# new here **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 11, 2008, 1:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/17290 "2008-08-11T01:05:09Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![xev](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xev/32/1993_2.png) [@xev](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/xev)\ **Post date:** [August 11, 2008, 1:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/17290/1 "2008-08-11T01:05:09Z")
Hello all: I just joined this forum and am curious to learn more about pheromones and experiment a bit with them. And let’s see, I am female, 41, and live in Illinois. I haven’t tried any [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/) yet, but I’m planning to order a couple of smartmones products if I get a gift certificate. Maybe one for the dh as well 🙂 xev ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [August 11, 2008, 1:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/17290/2 "2008-08-11T01:18:00Z")
Hello xev It’s great to have a female member on board here so welcome 😃 Good to hear that you have a keen interest in pheros here too 🙂 Ok so can you tell us what you hope to achieve by using pheros here & what kind of effects you hope for your targets so that we can help you better in recommending the right pheros for your situations 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [August 11, 2008, 1:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/17290/3 "2008-08-11T01:27:53Z")
Hey sweetie! Welcome to the forum, it’s great to see more gals joining in the fun 🙂 Now what effects or reactions are you lookin’ for? It’ll help us recommend you stuff. I suggest every lady to try out [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/), it’s a confidence booster and definately makes you feel good about yourself! > [@A break down of IS/A and IS/B](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-break-down-of-is-a-and-is-b/17112): > > Okay, now I’m going to give a break down of is/a and is/b … IMO ofcourse wink Is/a with cops (I used is/a with eow) There’s gonna be alot of staring lol. Guys just want to scan you but most wont initiate unless you’ve got instant openness Makes you feel in control Guys who like a little challenge, or admire stronger girls are more into is/a Men do admire you, they are more polite, you are respected and taken seriously. When I wear is/a I feel like a sexy business woman in a bla… Here’s a report that I did on both is/a and is/b, I think it may help you choose which product to try. But I say, if you get both in to-go size, try them both (but for now, only is/a comes in a to-go bottle —sorry for the confusion. Is/b only comes in full size at the moment too)🙂 Have fun! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![xev](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xev/32/1993_2.png) [@xev](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/xev)\ **Post date:** [August 11, 2008, 1:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/17290/4 "2008-08-11T01:29:04Z")
Well, I am married, so I am not trying to pick up men (though turning a head now and then wouldn’t make me cry…). I am just generally curious as to what affect the more sexual [pheromones](https://a314.com/) might have on the dh and I. I was thinking about trying instant shine, instant sexiness, and maybe ammo for the dh to try out. Would this be a good place to start? xev ---
**Author:** ![Lady\_D](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lady_d/32/1530_2.png) [@Lady\_D](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lady_D)\ **Post date:** [August 11, 2008, 1:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/17290/5 "2008-08-11T01:38:58Z")
Hi Zev- I am new too and not sure if I should even be responding to your post. But I am also married and feel the same way - while I want this to work in my relationship and also at work, I totally would not mind turing a head or two or three! LOL! I alos think I may want to get one or two for hubby - hell it can’t hurt right???😃 I wish you the best and look forward to your posts since you are starting around the same time and are also married, etc. Best of luck! Ii think I am addicted to reading the message boards:o Lady D ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [August 11, 2008, 1:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/17290/6 "2008-08-11T01:39:50Z")
> [@xev](#): > > Well, I am married, so I am not trying to pick up men (though turning a head now and then wouldn’t make me cry…). I am just generally curious as to what affect the more sexual pheromones might have on the dh and I. I was thinking about trying instant shine, instant sexiness, and maybe ammo for the dh to try out. Would this be a good place to start? > > xev Ok i have checked your situation Xev & i would recommended you Instant Sexiness A or B as this is a must have for the ladies here & Turn Up The Heat & [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) as it is suitable for intimate relationships 🙂 Instant Shine can be used to make people feel comfortable with you & boost your confidence if you consider about getting it 🙂 But i suggest you wait for Lady Tisha AKA Tisha23 to visit your intro & give you a full explaination in Instant Sexiness as well the other pheros that i have recommended there as she is the most experienced in pheros here & she will be the one issuing you your $15GC as well 🙂 See you 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [August 11, 2008, 1:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/17290/7 "2008-08-11T01:41:25Z")
Hi Xev, welcome to the forum. All of the products you mentioned would be excellent! The [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) that msselva mentions should also be something to consider… Enjoy your stay… ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [August 11, 2008, 5:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/17290/8 "2008-08-11T17:35:41Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Hey its great that you and your hubby can do this together. Mine dosnt like to wear scents of any kind so even though I have bought him some he dosnt wear them much. I think AMMO would be great for him. It smells really good on a man. [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) is one of the forum favorites for the ladies. Msselva provided a link to help you decide between A and B. Ishine really is a must have and both you and your hubby can use it. It says mens on the bottle but its unisex. It really brightens up the day of there wearer and those around them. If you have any questions just ask. **Your GC will go out shortly** 😃 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![xev](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xev/32/1993_2.png) [@xev](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/xev)\ **Post date:** [August 11, 2008, 6:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/17290/9 "2008-08-11T18:32:57Z")
Thanks so much Tisha! I already spent my GC, LOL. I bought instant shine, instant sexiness a, and instant openness. I also got instant female magic – I thought that might help relax me when work stress interferes with home life. Also got the dh some [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/). xev ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [August 11, 2008, 10:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/new-here/17290/10 "2008-08-11T22:31:57Z")
Your Welcome, Wow great order, you are going to love the smel of AMMO on your hubby. Mine wont use it but I spray it on the guys at work (they are my test subjects LOL) and boy its a little different on each of them but it smells amazing on them. It smells great in the bottle to but there is just something about it on a man. If you need help with your products just pop on down to the ladies section and ask. We have alot of fun there. Tisha