# New here - saying "Hello!" **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 3, 2010, 8:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-saying-hello/39797 "2010-07-03T20:50:08Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![scottaz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e36b37/32.png) [@scottaz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/scottaz)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2010, 8:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-saying-hello/39797/1 "2010-07-03T20:50:08Z")
Hey everyone- Obviously, I’m new here 🙂 I’m 39 years old and live in Arizona. Came across this site after a few recommendations. Right now all the info seems a bit overwhelming – tons of products, mixes and usage – but I’m hoping to learn what I can soon. My story: been separated from my wife for over a year, things are not looking good. We have been married about 15 years, and I’m just a bit unsure of the dating scene these days. I’m primarily looking for a little “boost” to my approachability and confidence, and perhaps some help with the “icebreaking” as well. There seems to be a ton of positive vibes going on here, so I’m looking forward to getting started! ---
**Author:** ![jessejester](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jessejester/32/1683_2.png) [@jessejester](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jessejester)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2010, 9:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-saying-hello/39797/2 "2010-07-03T21:39:58Z")
Hello Scott, Wecome to the forum. I am sorry to hear about your marriage. The good thing is tere are products here that are right up your alley. For a bit of an “edge”…AMMO is something you should look into. It is the best of all worlds. It is sexy, social, and masculine. It is one of the bast attraction products on the market. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) is great for confidence boosting. It is also a mood lifter for you and the people around you. Combine it with AMMO and your confidence will soar. It was one of my combo’s when I first started using phero’s. I also combined it with IO which we refer to as the “icebreaking Phero”. It greatly improves your appraochability, as well as inspires you and the people to conversate. All 3 together is just an awesome combo. You have found a great company with products that work. The proof is in the thousands of threads in the forum. Please let us know what you decide, and please come back and tell us your results. Good Luck! ---
**Author:** ![ClintX2](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9e8a1a/32.png) [@ClintX2](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ClintX2)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2010, 2:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-saying-hello/39797/3 "2010-07-04T02:10:58Z")
Hi scottaz!, For confidence I would suggest A314 It really gives you a status vibe and “confidence” boost. I have not only gotten but personal effects from it (I feel unstoppable when wearing it) but it also affects the ladies and I have seen some definite interest from them while wearing it For approachability I would suggest Instant Shine. It gives a carefree fun vibe (it just makes people feel happy). Who doesn’t want to be around someone who is happy? =P For an Ice breaker I’m going to repeat Jessejester (again) and say [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). It really helps open people up to you. When I use it I see people opening up their body language to me (they will turn their body towards me, shake their feet at me, flip their hair…etc). It’s like they’re telling me that they want me to approach them Hope this helps ClintX2 ---
**Author:** ![Vespero](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vespero/32/988_2.png) [@Vespero](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vespero)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2010, 2:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-saying-hello/39797/4 "2010-07-04T02:11:27Z")
Welcome to the forum, scottaz. I also have sympathy for your situation, and hope things work out for the best. Jessejester beat me to the recommendations and covered everything I probably would have suggested. Thus, I would just like to give you a warm welcome and let you know that you’ve found a community of friends who will offer you whatever advice and knowledge you need to help you with your newfound [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) tools. I look forward to hearing about your experiences! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2010, 10:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-saying-hello/39797/5 "2010-07-04T22:49:47Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones and you can speak to him personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![scottaz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e36b37/32.png) [@scottaz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/scottaz)\ **Post date:** [July 5, 2010, 4:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-saying-hello/39797/6 "2010-07-05T04:27:20Z")
Thanks guys for the warm welcome!! I am definitely going to take all the advice to heart. Thinking about starting with AMMO, IS and IO, then going to A314 after a bit of experimentation. Seems to be the way to go 🙂 Again, just wanted to say thanks and I’ll let everyone know the results!!