56Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Shadesofgrey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e95f7d/32.png) [@Shadesofgrey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Shadesofgrey)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2017, 5:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-pheromones-for-confidence-boost-after-getting-out-of-14yr-relationship-f-49/67161/1 "2017-05-09T17:32:56Z")
Hi, I’m new to all this. Just getting out of a 14 year relationship and looking for a confidence boost. I was thinking of trying a few trial sizes. Any input is appreciated! ---
**Author:** ![chrisepz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/d07c76/32.png) [@chrisepz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chrisepz)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2017, 12:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-pheromones-for-confidence-boost-after-getting-out-of-14yr-relationship-f-49/67161/2 "2017-05-10T00:55:50Z")
Hi, welcome. I haven’t tested any of the women’s products but the journal section has a lot of reports you can gather info from. I hope you enjoy your stay in phero land! ---
**Author:** ![Jdub](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jdub/32/1399_2.png) [@Jdub](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jdub)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2017, 4:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-pheromones-for-confidence-boost-after-getting-out-of-14yr-relationship-f-49/67161/3 "2017-05-10T04:59:43Z")
You can also try looking at justintime469’s journal in the men’s section. He has tested the women’s products. With that being said, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) is a good confidence and mood booster. ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [May 11, 2017, 6:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-pheromones-for-confidence-boost-after-getting-out-of-14yr-relationship-f-49/67161/4 "2017-05-11T06:54:43Z")
Welcome to PheromoneTalk, Shadowsofgrey! 🙂 Your introductory GC is now in your email and it’s ready for use. 🙂 Getting out of that relationship is kinda draining. I will recommend you begin with our socials. The IShine in particular. Gives off a happy confidence vibe. 2 sprays will get you started. I recommend you get the fragranced version(Neroli), instead of the Nude. IOpenness’ friendly vibe will help you in engaging others into a conversation, and IHonesty would certainly bring that convo into a deeper, intimate level of exchanges. And then to boost your attractiveness, the ISEXIB. All of these you can try by getting the Instant Female Wardrobe, an introductory kit for women. I also suggest a visit on the women’s forum particularly somechick’s journal and the likes. I’m sure you’ll find great combos in there to help you tackle your particular concerns. 🙂 Happy Pheroing! 🙂 ===================== _ **Disclosure:** I’ve edited your thread title from **“New Here! Looking For Input”** to **“New Here! [Pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) for Confidence Boost after Getting out of 14yr Relationship F/49”** for topic clarity and forum readability. It’ll also generate more “reads” to your thread. If you want to opt-out simply let me know. Thank you!_ ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2017, 1:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-pheromones-for-confidence-boost-after-getting-out-of-14yr-relationship-f-49/67161/5 "2017-05-21T13:04:59Z")
> [@Shadesofgrey](#): > > Hi, > I’m new to all this. Just getting out of a 14 year relationship and looking for a confidence boost. > I was thinking of trying a few trial sizes. > Any input is appreciated! Hi Shadesofgrey and Welcome! I have tested some of the women’s pheromones even though it may sound ridiculous just to have a better understanding of what they actually do and to be able to help some of the newer members just like you to become successful. They are in my journal and the link is below to easily find them if you are interested in seeing from a guys point of view what some of the women’s pheromones can do. What I would do to start is to look at the **Female Wardrobe** as they will have the very basics and must haves you need to get started. What I would do is first thing is the test both the [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) versions and would start with IS/B first. I suggest this because IS/A is more in your face commanding type where the IS/B is more a cute and slightly softer vibe. This is the very first place you will want to start and use the one that fits you best and one of these will be the main pheromone you will want to use for attraction. The other 3 are socials, but just as important and they are IO, IH, and IShine. After you test the IS/A and IS/B I would probably test the IShine because you can not go to wrong with it. The IShine will put everyone in a good mood and will boost your confidence and is good for any environment and situation. IO is an ice breaker and is good for meeting people initially and will open them right up to you and get them chatty. So when going out I would try either IS/A and IO or IS/B and IO. This will get things going for you and open people right up. IH is more deep/bonding connection. What I would do here is say you meet someone and you do want to take things farther and see where they go. I would switch out the IO and use the IH with either the IS/A or IS/B. What this will do is make things more meaningful and deep and a huge plus is this will help get a guys true feelings out of him so you know where he stands. I hope this helps you out and if you have any questions at all please ask as this board is to help everyone and we all have a story so feel right at home. What has kept me here all this time is how helpful and friendly it is here with no one judging as we all have different goals and we all support each other in whatever our personal goals are. I would also look at Brasileira’s journal in addition to Somechicks as well. ---
**Author:** ![Shadesofgrey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e95f7d/32.png) [@Shadesofgrey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Shadesofgrey)\ **Post date:** [May 23, 2017, 6:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-pheromones-for-confidence-boost-after-getting-out-of-14yr-relationship-f-49/67161/6 "2017-05-23T06:20:08Z")
> [@justintime469](#): > > Hi Shadesofgrey and Welcome! > > I have tested some of the women’s pheromones even though it may sound ridiculous just to have a better understanding of what they actually do and to be able to help some of the newer members just like you to become successful. They are in my journal and the link is below to easily find them if you are interested in seeing from a guys point of view what some of the women’s pheromones can do. > > What I would do to start is to look at the **Female Wardrobe** as they will have the very basics and must haves you need to get started. What I would do is first thing is the test both the Instant Sexiness versions and would start with IS/B first. I suggest this because IS/A is more in your face commanding type where the IS/B is more a cute and slightly softer vibe. This is the very first place you will want to start and use the one that fits you best and one of these will be the main pheromone you will want to use for attraction. > > The other 3 are socials, but just as important and they are IO, IH, and IShine. > > After you test the IS/A and IS/B I would probably test the IShine because you can not go to wrong with it. The IShine will put everyone in a good mood and will boost your confidence and is good for any environment and situation. > > IO is an ice breaker and is good for meeting people initially and will open them right up to you and get them chatty. So when going out I would try either IS/A and IO or IS/B and IO. This will get things going for you and open people right up. > > IH is more deep/bonding connection. What I would do here is say you meet someone and you do want to take things farther and see where they go. I would switch out the IO and use the IH with either the IS/A or IS/B. What this will do is make things more meaningful and deep and a huge plus is this will help get a guys true feelings out of him so you know where he stands. > > I hoe this helps you out and if you have any questions at all please ask as this board is to help everyone and we all have a story so feel right at home. What has kept me here all this time is how helpful and friendly it is here with no one judging as we all have different goals and we all support each other in whatever our personal goals are. > > I would also look at Brasileira’s journal in addition to Somechicks as well. Thank you so much! Wow! Incredible information and insight from so many and I appreciate the details used in your post. Thank you again! Kathleen ---
**Author:** ![CelticPrince](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/celticprince/32/397_2.png) [@CelticPrince](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CelticPrince)\ **Post date:** [May 23, 2017, 10:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-pheromones-for-confidence-boost-after-getting-out-of-14yr-relationship-f-49/67161/7 "2017-05-23T22:28:07Z")
Hi Shades, Welcome to the forum. I see that you have received some good suggestions from the folks..But maybe you could give us a little more info about yourself to help us make some good suggestions? Like what are your goals? What do you like to do? Type of guys you are into? Are you more aggressive or demure? Once we know you better we can fine tune some suggestions for you. Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [May 26, 2017, 11:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-pheromones-for-confidence-boost-after-getting-out-of-14yr-relationship-f-49/67161/8 "2017-05-26T11:21:48Z")
> [@Shadesofgrey](#): > > Thank you so much! Wow! Incredible information and insight from so many and I appreciate the details used in your post. Thank you again! > Kathleen I seen I put “I hoe this helps” and I meant “I hope this helps” LOL sorry for the error.