# New Here, Willing to Give Pheromones a Shot to Change/Improve My Life. 30/M/AZ **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 14, 2016, 4:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-willing-to-give-pheromones-a-shot-to-change-improve-my-life-30-m-az/65760 "2016-03-14T16:16:43Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 19\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![pnt12140](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/439d5e/32.png) [@pnt12140](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pnt12140)\ **Post date:** [March 14, 2016, 4:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-willing-to-give-pheromones-a-shot-to-change-improve-my-life-30-m-az/65760/1 "2016-03-14T16:16:43Z")
Hi, I’m new here. Trying to make some serious changes in my life, and with many of the posts on this forum talking about the “life-changing” potential of [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/), I figured I’d give it a shot. I feel like I’ve been ignored my whole life – men, women, colleagues, friends. Many of my co-workers don’t take me seriously, I get the impression that most people think I don’t know what I’m doing, and that they can make decisions for me. It’s very tough for me to make friends with people, or even just to have simple conversations. I’m married (7 years!), but I feel like my wife has no respect for me, and she definitely isn’t attracted to me. It is a very sad way to live your life. So, I decided that I wasn’t gonna be that guy anymore. Dropped some cash on a new age-appropriate wardrobe so that I look like a guy with a decent career instead of a pizza delivery guy (nothing wrong with pizza delivery guys, but it’s not a good look if you’re really a university professor). That’s been a pretty big confidence booster for me. When I go to work, I’m getting more compliments. That’s nice. I started experimenting with fragrances, which is something I was never interested in before. That’s sort of what got me interested in the possibilities of pheromones. I was browsing through some fragrance reviews on Amazon, and I found one called “Raw Chemistry” which claimed to be pheromone-infused. The reviews seemed promising, so I ordered it. I don’t know whether the pheromones work, but it definitely smells _great_ and my wife has been just a little more affectionate. Subtle, but noticeable. The Raw Chemistry thing was an impulse buy, so I decided that before I tried anything else, I’d do a bit more research on whether or not human pheromones are legit. I stumbled across Athena and bought some of their aftershave additive (it hasn’t arrived yet), and then I found this forum. I spent a few hours browsing around and reading about people’s experiences with the Androtics products, and they seem pretty promising. I ordered a few things to start – mostly the little “to go” versions, just to try out. I got TUTH, A314, IS, IG, and IO. I thought I ordered Ammo as well, but looking over the invoice, I guess I forgot to add it to the cart! Oh well, ha. Maybe for my next order. Anyway, I ordered them on Friday, and I suspect that they’ll arrive this week. I know these things aren’t gonna be pure magic in a bottle and instantly solve all my problems, but I do hope that they’ll provide me with a much needed boost. Based on everything I’ve read, I have pretty high expectations, and I am absolutely beyond excited for my order to arrive. Can’t wait to try this stuff out! ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [March 14, 2016, 5:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-willing-to-give-pheromones-a-shot-to-change-improve-my-life-30-m-az/65760/2 "2016-03-14T17:48:54Z")
Hi pnt12140, Welcome to this forum. Thanks for the great detailed introduction. It’s good to see you already ordered some products. You will definitely benefit a lot from IG and A314 as far as respect and status are concerned. You’ll find IG will make you appear as wise and dependable. With A314, you’ll send out a leadership vibe. With those products, people should stop making decisions for you and start asking you for advice. Plus, IG might make you ‘the man of the house’ once more with your wife. TUTH is a great sexual pheromone. It can help bring back passion in bed, for sure. Just start out slow with it. Instant Shine will boost your mood as well as other people’s too. It will make you more approachable. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) is a good all-around ice breaker for social purposes. You might want to try Instant Honesty with your wife eventually, it will help to try and reconnect to a deeper level if you somewhat lost that over the years. Ammo would be a good companion too as it sends out a charming and sexy vibe that ladies love. Please tell us about your results by starting a journal in the men’s section. You will be eligible to a 25$ gift certificate to help you with your next buy. If you have other questions, please ask. ---
**Author:** ![HankBuddy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/f04885/32.png) [@HankBuddy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HankBuddy)\ **Post date:** [March 14, 2016, 6:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-willing-to-give-pheromones-a-shot-to-change-improve-my-life-30-m-az/65760/3 "2016-03-14T18:10:47Z")
Hey Pnt, welcome to the forums! And really, thank you for sharing that about yourself. Folks here are very non-judgemental and are willing to help you out in anyway possible. The first thought that came to mind was that you needed a serious shot of [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/)! This is an awesome product and will garner you more respect from your colleagues, family, and spouse. This is one that I think you should wear almost daily, so definitely consider a 30 ml bottle on your next purchase. It’s hard to explain the effects this product has on other people, but you should see a change in people’s behavior for the better. You will come across as a smart guy who has his shit together. With a spray of Instant Shine, people will really enjoy hanging out with you. After wearing IG and IShine for a week (to let people get used to the “new you”), you can switch IShine with IO or IH. Either one will help you develop your communication skills, but I have a sense that you would be better suited for IH than IO. In fact, IG with IH might be helpful in establishing better communications with your wife. After she gets accustomed to your new scent and her perception about you shifts, start having heart-to-heart conversations with her. Again, give her at least a week for this shift to happen. It won’t happen immediately like you see in the movies. It takes time. Patience is important. I recommend starting a journal so that you can keep track of what you used, dosage, and how people responded. This will help determine what to use next. Given your situation and circumstances, I’d recommend using IG until you develop significant respect from those around you. When you see this happening, you might be able to add A314 and let both IG and A314 be your base. I don’t recommend using A314 at first. You’ll really need to act the part if you start wearing A314. Otherwise people won’t believe you. IG is a good way to build your confidence and self-esteem so that you become in alignment with the required persona of A314. Good luck! Definitely keep us posted through your journals. Folks here will likely offer recommendations and suggestions if you get stuck. ---
**Author:** ![Spectrum](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9fc29f/32.png) [@Spectrum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Spectrum)\ **Post date:** [March 14, 2016, 7:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-willing-to-give-pheromones-a-shot-to-change-improve-my-life-30-m-az/65760/4 "2016-03-14T19:42:37Z")
Hi, Welcome to the forum. I think A314 is key for you. Start with A314 +IS for 2 weeks first. Know your sweet spot. and ajust doses. Then you may add TUTH to it when inside bedroom. Keep posting and take care ---
**Author:** ![pnt12140](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/439d5e/32.png) [@pnt12140](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pnt12140)\ **Post date:** [March 14, 2016, 8:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-willing-to-give-pheromones-a-shot-to-change-improve-my-life-30-m-az/65760/5 "2016-03-14T20:25:29Z")
Wow, thanks for the welcome and all of the excellent advice! I just received the notification that my shipment is on the way, so that’s good. I’ll try to start a journal after they get here. Really interesting that one of you says to start with A314 right away, while someone else says to start off with IG and then add A314 after awhile. Honestly, it’ll be really hard to resist the urge to get overeager and go nuts with them, but my plan (for now) is to start out with IG and IS, throw on a little TUTH when the lights get low, and work the A314 in, along with the IO. One thing that I read is that these don’t work as great in areas with high temperatures and low humidity. And I live in the middle of the desert, where it is 100+ from April to November, with practically no humidity. Is there a reasonable way to counteract this? Maybe just an extra spray or something? ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [March 14, 2016, 9:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-willing-to-give-pheromones-a-shot-to-change-improve-my-life-30-m-az/65760/6 "2016-03-14T21:02:44Z")
Actually, it’s better to start by trying each product individually first to get acquainted with the specific effects. Then find your best dose for each. Then proceed with basic two-products mixes and see what works well for you 🙂. In my opinion, it’s the best way to understand each product, this will be the key to help you fine tune your mixes in the future. With your journal, we’ll be able to provide continuous support to get you started and I’m sure you’ll become a valuable member of this friendly community. I am looking forward to reading your results. Good luck. Desert? For A314 oil, you need not to worry. They are the best for such climates. Spray products, they might burn faster, yes. Reapplying product throughout the day is an option. You’ll have to experiment though 🙂. I don’t have experience with such climates. ---
**Author:** ![HankBuddy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/f04885/32.png) [@HankBuddy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HankBuddy)\ **Post date:** [March 14, 2016, 9:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-willing-to-give-pheromones-a-shot-to-change-improve-my-life-30-m-az/65760/7 "2016-03-14T21:26:16Z")
Yeah, Conjurator is right about testing each product individually first to get a feel of what’s working and what’s not. That’s the most sensible thing to do. Now, we all know what is really going to happen. We’ve all done it. My first order was IShine and IG. I went bonkers with them. I then ordered a bunch more products and went bonkers with them too. It took me about two months to get the excitement out of my system. By that time, I started testing products more methodically, one at a time. I found out what really worked for me, and which ones I can do without. So, you can save yourself two months and some money by testing methodically, being a curious scientist. Or you can just have fun, but be prepared for some accidental overdoses, bad reactions, or no reactions. Whatever you choose to do, we’re here to help you out as much as we can. I’m seriously interested in reading your experience with IG, especially in a university setting. Many doors should start opening for you. ---
**Author:** ![pnt12140](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/439d5e/32.png) [@pnt12140](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pnt12140)\ **Post date:** [March 14, 2016, 10:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-willing-to-give-pheromones-a-shot-to-change-improve-my-life-30-m-az/65760/8 "2016-03-14T22:48:29Z")
Ah, fair enough. I’ll start out with one at a time. Makes much more sense that way, anyway. Combining too many at once, it’d be hard to say which products are causing which effects. One last Q for now. I was planning on starting with IG, then. But anyway, the wife and I will be driving across the country starting the day after my order is scheduled to arrive. We’re taking the week to go and visit family. I know that different situations call for different products, but between IG and Ishine, is one more suited for being stuck in a car with someone for 2 days straight? ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [March 14, 2016, 11:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-willing-to-give-pheromones-a-shot-to-change-improve-my-life-30-m-az/65760/9 "2016-03-14T23:11:14Z")
Ishine 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![HankBuddy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/f04885/32.png) [@HankBuddy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HankBuddy)\ **Post date:** [March 14, 2016, 11:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-willing-to-give-pheromones-a-shot-to-change-improve-my-life-30-m-az/65760/10 "2016-03-14T23:19:10Z")
I might use IG only. You could do both because IShine is fairly short acting, 2-3 hours. IG lasts for 6. So after the first three hours when IShine wears off, you’ll have a good idea of IG solo. However, IShine tends to make some users tired, even sleepy. If you’re driving, keep this in mind. Drink lots of coffee. Or skip IShine until you get to your destination. It’ll be interesting to note her behavior during the drive while wearing IG. When you’re finally able to add IShine to IG, you can note how differently she behaves then. This will give you a good idea of what you to try next after you get back home. Given your age, one spray of each might be sufficient. With IG, you probably could get away with two sprays, but start with one and see if you notice anything. (I use two sprays, and that dosage seems right for me.) With IShine, you can go pretty darn high, but watch for the tiredness after a few hours. Most people stick with one or two sprays. ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [March 14, 2016, 11:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-willing-to-give-pheromones-a-shot-to-change-improve-my-life-30-m-az/65760/11 "2016-03-14T23:23:36Z")
Hank is right about the risk of crash with IS. Maybe try it a few times without a long distance to drive and see if you get the crash effect. I seldom get crash with IS, but I know it’s often reported by users, so I guess I’m lucky. ---
**Author:** ![HankBuddy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/f04885/32.png) [@HankBuddy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HankBuddy)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2016, 1:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-willing-to-give-pheromones-a-shot-to-change-improve-my-life-30-m-az/65760/12 "2016-03-15T01:30:16Z")
> [@Conjurator](#): > > Hank is right about the risk of crash with IS. Maybe try it a few times without a long distance to drive and see if you get the crash effect. I seldom get crash with IS, but I know it’s often reported by users, so I guess I’m lucky. Yeah, I’m one of those who experiences a crash after using IShine, which is why I use it sparingly. I had the same experience with [MX297](https://a314.com/product/mx297/) recently. I’ll have to write about that one in my journal. ---
**Author:** ![pnt12140](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/439d5e/32.png) [@pnt12140](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pnt12140)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2016, 12:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-willing-to-give-pheromones-a-shot-to-change-improve-my-life-30-m-az/65760/13 "2016-03-17T00:58:54Z")
Alright! Order came today – a full day earlier than initially expected. Currently sporting IG. Some obvious (I think) self-effects, but effects on others has been less noticeable. I’ll start a detailed journal tomorrow, after I’ve had time to reflect on how the first day went! Anyway, thanks everyone for all the advice. ---
**Author:** ![HankBuddy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/f04885/32.png) [@HankBuddy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HankBuddy)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2016, 2:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-willing-to-give-pheromones-a-shot-to-change-improve-my-life-30-m-az/65760/14 "2016-03-17T02:18:07Z")
> [@pnt12140](#): > > Alright! Order came today – a full day earlier than initially expected. Currently sporting IG. Some obvious (I think) self-effects, but effects on others has been less noticeable. I’ll start a detailed journal tomorrow, after I’ve had time to reflect on how the first day went! Anyway, thanks everyone for all the advice. That’s great! Now, keep in mind that it will take about a week to see any significant hits from people who already know you. Their perceptions about you won’t change overnight. It’s like wearing a clothes from a new wardrobe. It’ll take time for them to get used to the new you. Sometimes the change in other people’s behavior is gradual and subtle, but it will accumulate over time, so keep at it. You can also try it out with people you don’t know. See if they do things or say things that you haven’t experienced with strangers before. That would be a true test. A coffee shop, a restaurant, the grocery store. If you’re not seeing anything different from strangers, up the dosage by a spray the next day. ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2016, 2:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-willing-to-give-pheromones-a-shot-to-change-improve-my-life-30-m-az/65760/15 "2016-03-17T02:30:05Z")
Great to see you got started. I’ll be looking out for your journal. ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [March 18, 2016, 1:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-willing-to-give-pheromones-a-shot-to-change-improve-my-life-30-m-az/65760/16 "2016-03-18T01:42:47Z")
Hi pnt12140, Welcome to the site. I am also here in AZ in the hot desert. I would suggest **Men’s Ultimate Kit** as you would get everything to try. Now that A314 is in stock the kit does come with the Spray version just make sure to check and verify this. If I were you and looking to make a purchase this would be the way to go. With the $25GC the kit would be $125 and you would get free shipping and you may qualify for the free weekly putative also which is another $25-40 freebie to try so you can’t go wrong here. A314 you will definitely want as it will command the respect you are looking for. ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2016, 10:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-willing-to-give-pheromones-a-shot-to-change-improve-my-life-30-m-az/65760/17 "2016-03-19T10:45:57Z")
Hi pnt! Welcome to PheromoneTalk! I issued you already a GC but put a block on it until you responded to the GC I just dropped into your inbox. 🙂 Kindly check it out now. 🙂 Happy Pheroing! 🙂 ======== _ **Disclosure:** I’ve edited your thread title from **“New here, willing to give it a shot 30/M/AZ”** to **“New Here, Willing to Give Pheromones a Shot to Change/Improve My Life. 30/M/AZ”** for topic clarity and forum readability. It’ll also generate more “reads” to your thread. If you want to opt-out simply let me know. Thank you!_ ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2016, 2:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-willing-to-give-pheromones-a-shot-to-change-improve-my-life-30-m-az/65760/18 "2016-03-29T02:37:58Z")
Hi pnt! Thank you for responding to my PM! 🙂 Your GC is now active and ready for use. 🙂 Happy Pheroing! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2016, 7:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here-willing-to-give-pheromones-a-shot-to-change-improve-my-life-30-m-az/65760/19 "2016-11-05T07:59:37Z")
Hi pnt! I noticed you’ve ordered months ago. But haven’t used the GC . Well, in case you are planning to make one big order soon, don’t forget about your GC . You can still use it. And hey, how about creating a journal? We’re excited to know about your exciting [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) adventures over there, you know? Happy pheroing!